Expert: Sam E - 12/24/2006

Question
thanks for answering my first question so quickly. im stuck between what to do at the moment even though we finished two weeks ago i cant get her out of my head and the longer im out of touch with her the more i spiral into depression.i still cant get over the way the situation was handled by her. whats the easiest way to get over this sort of thing thanks in advance

Answer
It takes time to move on. Just make sure you are not sitting home alone allowing yourself to get depressed.  Go hang out with the buds.If you have family near by surround yourself with them. The point is not to dwell on the pain and anger but to try and move forward.
Focus on yourself and making your life better! Go back to school, work out, whatever it takes to get your self esteem back.
Lastly, you have to come to terms with this. There is nothing you can do. Is done and moving on is the only way to go from here. You can’t change what has already happened. You were burned, but you will survive and move ahead. The best revenge is to make yourself as happy as possible. You will get over this.
Hope this helps you!
Sam