Expert: Don - 10/30/2007

Question
What are some things women can do to make a man happy? (Assuming this is a man that genuinely loves you, not a player, womanizer, cheater, user, etc) Oh yeah and I'm also talking about clinically SANE men - no psychos. (oh what fun they are at first...until you find out what they're really like)

But ok. Let's say you're in a relatoinship with a guy for a while and/or married or in a relationship leading to getting married etc...

what are some things the woman can do to keep the man happy with her? i see all these women like jennifer aniston getting dumped for angelina etc...but it happens in real life all the time too not just celebrity people.

like how do you stop having other women seduce your guy away?

every guy i've been with has cheated on me and left me for another woman...i dont take it personally...just wanna know what i did wrong...

i guess being good in bed is one thing...but there are women who are great in bed and STILL have their men stolen away...by women whom they build a stronger emotional, intellectual connection with...

do you think this is due to the possiblity having many different levels of attraction?

like there are some men that i find physically or sexually attractive...others charismatic, nice personality...and others intellectually stimulating...like a smart nerdy guy who is ugly yet totally turns me on. id like to find a man with ALL those qualities...but good men (and women) are hard to find as we all know.

last...do you think there is some one out there for every body?

im tired of being alone :( I'm a really hot chick...i should be getting guys all the time, but i'm not...

oh yeah...and I'm 25...what do you think is the oldest and youngest age range of men that I should successfully date without clashing radically?

because an 16 year old and a 95 year old have different outlooks and experiences obviously...

sorry for the multi part questions...just wondering

Answer
First step to finding a lasting relationship is finding a guy that you have different levels of relationship with and have things in common with. You need to attracted to him physically, mentally and emotionally.

You also have to make sure you stay the same throughout the relationship in all aspects. You can't nag the guy, you. Being good in bed can't hurt. Don't pick fights with him, try to be support of things he wants to do. And just stay positive with the guy.

You keep another woman from taking your man by being the perfect woman for your man.

The youngest you should date is around 23 actually and the highest around 31. You don't want to date a guy to young because they aren't as mature for an older woman and aren't prepared for a real relationship.

I believe with 6 billion people in this world, there has to be at least one person out there for everybody, there are to many people out there for you not to find at least one decent guy.

I hope this helped