Expert: Don - 10/9/2007

Question
Hello!!

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 9 months now. After about 6 months of us going out this girl who i had real interest in started talking to me on the net and i started thinking about what it would be like to meet up and stuff so i started to suggest things to her, she sounded really up for it but then a couple of days after i couldnt do it. I really love my gfnd and she means alot. I know this girl quite well and i dont think she would say anything to my gfnd, she has had the chance many times to tell her but hasnt but started talking to me again on the net last night, she started saying it was all me that suggested it and that she had the proof in saved conversations on her computer.........What should i do? I feel terribly guilty!

Answer
I wouldn't do anything, if the girl really wanted to tell your girlfriend she would have told her by now, she wouldn't tell you she was going to tell you and then tell her. I think she is just trying to scare you into telling your girlfriend, but don't fall for it, it's just a trick.

So don't say anything and if she does tell your girlfriend, just deny that it ever happen and plus you never actually cheated, so your girlfriend can't even get mad.