Expert: Don - 5/16/2007

Question
I live with my boyfriend of a year and recently two friends (a boy and a girl) from our hometown came to visit. I went to work for four hours one night and asked my boyfriend to only have a beer or two till i get home. when i got home he was sitting on the couch with the other guy and the girl was passed out on a bed. The guys were sober but said the girl freaked out and was acting suicidal. When my boyfriend and i were alone i asked if he kissed her and he said yes just a peck on the lips. Then two weeks later he confessed they made out three times. I consider that cheating. I am extremely angry and cannot get over it. I love our lives together but dont know if its worth it. When i confront him he says he would never let it happen again, and then yells at me for not dropping it. I fear that i have brought it up so much if he ever did cheat he wouldnt tell me, and If he did i would surely leave him. I need help.

Answer
Just go ahead and break up with him, he already cheated on you by your own definition when he made out with that woman a few times.

He also seems to have an anger issue if he is yelling at you for voicing your complaints about him kissing another woman.

So just avoid all the trouble and leave him now, you know he is up to no good anyway