Expert: John Mayer - 8/22/2004

Question
My Girlfriend has just told me that this coming weekend she is going to a three day festival with her ex!

I asked if she wanted to go, but either she wasn't listening or didn't let on, as her reply was no she was working. She never asked if I wanted to go.

How do I handle this?I think that something sneeky is happening here!  What questions should I ask?


Answer
Mr Anderson,

Id appreciate it if you rated my answer.

Thanks
John





Mr Anderson,

Sorry for the long delay! Its primarily Allexperts fault as they took like 3 months to approve my profile. OK and now on to your question..

First off why is your GF going away for the weekend with your EX? Such behavior would not be condoned by your GF if the tables were turned therefore its easy to deduce that there is definitely something wrong in your relationship. You dont hint to your age however I estimate you are of a early age , as her behavior is extremely immature and disrespectful to you.

In your situation I find it best to take the direct approach. You need to confront her and ask her straight to her face : What are your intentions with your EX? Are you involved with him now or have you been seeing him? You need to set a tone of power and not let her take advantage of the situation.

If you do what ive suggested you will get the answer you unfortunately have coming to you.

I hope this helps.

Again sorry for the delay.
Dave