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How do you ever trust again after all the lies? (He is verbally abusive and emotinally abusive, not physically. He has an explosive temper. )
What to do to increase my self-esteem ?
TJ
If you have a partner that is verbally and emotionally abusive to you, you are better off not trusting them. They never get better without some kind of therapy, they only get worse. The best way to increase your self esteem is to get out of a situation where they are always saying you are not good. They have self esteem problems themselves. But they make themselves feel better by making someone else feel worse.
Good Luck
Peggy
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| Comment | Thank you. I will consider self-esteem classes and yes, I realize that a cheater will not usually change their ways. | ||
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Peggy
Expertise
I can give advice on low self esteem, keeping your sanity in an abusive relationship, and leaving abusive relationships. I can also give advice on dealing with alcoholics, cheating mates, and co dependency issues.
Experience
I have been able to help others by giving them the courage and strength they need to make necessary choices in their lives. I feel a great deal of accomplishment each time I see someone with a smile, that I use to see only with tears.
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