Expert: Don - 5/6/2007

Question
i have a boyfriend of almost 3 years who i love very much and  who i have never cheated on before. Recently i was very drunk and suffered a blackout, and am unsure if i kissed a boy in a nightclub.. none of my friends saw any of this, but i remember talking to a boy and him repeatedly trying to kiss me but i am unaware of whether i kissed him or not. Now i am plagued with guilt, i have made a decision to cut down on my alcohol intake. should i tell my boyfriend? all this is very uncharacteristic of me.

Answer
Since you don't have any definite proof, that you did anything, I wouldn't bring it up to your boyfriend. You might be confessing to something that you didn't even do.

More importantly get your drinking under control. If you are drinking so bad you have blackouts, you have a problem. Also you'd avoid situations like this.

So don't confuse because you don't know that you did anything.

I hope this helped and good luck