Expert: RITA - 5/10/2004

Question
i cought my wife cheating, she said it was a one nite stand but the guys cell phone number was programed into hers. she didnt know his last name she said she first told me thay had sex in a field, but later said she went to his house but she could not remember his name or were he lived. Its been two years now sence this took place and im not so convinced that there was not more to the story then or even now what do you suggest i do to put this nightmare to bed  

Answer
HELLLOOO...earth to JIM!!! It's been two years, and you obviously have stayed with your wife during this time...it's time to move on and either put the past behind you or leave your marriage. Do you actually think after two years you're going to get a straight answer? You never will know for sure...and that's something you have to deal with or not.I'm sorry to be so blunt in this way, but you've allowed "this nightmare" to stay IN your bed....now start looking into the future and put the past where it belongs..in the past!!
Take care,