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This is hard. Im going to try my best to put it into words. The first day of my last period was Feb. 1, 2009. My boyfriend and I were together clear up until the last week of Feb. when we split (for just a week). I ended up hooking up w/ my ex-fiance the nite of Feb. 25th (It was Ash Wednesday). The next week, the boyfriend and I got back together. Bam, Missed my period. Ended up in the hospital and had a transvaginal ultrasound done. On the date of March 23rd, the doctor told me I was 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. Which puts me getting pregnant before I hooked up with my ex-fiance. right? So here's where it gets tricky. At first my OB told me my due date was Nov. 7th. Then he told me he never told me it was the 7th that its Nov. 15th. Could I have all gotten pregnant on Feb 25th? I mean that ultrasound that early in my pregnancy said I was 6 weeks and 2 days along. And I heard that its very accurate when ur that early in pregnancy. I hope I didnt confuse you. :(    Im due soon and really need answeres. Thanx so much.

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Casey,


Don't worry, you didn't confuse me at all.  Based on your ultrasound on March 23rd, your due date would be November 15th. This means you most likely conceived around Feb. 21st, before the date of intercourse with your ex.



However, while early transvaginal ultrasound is very accurate, usually within +/- 3 days, this margin of error is very close to the time you were with your ex.



So, while my money is on your boyfriend being the father, you'll need a paternity test to know for certain.




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Catherine

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I can provide evidence-based information and current research findings concerning childbirth and pregnancy. My specializations include natural childbirth, pregnancy and birth interventions, fetal positioning, labor induction, choosing a care provider, midwives, homebirth, unassisted birth, natural pain relief, medications in pregnancy and birth, informed consent, understanding the risks and benefits of childbirth choices, doulas, waterbirth, childbirth methods, childbirth education classes, cesarean section, and VBAC.

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I have been a childbirth educator, mother, author, public speaker, researcher, and birth advocate for the past 9 years. I am also the author of Giving Birth Naturally, a site dedicated to natural childbirth and pregnancy information. I publish evidence-based articles on pregnancy, childbirth, newborn care, and post-partum care. I'm also a mother of three children, two daughters and one son all born naturally. To learn more about what normal birth looks like, view the natural childbirth video of my son being born at home unassisted.

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My book, Birth Outside the Box, was published in 2007.

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I hold a Master's degree in communication disorders with an emphasis in child development. I am also an independent childbirth educator.

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