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The first day of my last period was August 23, 2008. I had unprotected with John on September 4. Then I had protected sex with Jack on Sept. 13. However, when Jack came w/the condom on, the condom stayed inside of me. He took it out w/all his come but you just never know. So, i was wondering if you could help me determine who my baby's father is. My doctor says it's John and going by the sonogram, it's also john. I guess what i really want to know is if there's a possibility that Jack may be the father. Thanks in advance for your help.

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Sorry for the delay in getting back to you.

A first trimester sonogram should give you fairly accurate information concerning your date of conception.

If you ovulated between Sept 3 and 9, then John is the father.  In order for Jack to be the father you would have to have ovulated between Sept 12 and Sept 18.

The most likely date for ovulation was probably Sept 6-7.  If a sonogram confirmed this, I think you can be confident that John is the father.  

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Dorothy H, LCCE

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As a certified childbirth educator and birth doula, I can answer questions dealing with preparing for birth, childbirth classes, pregnancy, what happens during labor and birth, doulas, VBAC, natural childbirth, cesarean birth, interventions in labor, labor, birth, helping someone through labor, concerns or fears about labor and birth, doulas, breastfeeding, and other topics dealing with pregnancy, labor, and birth.

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Since 2004, I have taught childbirth education classes focused on helping couples gain confidence, make decisions for their birth, and give them tools for helping them get the birth they want. Since 2004, I have also attended births in local hospitals as a birth doula (as of 8/10, I have attended 120 births) so I am able to see firsthand what is working in helping couples deal with labor. I am also a mom of five children, and have various birth experiences myself, including unmedicated birth and a cesarean.

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Lamaze International DONA International

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International Doula Magazine

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I am a Lamaze-certified childbirth educator. I am a DONA-certified birth doula.

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I work with approximately 4-6 couples a month with my childbirth classes. I attend 2 births a month with doula clients.

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