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Me and my bf have been trying for a year to get prego and it wouldnt happen, we had sex alot and im not sure what dates. i have my LMP on the 12th of feb that was the first day and it didnt last 3-4 days, i had sex with another man on the 11th of marcha nd he only put his penis iniside me 2-3 times and nevermore than a few mins. he did not cum in me or no where near me. i took a pregnacy test on the 14th of march bc i missed my period it was neg. i took another thest on the 27th of march in the later afternoon and it was pos i took another the next morning and it was pos. i have had sore boobs and im emotional and i have slight morning nausea. my qwestion is could i have gotten pregnant by my bf or by the mistake i made?
Even if the 2nd man didn't ejaculate, there is still semen present, and I can't rule out that he isn't the father.
If you get a 1st trimester ultrasound done, that should give you a clearer picture of when you actually got pregnant. Without that information, it is impossible for me to speculate as to who is the father.
Sincerely,
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Dorothy H, LCCE
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As a certified childbirth educator and birth doula, I can answer questions dealing with preparing for birth, childbirth classes, pregnancy, what happens during labor and birth, doulas, VBAC, natural childbirth, cesarean birth, interventions in labor, labor, birth, helping someone through labor, concerns or fears about labor and birth, doulas, breastfeeding, and other topics dealing with pregnancy, labor, and birth.
Experience
Since 2004, I have taught childbirth education classes focused on helping couples gain confidence, make decisions for their birth, and give them tools for helping them get the birth they want. Since 2004, I have also attended births in local hospitals as a birth doula (as of 8/10, I have attended 120 births) so I am able to see firsthand what is working in helping couples deal with labor. I am also a mom of five children, and have various birth experiences myself, including unmedicated birth and a cesarean.
Organizations
Lamaze International
DONA International
Publications
International Doula Magazine
Education/Credentials
I am a Lamaze-certified childbirth educator.
I am a DONA-certified birth doula.
Past/Present Clients
I work with approximately 4-6 couples a month with my childbirth classes.
I attend 2 births a month with doula clients.
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