Expert: Kit Goins - 4/6/2007

Question
I'm a girl and I was dating another girl, but I broke up with her because people have been telling me it's a sin to do that, we've dated online and never met each other in real life. Is it alright and is it a sin if I get back with her online since technically I'm not doing anything with her in real life and she's Christian, plus, unlike some sickos, we don't ''cyber''. We don't believe in doing things that nasty.

Answer
Greetings in the name of Jesus, the Christ..

You are probably not going to like what I'm about to say...but here goes...

Even though you have not done anything with her sexually in the physical sense or, for that matter online...I must tell you that it is still SIN in God's eyes.  WHY? you may ask?

Well there is a passage in the bible, in Mat 5:28

"But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart."

Now if you honestly look at what this verse is truly saying.. you would agree with it, and see for yourself that what you are now doing and/or allowing is also sin in God's eyes.

Therefore I don't need to explain further.

I hope this helps...
In His Service, and Love
Bro.  Kit