Expert: Reverend Ramona Carlene Stonecipher - 12/2/2010

Question
Hello
i am married since two years but we were always in dispute.My husband has a violent nature.Over a severe dispute, i left home for my security and that of our eight month old baby.However, three months has elapsed and my husband is getting more distanced from us.He does not want to reconcile.He is talking arrogantly about having several affairs and enjoying his bachelor life and does not visit us at all.I praying everyday for him to come back to us.He said its final he does not want us home anymore.

Please help me to pray for my family.i love hi, i just want him to change and stop being violent and arrogant.i want our family restoration.His name is jaisen and our child ahilan

thank you

vanessa

Answer
Dearest Vanessa,
You did the right thing by removing yourself and your precious child from a dangerous situation.  I know it's even more difficult when you still love this man. But, dear one, unless this man gets professional help with his rage, you and your child are in real danger.  Of course I will pray that your husband gets professional help - and I will pray that God will look after you and your child.  But Vanessa, you need to understand that God does not want you and your child to be in the midst of danger.  Let us pray that God will open doors for you and your child and help you to find happiness and security.  You must put your trust in God...., be wise, and understand that it is not safe to be with a man that has no respect for his wife and child.  I will pray for God's perfect will to happen in your life.

God be with you, my child.
Rev. Ramona Stonecipher