Is it wrong to pray to have an ex lover back in your life if you truly have faith in them?

Dear Keishia,

I prayed and asked God to give me the right words to say to you and this is what I believe you should know.  If this person is an ex lover, then apparently you may of had a sexual relationship with them outside of marriage and that in itself is against Gods will for our lives. I don't know where you or the other person in your are referring too are in your walks with Christ. I do know that you can't pray and ask God to open a door for you that can be a gateway or temptation for you. He loves you! So it is ok to always pray to The Lord for all things but you may not get the answer you want, and if not it was because God saw the bigger picture. You take care Hon and I hope this helps, love Sharman


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Sharman Castillo


Praise God, I can stand with you and believe God for your blessing. I can pray with you, when you need a friend. I have not studied at any Colleges but I have picked up the Word of God and read it for myself. His Holy Spirit will stand in agreement with us. If we pray according to His Word.


God is good and has brought me through may trials, whether self-inflicted or not. Our lives may seem hopeless but as long as there is breath in our lungs, there is always hope. I want Gods people to know this, as well as the lost. I remember I wanted to sing professionally for the Lord, but I did not have the voice to do it. I prayed and asked God to bless me in this area. I forgot that I had even prayed this prayer and two weeks later God supernaturally blessed me with an awesome voice. I believe God for the impossible, because He is the possible.

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