Expert: Daniel Kimbril Date: 1/1/2008 Subject: sexual orientation
Question What is your answer to sexual orientation? I am gay and also a Christian. I believe homosexual orientation is a curse from god from the sinful act of divorce of the parents. My sexual orientation is no choice I will guarantee that, why on earth would we want it? I know from a straight man of god you could never, never even come close to understanding that. Just imagine for once if I am right, whats gods answer to this? Yeah, your saying just be heterosexual..Sure, why don't you leave your wife and start having sex with a man, could you? I don't think so. Thats how it is for us to act a heterosexual life. I've tried it believe me. Is it gods will then for us to live without a partner and be unhappy and never have love, or companionship? Thats how I'm living, because I cannot satisfy a women nor can I succumb to homosexuality. This is a HUGE problem. 80% of all young peoples suicides are because they would rather die then be gay. Is that Gods plan? We have NO choice, how could we have been genetically made to be this way? I myself am very unhappy and have never nor never will know what it is like to love(sexually) someone. I have no reason to live, There is nothing I can do about it. I have been on my knee's crying to god to help me and make me straight, But its not going to happen and I have to accept that. This is Gods punishment, but towards the children. So do why burn in hell because of our sinful parents? You can't even begin to understand what we go through. Just try with an open mind, that maybe, just maybe there is nothing we can do about this. Then what? I have a close relationship with God and My mission from God is to educate others the truth on sexual orientation. Please reply
Answer First claiming to be a homosexual has nothing to do with divorce. It is possible to have a family or genetic curse run through a family that causes children to desire to be gay or homosexual. I think that it is a choice to feel the void of wanting to be loved. God doesn't make you straight he made you straight to begin with, you just have to choose to be. Ask your pastor to pray for you and bind any family curses or spirits over your family. In my experience both of these are the cause of homosexuality. Also don't try to satisfy until you are married to her. Be glad you are straight and God made you and that you are the apple of His eye and that He loves you very much. Matt 6:33 is a good verse to remember. If you have more question respond with a follow-up. Hope this helps
