Expert: Jaycie - 11/27/2008

Question
I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm Christian. Because of my religion, I don't plan to have sex before marriage. But does sucking dick count as sex? I've always thought that being Christina meant that I'm not allowed to have vaginal sex before marriage. I don't wanna ask my parents if sucking dicks counts as premarital sex because I'm not comfortable with talking about sex with them. Anyways, I've sucked 21 different dicks before (I count it) and I don't plan to stop because I love sucking dicks! I love the smell and taste of dicks and I once sucked off 3 guys at the same time. But the only dick I suck now is my boyfriend's and I suck it multiple times a day. I've always thought that sucking dick was okay but I started thinking about what premarital sex really is and now I'm worried if sucking dicks could count as premarital sex! So, does it? Because if it does count as premarital sex, I don't know if I'll stop sucking dicks... I'll feel bad that I'm sinning, but sucking dicks is one of my favorite things to do... Dicks are just so yummy and delicious to me! And the cum is so tasty! I just really love sucking them. So, am I sinning or not?

Answer
To me, this is a sin. Sexual relations of any kind before marriage is not a good thing. A lot of people would consider this oral sex, not the usual sex people think of. I know that it will be hard to stop but this isn't a good thing. You could really get hurt from this and could get an STD from someone and from doing it to a lot of people. Wait until you are totally with someone (in marriage) and then you can do it all you want. It's okay then. A lot of people would agree with me on the sin thing and I think that you do too because you asked. If you thought this was perfectly okay, you would just keep doing it without a second thought. But you asked so I think you know what to do.