Expert: Carl Fuglein - 6/18/2008

Question
Hi, i want to know regarding my problem which i m facing now a days, i dont know why i m getting Pre-Seminul Fluid when i speaking with my fiancee on phone & I dont speak with her any Bad things just related to work only...So what is the solution for this because one solution i know which is marriage but we are going to marry after 2 years & i want to know that is there any harm if its come again & again & what is the another solution for this excluding marriage...coz i tried alot but it is not working..please reply quickly Thanks

Answer
Zam-

It's nothing to worry about - you're young, and healthy, and just talking with your fiance, you get excited - that's a good thing, to be so in love with your fiance.  It's not physically harmful - if your body really needs to get rid of semen, you'll have a wet dream - your body's way of giving you some release.

You could masturbate, but I don't recommend that - if you started doing that on a regular basis, it could become addictive, and it's not the best sex you'll ever have in any sense of the imagination.  There's a lot of controversy as to whether masturbation is a sin or not, too, so I'd try not to go there.

I really don't have much other advice.  It's good for you to wait for sex until you're married - you won't regret it.  And don't worry about a little leakage - just proves that your body is working.

hope this helps.

blessings,
carl