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i just need your help on the way i can make GOD happy IN RELATIONSHIP

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emmanuel,

I am going to give you a set of scriptures that I hope will help. These scriptues will help you in those moments that you think you are going to think of women in a bad respect. I try to think of women my age as my sister. I think of older women as my mother and I treat younger women as I would treat my own daughter. This has always helped me in my life and my walk with God. I know that in our society it is hard not to have lust in our heart. You as a Christian have the power of Christ to help you in those times of lust. Use that power that you have to resist the temptation and trust in Christ to keep you from evil. The Bible is always able to answer our questions we just have to look.

The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. (1 Corinthians 6:13)
Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. (1 Corinthians 6:18)

Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body. (1 Corinthians 6:19-20)

We should not commit sexual immorality. (1 Corinthians 10:8)

For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. (1 Thessalonians 4:7)

You are to abstain from ... sexual immorality. (Acts 15:29)

Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry. (Colossians 3:5)

But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars - their place will be in the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death. (Revelation 21:8)

For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person - such a man is an idolater - has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. (Ephesians 5:5)

But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people. (Ephesians 5:3)

The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. (Galatians 5:19-21)

I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. (Galatians 5:21)  

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Dr Tim Gladu

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I can answer questions on most Youth and Teen issues as they pertain to what God has to say on the subject.

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I have been in Youth Ministry for more than twelve years and I have also raised 3 Teenagers myself.

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The Sarasota Academy of Christian Counselors National Christian Counselors Association

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Bachelor’s degree in Ministry, a Masters in Pastoral Counseling and a Doctorate in Theology, and Christian Counseling. Licensed Clinical Christian Counselor Licensed Clinical Pastoral Counselor Advanced Certification

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