Expert: Jaycie - 8/3/2008

Question
Hello i'm 17 and the girl ive been talking to for about 4 months is same age. when we meet we hit it off so well, everything was so perfect for months. we both really like each other but wanted to focuse more on college. shes going to a christaion college in oklahoma and im goin to mine in maryland. we havent gone out but we both have strong feelings for eachother. i honestly love this girl i belive everyday i pray to god for her to be in my life. ive never really had a girlfriend. the issue is that she is very into her christianity and she went to church one day and the prophet told her not by name the boy she is seeing will destroy her life. (which she thinks is me)now when she told me this she was very upset. we seem perfect for each other. after we meet up and talked about it she was not wanting me to go. but she did tell me she wnted god in herlife way more than me. shes going off to college now i jus need help figuring out if we are going to work out later in life. do you think that if its not meant to be now it will later in life with her? and i haventtalked t  her since about three weeks ago. also our prom pics she had up she took them off. does this mean shes trying to forget about me

Answer
Hello Brian,
Was she seeing you at the time? Was she seeing anybody? You said she is very religious and so are you so maybe you both need to pray and find out what it meant. You both need to find out if it would work at all. I recommend this anyway when you are in a relationship. It just helps you get on the right track with the person you love and it saves you a lot of heartache. So I say to pray, both of you, and ask if you should be together. You need to still talk to her. She might be trying to get other options by taking the pictures down. Just talk to her and ask her to pray and be open to whatever the answer is.