Expert: Jaycie - 8/16/2009

Question
Dear exp. Im laying in bed nw from a terrible dream that da devil was choking me,.. Im 19 and iv been saved 4 bout 5mths or so and i love the lord bt recently iv developed a crush on an engaged guy(28) and he likes me 2 and wev kissed a few times bt iv been trying 2push him away cuz i knw dis is wrong bcuz im encouraging adultery so automatically im getting involved in demonic things, i realy wana knw how 2stop this cuz im going 2get myself in trouble.we work 2geda aswel. Pls advice, thanx so much


Answer
I don't want to say for you to not overreact because this is serious but I think you're scaring yourself into having nightmares. Talk to the guy and tell him that you can't talk to him anymore until you don't feel this way and he doesn't feel like he does toward you. Then don't talk to him. Let the feelings go away. Or you can stay in contact but just check on each other and talk about his fiance sometimes. It will keep you in check. Don't kiss him anymore. Don't hold hands. Don't go anywhere with him where you are alone. Talk to a minister if you feel it comes to that. At works, make sure you are professional and don't spend a lot of extra time together.