Expert: Brenda Martin - 3/19/2011

Question
Hey :)
I'm a christian and I've been seeing a guy that isn't. Despite the fact that he's disrespectful to God with the words he uses "Jesus Christ" and other phrases that are blasphemous, he also doesn't respect my boundaries sexually. And I have done stuff I really didn't want to or did I feel ready for, sure if was great at the time but then conviction hit me. I know he'll get really angry if I tell him I don't want to do that stuff anymore and he never accepts when I say "NO" and he carries on.

Because he can be quite violent I'm not sure how to go about breaking it off with him because I know God's got greater stored for me, do you have any advice on how I could end this unhealthy relationship?
Much thanks,
Aysh

Answer
Since he can become "violent" tell him you are finished in a crowded place, not alone, better still, invite him to meet your parents & tell them (in front of him) "this person has been violent to me, so I felt safer telling him here, that we are finished" :¬)

all the best
Brenda