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My father is now in a nursing home in Pennsylvania suffering from the advanced stages of Parkinsons.  He's unable to walk or function normally because of this debilitating disease and severe dementia.  My mother has told Capital One that he can't pay the outstanding balance, because Medicaid is taking his SS check to pay for his care. She just barely has enough to live on now.  I have a power of attorney for my dad, and I did already send them a letter to the effect that he's no longer capable of paying.  They wrote back saying they nee more documentation to grant me POA rights over his account.  They've now asked that I send a notarize letter written by him adding me as POA and 3 items for verification of his identity including SS card copy, 2 copies of a driver's license or something with his birth date and address and a past statement with his account #.  This sounds fishy to me and I'm worried if I send it to them that I will be legally responsible to pay his card off or worse-they may sell the info and steal his identity!  What should I do?

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Do nothing at all. If you do send them any info you can become legally responsible to pay the debt. They can't do a thing to your father in his condition. So just let them go fly a kite.
Keep out of it above all. Your father isn't in any shape to be worried about it and they can't do anything to your mother either. Don't let her get involved in it either. Just leave it alone and let them figure it out the hard way if that is what it comes down to.  

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