Expert: Brian Benosky - 8/29/2008

Question
a guy sent me an email tellin me  goodbye forever and i dont want him to know that i read it as it will only create further ill will between us if he does
can u  help  me bounce  it and only it in such a way that he will not know that i read it? what is the correct  category to  ask this Q in? I ahve windows explorer and  IE and firefox mozilla  on a pc  toshiba laptop and  a pop 3 server with a yahoo email account
I ASKED THIS FOR MAIL WASHER WIDNOWS WHICH IS WHAWT I AHVE BUT HAVE NOT GOTTEN AN ANSWER AND MAYBE THERE IS NONE FOR WINDOWS AND FREE mwp SO IM ASKIN EVERYONE ELSE IF THEY KNOW OF AN ANSWER
hi
i wanna take a message that arrived before i got your software (A FEW HOURS BEFORE) and bounce it bak to the sender such that he will not know that i already read it:
is it possible to select only one email(the latest one) out of many that the sender sent and bounce it bak without affecting the older ones? NOTE that this was the first email that i got form the sender after a long lapse of time when none were received for quite a while, this email is not spam but i just dont want the sender to think i read it as if he does it will create ill will and be embarrassing towards him and unpleasant for me and all concerned -Or even the new ones that will come later? what message will the sender get in the bounced message? and what is the most strategic and credible way to do this so that no suspicions will b aroused ? even if this software cannot do this, can u recommend one that will, bear in mind that i am only concerned with bouncing one already prior to download of this software , email and perhaps some future emails from the same sender
and please tell me how to expedite this and do this with both the current software and the future _ if it can do it better_ and how to enhance the bouncing message so that its more credible.. thanks!


also, if it cant do that can u find one that can?
further, although i'd still want one that can do the thing stated below, is it possible as a temporary solution for the instant case, to delete all OTHER emails received from that addy FIRST and only then bounce the sole remining email?? or BETTER YET to move all the other identical email addys to another folder first and ahve the bounce appply only to the sole remining one? or , if thats not possible to move all ohter email(p[referably in one fell swoop) to another email client account altogether and only then to boucne the inteded email from the first account?


RE:
”I think it is possible to do what you asked, it's just not the default behavior because it's primarily a spam filter. I don't know what bounce message it uses - probably one that says the address doesn't exist. “


Is this true?????
How ?? step by ste please and if its not , where can I get this ability and service?



hi
i wanna take a message that arrived before i got your software (A FEW HOURS BEFORE) and bounce it bak to the sender such that he will not know that i already read it:
is it possible to select only one email(the latest one) out of many that the sender sent and bounce it bak without affecting the older ones? NOTE that this was the first email that i got form the sender after a long lapse of time when none were received for quite a while, this email is not spam but i just dont want the sender to think i read it as if he does it will create ill will and be embarrassing towards him and unpleasant for me and all concerned -Or even the new ones that will come later? what message will the sender get in the bounced message? and what is the most strategic and credible way to do this so that no suspicions will b aroused ? even if this software cannot do this, can u recommend one that will, bear in mind that i am only concerned with bouncing one already prior to download of this software , email and perhaps some future emails from the same sender
and please tell me how to expedite this and do this with both the current software and the future _ if it can do it better_ and how to enhance the bouncing message so that its more credible.. thanks!

Answer
Hi Jan

Have a look at the following page:

http://spamlinks.net/prevent-secure-backscatter-fake.htm#products

Scroll or click "Products That Send Fake Bounces"

There are a whole bunch listed.  Good luck. (And sorry about the breakup)

Brian