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About Jennifer Cruse
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I can answer questions about small breast. People can be cruel to us small cheasted people. Being small breasted can affect the way you feel about yourself. I will be sensitive to questions,(because its a sensitive area to most including myself) and reponse to questions are quite quick.

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I am 28 years old and basically have no chest, I never did and probably never will. I know what it's like to be teased throughout my teenage years and even some of my young adult life, but not everyone in this big world focuses on the size of your breasts as much as you think they do.

 
   

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Concerns about Breast Size - small breasts


Expert: Jennifer Cruse - 10/23/2000

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I just turned 18 and i have no chest.  My mother is small busted but my sister on the other hand is a 34 C.  She started taking birth control at 18 and suddenly developed breasts.  I was just wondering if it was possible if birth control does effect your breast size.  I`m really self-consious and wear padded bras all the time, so the people in my school don`t really know that I am flat chested.  I feel like I am cheating myself to how I really look and to others also.  It`s hard for me to get close to a guy because when they want to touch me, I tell them they are moving too fast and blow them off because I don`t want them to find out how flat I am. Please help me, it bothers me everyday and nobody knows except my mother and sister.
Thanks for your time.

Answer
Dear Rebecca,
I can sooooo relate to what you are going through. I have no chest and at 18 I too was hesitant to get close to guys. Your sister may have taken after your father's side of the gene pool, birth control pills do have an affect on breasts, that's how men who want to be a woman start their breast growth, unfortunately it did not work for me.It's something you could try, but remember it may work it may not, every person is different. I know that its hard to imagine but there is guys out there who don't really care about breast size, I happened to find one and I married him. I still wear padded bras and even have those real looking inserts. My husband understands that I am still self consious about my breasts in public, but he understands that I pad my bra for me and not for him. If a guy is only interested in breast size then he is not the guy for you. There are a lot of woman out there who do enhance( I like to call it fakin it) their size and no one knows but them. So the only people who need to know your secrect is your mom and your sister.You are in charge of who knows and who doesn't and you will find a guy who doesn't care about breasts(my man likes butts, which is where I make up for the lack of tissue(ha ha) in my chest)and he won't care that you pad your bra either. I really hope that I have helped you out even if its just a little. I so understand how you feel. If you have more questions or if you need someone who understands what its like, don't hesitate to write again. Good Luck.
-Jennifer

P.S. remember breast are only intended to feed babies and you can still do that even if you don't have the perfect size breasts, I did and they worked just like everyone elses.


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