About Andy Expertise Do you have Sex questions? I can mostly answer all your sex questions.
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Experience lot of experience with women.
Education/Credentials college student. I know a lot about penis sizes, since I was in porn for a few month and saw a lot of action. Ask me any question, If I know the answer I would answer with a truthful answer and quick!
(I also speak Spanish)
Question QUESTION: Hmm. I'm not sure what or how to ask. My husband of less than a year, it has just come to my attention, has homosexual tendancies. To my knowledge, he's not acted on them with a partner, though has performed activities with himself and spends an extensive amount of time on line observing such interaction. My question(s):
-is this normal for a guy and my concern is, thus, unjustified
I suppose that's as good a place as any to start.
Thanks.
ANSWER: Hey Kim,
I believe it would be normal to compare with other males. But if he is watching gay porn is not acceptable if you didn't know about it. You should talk to him, maybe he is bi and is scared to tell you. It is better now than later. But, for straight men is not normal to be looking at other men and their acts online.
-Andy
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QUESTION: Thank you for the prompt response; it appears I'm on the same page with you. I chose to talk with him about it and, while it was off to a rough start, it turned out, I believe, to be an open and honest conversation. He maintains that he is not bi, but that he has strong interest, and always has in the fantasy idea of having sex with a man. He uses toys to create simulated acts, as if he were with a man, when he is alone. He states he's never acted on the urges in reality with another man because he only finds the fantasy (on line) of it appealing and is not attracted to men in reality. This is very difficult to digest and understand for me. Perhaps I'm too naive?
Answer Kim,
You should know that you know him for little time. So, anything could happen and things could shift in the future. Is like you had a crush on someone but couldn't and one day you will satisfy your needs. And this problem could only get worse unless he stops doing this. I have known many that are married and their wife doesn't know and they are bi, and like to chat and watch other guys masturbating if not more.
Some gays or bi are in the closet and feel that been marry with a women is the way out.
Seems like your are not okey with any of these ideas and you won't be in peace in the future. Remember this is what you choose to be with for the rest of your life.
