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About Andy
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Do you have Sex questions? I can mostly answer all your sex questions. ;)

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lot of experience with women.

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college student. I know a lot about penis sizes, since I was in porn for a few month and saw a lot of action. Ask me any question, If I know the answer I would answer with a truthful answer and quick! (I also speak Spanish)

 
   

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Concerns about Genital Size - Having problems during sex


Expert: Andy - 3/4/2008

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QUESTION: Im 18 and lost my virginity about about 7 months ago and between now and then have had sex with 4 girls over 5 girls and everytime the same thing has happened. I cant cum and after about 1 hour i go flaccid. I also have trouble with inserting it missionary style. Ive received oral and hang jobs and after 20 or 25 minutes i still cant ejaculate. Whats wrong??.. i now have a girlfriend and really like her and it happened last night again. i dnt want this to happen because shes a virgin and i felt like i dissapointed her. What do i do?

ANSWER: Hey Erick,
I am aware that many people have this  problem. You have a well-known problem called delayed ejaculation – also known as retarded ejaculation or ejaculatory incompetence. It's very common, and it takes various forms.

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/ejaculatoryincompetence.htm
I found interesting points on that site.
Try to masturbate slower , this  will take months.. slower pressure, thats why when having intercourse you  can't feel the same when masturbating alone.

-Andy

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QUESTION: i emailed you this question the day after i had sex with my girlfriend and the advice that you gave me was very helpful and thats what i figured the problem was. She is expecting to have sex with me this friday which will have been a week from the last time we had sex. I havent masturbated since saturday and is their any way i can be ready for this friday. Because i obviously do not have a couple months to prepare?

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hey there,
Well, is  good  not to masturbate until you  have sex it will help. I don't know up to what degree though but it  should. Again you  could  put her in positions that will make you ejaculate faster. She  must close her legs as to trapping or squeezing your penis  this way you will feel it even more. There are exercises for her too. Which she could do in a few  weeks if she is dedicated. Squeezing the muscles that she uses to pee, also you could do this too = stronger  orgasm and  stronger erections.
-Andy

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