About Andy Expertise Do you have Sex questions? I can mostly answer all your sex questions.
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Experience lot of experience with women.
Education/Credentials college student. I know a lot about penis sizes, since I was in porn for a few month and saw a lot of action. Ask me any question, If I know the answer I would answer with a truthful answer and quick!
(I also speak Spanish)
Question QUESTION: "Sir,
I would like to thank you for providing valuable information regarding genital exercise. I am very much satisfied with your advise.
I want to get your valuable advise regarding one of my very old problems.I am 43 year old married man. I am very much healthy and do regular exercise. For the past few years, I am facing a problem while sexual intercourse. I get normal erection. But when I prepare for inserting, semen flow seems to start. and even before I insert ejaculation occurs.
But when I mentally decide not to have intercourse but make love with my wife like kissing and fondling, there is no problem and erection is 100%. But if I think of inserting, immidiately ejaculation occurs. Not able to control. It is somewhat psychological but finding difficult to have a solution. I do Keggling but no improvement. Can you help me.
Thanks and regards.
P.Poddar"
ANSWER: Hey Panchanan,
If this didn't happen before, it may be psycologiacal. If you do Kegels what happen if you hold the muscle for a minute or more while inserting? If your muscles are strong you won't cum at all. May lose the erection a little but should hang in there. Now, try the lubes that could help delay this. Try to masturbate before having sex, if you can get hard after masturbating 2-3 times then do it, it will help a lot!
Then again frequent masturbation doesn't help. It just help prior to intercourse.
-ANDY
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QUESTION: Sir,
Thanks for advise. Is it to hold penis base with hand or only Kegelling while inserting.
What type lube to use.
After I masterbate, I may get erection only after 6 to 7 hrs. Is ite possible to have sex immidiately after masterbating. If so, what is the technique.
Thanks.
P.Poddar
Answer Durex Play Longer Delay Lube, may help.
And yes you must hold the muscle before inserting and holding a for a minute or so after you are inside, then pull out and try doing the same thing put without holding the muscle and see if you ejaculate. If yes, then try again and again until you at least could hold the muscle for a few minutes and no ejaculation.
Some people can ejaculate many times some can't. There is no technique :)
