About Martin M Expertise Concern matters. If you don`t feel happy the way you are put together, life looses a lot of it`s color. Sizes don`t matter. They vary, genitals are no different from feet in that respect. Genitals are very different from feet (among very many other things) in that they are hardly ever a topic of serious conversation. Most people have only their own experiences and a handful of dirty jokes to judge by. If this makes genitals a source of uncertainty and worry instead of a source of joy, it`s time to start looking for facts and advice. Ask away.
Experience I advised and helped hundreds of people who had problems and questions about sexuality and relationships. I manned a telephone at the NVSH (Dutch society for sexual reformation revaluation, emancipation ? it translates awkwardly) in a medium-large town in Holland. My core message was and is that any kind of sex is as good as it feels, thoughts are free, feelings are true and looks are on the outside only.
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I'm 18 and I'm familiar with english.
Now look I aint particularly unwell off in this department I'm a bit more well off then average lets just say. But I'll tell ya, I heard about this thing supposedly thought up by the Arab tribesman called "Jelquing" or sumthin like that but it's a method which over time gives ya a bigger dick. Now heres the question would this work on ya if you were uncircumsized? hell does it work period!? any ways I'de appreciate if ya could help me answer this stuff. The last couple u times I used this sight I got a poor answer, and for cryin out loud don't tell me "this is outside your area of expertise" because I'll tell ya right now it aint.
What ever the case thanks for your time!
P.S chances are I spelt Jelquing wrong. it may be jelqing (not sure)
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Dear Tom,
I keep learning. I never heard of jelquing so I googled for it and I got the gist of it on
Yes, this will undoubtedly work on an uncircumcised penis as well as it will on a circumcised one. The foreskin will not play any role in that technique at all. That's the easy part of the answer.
Will it work at all? I don't know for sure, but I can give an opinion.
The technique of putting pressure on the blood vessels inside the penis sounds effective and is not very different from the vacuum-pump idea. If you force blood into the penis, the tissue gets stimulated to stretch and expand. Only SOUNDS effective, because human tissue is too elastic to be molded quickly and easily in that way. The tissues of the penis are not much different from any other human tissues. What pressure or suction have you ever heard of that can permanently chance the form or size of ANY part of the body?
I know of only one: if a person needs to grow more skin for grafting after an operation, a balloon is implanted under the skin. Every few days the balloon is blown up a bit till it hurts, the skin expands to ease the tension and when it has accommodated the balloon is blown up a bit bigger. This slow (and painful) stretching works only if the pressure is continuous, day and night, and is kept up for months. Also: skin is MADE to accommodate expansion of the body. Blood vessels are made to WITHSTAND pressure (the vascular system is under continuous pressure from the heart and must NOT go flabby).
I'm not impressed. It will take a lot of doing to make any permanent difference, I fear. You can wear a wedding-ring for YEARS, if you take it off you'll find an impression, a “gully” running around the finger, molded by years of constant restriction. It'll be there for a few days, maybe, then it's gone.
You know what I think of ANY method to enlarge the penis? If it DID work, not only would that method be universally known and respected, it would also be universally used. Every man in the world would proudly swing a foot-long dick. They don't.
I just sit and wait for those world-wide banner headlines. CNN's Breaking News prime feature.
Yours,
martin
Yeah but I mean penus enlarger's are proven to work? what ever the case I shall thank and rate you quite kindly as you give good service.
Answer Dear Tom,
No, to my knowledge no method or pill has ever been proven to work. Proven meaning: scientifically confirmed to be effective in all (or predictably some specific) cases. Like Viagra. That's what I meant with the CNN-bit. If ever a drug or treatment (short of extensive surgery) would be found that ACTUALLY works, it would make the biggest news splash since the invention of the wheel. All those creams and tricks that are advertised either don't work at all (and only serve to make some guy rich) or else someone fooled himself into thinking one DOES work. Both are surprisingly easy.
It's all a matter of convincing yourself hard enough. Either because you desperately need to believe this arduous jelquing has not been in vain, or because you need to believe you did not spend $30.- on pills for nothing. The eye is easily deceived.
The problem is not proving that something works. If something ever even comes close, the proof is a matter of one good brain, one lab and a few month's of tests. (Then CNN.) The problem is in proving the negative, proving that all the pills and tricks are bogus. Like alien abduction. My advice? Forget it. When aliens land, CNN will tell. When a certified penis-enlarger is found…
Guess.
Yup.
CNN.
