Conservative Judaism/Conversion

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Expert: - 11/14/2007


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Rabbi Dov,
I am contemplating conversion to Judaism, my wife is not interested in converting but has no objections to our children ages 9, 7, and 5 being converted. My question is what is the procedure for their conversion. Obviously they don't have the intellectual ability to comprehend a conversion course at these ages. the two older children are boys, and the younger is a girl. The boys have been medically circumcised. Your answer will be greatly appreciated.
Ken

Answer
Dear Ken,

Thanks for writing.

The process for conversion is possible, and the best suggestion is to speak with a local Rabbi. Since you contacted me I can help you find the closest Conservative Rabbi(s) by writing me at bdlerner1@comcast.net.

Generally speaking, there is a great deal of concern about creating a dual-faith marriage and even further confusing young children were the conversions to occur. This may or may not be an issue in a particular situation, and so it would still be best to check it out with a local Rabbi.

Where do you live? How would your wife conduct her religious life, or is she not following any faith currently? What about the grandparents on either side? These are the kinds of particulars that can help you think through your request.

Looking forward to a response.

Best wishes

Rabbi Dov

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Write to me with questions about Jewish customs and law, history, philosophy and tradition for answers from a Conservative perspective or conversion. I am a graduate of The Jewish Theological Seminary and a member of the Conservative Rabbinical Assembly. Having served in congregational pulpits since 1970, I now am President of the Foundation For Family Education, Inc. a non-profit educational endeavor. I established it to create new formats of hands-on programs and provide free educational downloads at www.jewishfreeware.org. In addition to general informational questions I welcome your questions about programs for social action, outreach to dual-faith families, inter-faith clergy projects, healing services, education for conversion, adult education for the congregation and the community. If you have questions about Informal and Formal Education I am ready to share my extensive experience with Youth Activities, Camping and Religious School/Hebrew High School on a congregational, community and national/international level.

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I have served on the National Youth Commission for more than 25 years and serve on the Boards of the Conservative Zionist movement MERCAZ and the World Council of Synagogues. I have always dual-families and taught candidates for conversion with a great sense of fulfillment. I am very proud of 25 years on the Jewish camping staff of Camps Ramah. My greatest source of pride is my family! Ask me about them, please!:-)

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