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SubjectDate Asked
Suffering1/23/2012
  Q: I read your response to Jewish suffering where you quote Rabbi Kushner's book. I have read this book ...
  A: real issue for you and not just theoretical. First of all, I can't compete with fundamentalist ...
Aliyahs1/9/2012
  Q: My son is becoming a bar mitzvah next month and we are choosing those who will have an aliyah. I ...
  A: My delay was to do some research. While I cannot find any explicit instruction to deny an aliyah ...
Black Jews--looking for experts12/20/2011
  Q: Greetings, Rabbi... A Google search for "experts on Black Jews" brought up your name and your ...
  A: I have had a number of experiences, which were positive. If you are asking about the "Black Jews" ...
Isaiah 7:1412/16/2011
  Q: I was reading about the debate among Jews and Christians concerning Isaiah 7:14. How is it a sign if ...
  A: The most important answer is not one of polemics or apologetics but rather basic Biblical Hebrew - ...
blood taboo12/4/2011
  Q: An article the news recently about whether animals should be stunned first before being slaughtered ...
  A: I appreciate your gracious reply. There is little I can add. Modern Jews who are not vegetarians ...
blood taboo12/3/2011
  Q: An article the news recently about whether animals should be stunned first before being slaughtered ...
  A: I've written a brief response to this subject to which you are welcome to consider: ...
star of david11/29/2011
  Q: Rabbi, thanks for making your expertise publicly available. I am a Christian. I have two unrelated ...
  A: Regarding the second question, I would remind you first that I am a Conservative Rabbi, a modern or ...
Tithing11/29/2011
  Q: Do Jews still tithe? If so, when did it become money? If not, when and why did they stop.
  A: It is a challenging and technical subject, and to be very honest I don't feel adequately qualified ...
Sabbath observance for non-Jews11/17/2011
  Q: I am a former Christian who is planning to convert to Judaism. I have believed for much of my life ...
  A: Obviously you would do best to meet with a local Rabbi to begin a discussion about the elements that ...
Peter McKeand10/16/2011
  Q: It brings me great sadness to share with you that Peter McKeand who wrote to you 3 years ago ...
  A: While I am grateful to know about Peter's passing, it is a very sad moment. I didn't know your ...
Headcovering9/14/2011
  Q: This may sound like an odd question, but here goes: if it is common knowlege that a man wears a ...
  A: Not a new question but always interesting. If the head is covered - and different groups have ...
Terminally ill Reform convert9/13/2011
  Q: I am a 58 year old woman with inoperable Stage IV cancer, and despite having undergone chemotherapy ...
  A: Your letters are among the high-points of this month if not year. It reminds me of how important it ...
Terminally ill Reform convert9/12/2011
  Q: I am a 58 year old woman with inoperable Stage IV cancer, and despite having undergone chemotherapy ...
  A: and I hurt for your situation. I'm not a kid myself and I've struggled with various terminal ...
brothers9/9/2011
  Q: Both my brothers are of the Jewish faith. I am not. My sister in law said to me, Jews do not go ...
  A: and you've raised a fundamental question about Jewish belief and Jewish expectations of practice. ...
a question about bible history8/25/2011
  Q: what was the real reason that God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah, I know that gays were in the land, ...
  A: A tough question because there is a great deal of literature and commentary. I would urge that you ...
Validity of my Jewishness8/21/2011
  Q: Shalom, Orthodox Judaism recently questioned my Jewishness and stated I need to complete ...
  A: and you raise a most important issue in the Jewish community. Several answers follow. 1. I can't ...
vegetarianism7/18/2011
  Q: Shalom! What does judaismthinkof vegetarianism?
  A: Vegetarianism is a positive life discipline within Jewish current and historical practice. Notable ...
Planting a tree for a birthday7/12/2011
  Q: Five of us friends went together to get a friend, she is Jewish though she does not attend services, ...
  A: In brief, it is a misconception that trees are planted only in memory of someone. If you share the ...
New Home Customs7/10/2011
  Q: In a few days time I will be moving into a new home. My question involves customary greetings or ...
  A: Mazal Tov on your new change in residence. Your question raises some interesting issues. In terms ...
Conversion in the military?6/14/2011
  Q: Shalom Rabbi Lerner, I am joining the US Army this year and wondering if it's possible to convert ...
  A: I would encourage you not to "define" your faith or to continue in your present approach tyo ...
Ezra6/14/2011
  Q: Do Jewish people believe Ezra is the son of God?
  A: Jewish people do not believe that anyone is "son of God," or that anyone has divinity. God is unique ...
"jewish name"6/12/2011
  Q: I am a teacher in middle schools and sometimes I am asked by a student "is that a Jewish name?" ...
  A: Neither of us will ever know what is behind the questions we are asked and the unspoken questions of ...
Conversion Proccess ?6/9/2011
  Q: Shalom, Rabbi Lerner ! I am 18 years old, and have recently discovered that Judaism is the right ...
  A: Please forgive me delay in answering because I truly know how important this question is to you. ...
Beards in Jewish culture5/6/2011
  Q: I am researching into the cultural beliefs and tradition in all religions regarding beards for my ...
  A: but it is policy not to answer school work. I urge you to use online resources, one of which is ...
Kipah (Head Covering), The5/5/2011
  Q: I was watching a documentary at least a movie, it was about a young child who happened to have down ...
  A: I thought it was so. It is a documentary about a real young man. I will attach a comment I found on ...
Kipah (Head Covering), The5/5/2011
  Q: I was watching a documentary at least a movie, it was about a young child who happened to have down ...
  A: Your question unfortunately is based on a film. If you would or could send me the name of the film I ...
annointing bodies5/1/2011
  Q: At the time of Jesus was the anointing of the body done by relatives, males, females?
  A: I'm now in the process of researching the sources which appear to be very limited in both text and ...
Tradition of putting stones on graves4/1/2011
  Q: I know there are many reasons (have read them) of putting stones on graves or on the headstones. I ...
  A: No, I had not heard this notion that the putting of stones-on-stones would fore-shadow the ...
Conservative judaism3/29/2011
  Q: I come from a traditional/orthodox Iranian family. Over the last few years most of my friends have ...
  A: If you are searching for a Conservative congregation that meets your standards of what is halachah ...
Atonement3/18/2011
  Q: Rabbi Dov, I was told that the Hebrew people never looked at sacrifice as an atonement for ...
  A: but you have asked a very sophisticated yet complicated question. In different ages - Biblical, ...
Marry a Divorced Man3/16/2011
  Q: I am Marrying a divorced man. Am I going to have a problem finding a Rabbi to marry us?
  A: You may have some trouble if your fiance hasn't given his ex a Jewish divorce. Regarding a Jewish ...
forks3/13/2011
  Q: I work in the banquet department at a Hotel and we are having our first Bnai Mitzvah in our ballroom ...
  A: I don't completely understand the question, and I do professional kosher supervision for caterers in ...
Unclean Animals3/11/2011
  Q: I am doing a study on the Clean & Unclean animals and I am confused by Leviticus 11:27 "And ...
  A: There are two major sections describing kosher/permitted animals: Leviticus 11:3-8 and Deuteronomy ...
A.A. and false gods3/4/2011
  Q: I am in alcoholics anonymous and many of the people rely on false gods to get them sober and yet the ...
  A: Please bear with me as the explanation and background is as important as just a simple answer. 2000 ...
A.A. and false gods3/2/2011
  Q: I am in alcoholics anonymous and many of the people rely on false gods to get them sober and yet the ...
  A: Yours is not an easy question, and it requires a bit of my understanding your own faith affiliation ...
Jewish Terms2/22/2011
  Q: It has been a long time. Happy your still there. Jewish Hebraisms, Jewish Idioms is there a ...
  A: Regarding your first question, I truly don't understand what you mean. I would need examples of each ...
headstone inscription for Mother2/20/2011
  Q: Am having difficulty figuring out what to have inscribed on Mother's headstone. She lived a very ...
  A: Sorry for any delay, and I hope you will understand. The consensus of all my questions in terms of ...
conversion2/17/2011
  Q: If my mother was Jewish but she converted to a Christian, what would be my religion? Similarly, if ...
  A: I wish I could give you a simple, clear answer. I am appending an op-ed by a colleague from a recent ...
head covering for women2/14/2011
  Q: My daughter is married and has 2 very young children. She enjoys going to her Conservative synagogue ...
  A: and this sounds as though it could be rather easily resolved. First of all, we are all grateful ...
Resurrection2/10/2011
  Q: Hope you're doing well! I just have a question, it concerns Jewish conceptions of the resurrection. ...
  A: Shavuah Tov. Sorry for the delay but I had to do research on your question - very interesting. I've ...
Hi2/1/2011
  Q: First of all thank you for taking time to read my question! We just lost a close member of the ...
  A: My first response is to urge you to contact either the family Rabbi or the Rabbi officiated at the ...
distance learning smicha program1/28/2011
  Q: could you recommend me any distance learning smicha programs which are serious and comitted ? ...
  A: and I would urge you to contact Rabbi Chaim Wiener in London - "Rabbi Chaim Weiner" ...
Talmud1/21/2011
  Q: I am a fifty-four year old married man who has cause to believe that he may be of Jewish descent. ...
  A: Certainly you may share an exact copy of what I wrote, or he can look it up on this site. It was not ...
Talmud1/19/2011
  Q: I am a fifty-four year old married man who has cause to believe that he may be of Jewish descent. ...
  A: Once again, I can't accept any responsibility for Jewish "leaders" who espouse racist, ...
Specific customs / daily practices / rituals and patient care1/16/2011
  Q: currently working on a research paper about Judaism and I can't seem to find anything on how jewish ...
  A: I'm frankly surprised that a book doesn't exist for hospital professionals that enables them to be ...
Not circumcising1/9/2011
  Q: We are expecting our first born very soon. After deep examination of the history of Bris Milah, ...
  A: First of all, thank you for writing. Secondly, mazal tov and as we say in Hebrew, "b'sha-ah tovah," ...
PROPHETS1/4/2011
  Q: My question is about the nature,or, person of the prophets. I have recently finished reading the ...
  A: This analysis of a human psyche from the texts transmitted to us in multiple languages in various ...
Talmud1/2/2011
  Q: I am a fifty-four year old married man who has cause to believe that he may be of Jewish descent. ...
  A: First, we need to establish a context for the kinds of statements you mention. Rabbinic literature, ...
A Jewish Family12/24/2010
  Q: Somewhere I read about Jewish culture and traditions, that, just upon being married, the couple are ...
  A: The general belief in Jewish culture today is that upon marriage, the couple have formed a ...
Hebrew Custom12/21/2010
  Q: Why was age of such a concern among the Hebrew nation? If U could help me to understand I really ...
  A: I'd be delighted to share some thoughts with you, but I want to be sure of your question. Are you ...
Moving12/1/2010
  Q: Is there one day of the week that's luckier to move? My cousin and I remember a superstition from ...
  A: Yes, there is such a superstition, based upon the use of the words "and God saw that it was good” ...
Christmas Celebration11/30/2010
  Q: My son is engaged to a woman that practices conservative judaism. We have requested her presence at ...
  A: and this is a very complicated but becoming a more frequent situation. I would offer several ...
Jewish Funeral etiquette11/30/2010
  Q: i was at a Jewish funeral yesterday, and out of respect, i put on a Yamaka. (I am not Jewish). I was ...
  A: Your concern just like your decision is admirable and appreciated by me and I am sure by everyone at ...
prayer before eating11/27/2010
  Q: Is it customary in Conservative Judaism to say a prayer before dinner, and if so, precisely what ...
  A: In most every synagogue prayerbook you will find the various blessings that customarily recited ...
Blood sacrifices in the Temple11/23/2010
  Q: Did blood sacrifices in the Temple on Yom Kippur, operate on the principle of substitution: an ...
  A: I obviously have still a great deal to learn - and I will read about Philadelphians in the future ...
Blood sacrifices in the Temple11/20/2010
  Q: Did blood sacrifices in the Temple on Yom Kippur, operate on the principle of substitution: an ...
  A: I would be delighted to respond, but I'm not quite certain I understand your question. Animal ...
dual faith burials11/14/2010
  Q: Rabbi, I am a member of my synagogue task force exploring then possibility of defining a portion of ...
  A: but I believe it would be inappropriate for me to provide opinions or even legal "advice" to a ...
unveiling11/14/2010
  Q: I understand the structure of the service as you presented it in response to a previous inquirer. I ...
  A: It's always a challenge to answer questions about death, burial and human loss. Regarding the ...
the prophets11/3/2010
  Q: I would like to know if when the prophets spoke, in particular when they expressed sadness over ...
  A: Above all, there is more than one possible response but no "answer" on which all will agree. We will ...
stained glass windows10/31/2010
  Q: Our beautiful conservative synagogue has 12 panels of magnificent stained glass which we must ...
  A: Some of the classic stained glass is truly magnificent. The best advice is to contact the METNY ...
burnt offering10/28/2010
  Q: In this week's Torah portion Abraham says to his son "Don't worry about the lamb for the burnt ...
  A: This will have to be my final post - I am sorry - but time does not permit me to continue this ...
which Image10/27/2010
  Q: Shalom Rabbi, Please can you tell me the answer to my question. Who was G-d talking to, when G-d ...
  A: but in order to answer I have to ask a few questions first. 1. Would you identify yourself as an ...
burnt offering10/24/2010
  Q: In this week's Torah portion Abraham says to his son "Don't worry about the lamb for the burnt ...
  A: First of all, please remember that I am responding as a Conservative Rabbi, and not as a Bible ...
burnt offering10/24/2010
  Q: In this week's Torah portion Abraham says to his son "Don't worry about the lamb for the burnt ...
  A: The text of Genesis 22:1ff is rather clear. Abraham is told to take his son and offer him as a olah ...
Inspiration10/20/2010
  Q: I am writing an article which is to be published in a magasine aimed at Jewish families. I would ...
  A: I'd like to help but I would need to know more about your project and details about you, your ...
grave marker9/25/2010
  Q: My father died a number of years ago and my mother had a grave stone made for him which included the ...
  A: after Sukkot and Shabbat, 3 days in a row of synagogue, sukkah meals! The phrase you sent me is ...
Symbol9/22/2010
  Q: 52 yrs old, Roman Catholic, just asking outta curiosity in order to be able to see both sides of an ...
  A: In general, there are many Jews who would be offended, especially if there is no explanation for the ...
Symbol9/21/2010
  Q: 52 yrs old, Roman Catholic, just asking outta curiosity in order to be able to see both sides of an ...
  A: With some additional information I might be able to be helpful, or at least offer an opinion. Where ...
Continuing...9/20/2010
  Q: The form said I've asked too many questions. I thank you for your time. You asked where I live. I'm ...
  A: Several things in summing up this thread. 1. I understand that the form has told you "enough" but ...
Shabbat times9/20/2010
  Q: Did Hillel II change the timing of Shabbat? Was it once based on the New Moon? Are we honoring the ...
  A: They are not assumed but are very welcome. Regarding your friend, be careful. People often present ...
Shabbat times9/19/2010
  Q: Did Hillel II change the timing of Shabbat? Was it once based on the New Moon? Are we honoring the ...
  A: I'm taking the unusual approach to followup your very kind evaluation of my response for two ...
Shabbat times9/18/2010
  Q: Did Hillel II change the timing of Shabbat? Was it once based on the New Moon? Are we honoring the ...
  A: Shavuah Tov and let it be a shanah tovah What do you mean by "change the timing of Shabbat" - the ...
sabbath8/19/2010
  Q: Shalom! Can a rabbi work on the day of sabbath? I mean, if they don't work then the synagouge must ...
  A: and I admit that in translation of "work" into English it would appear confusing or even ...
Burial protocol8/13/2010
  Q: Rabbi, I am a Funeral Director who has a burial at Mt. Lebanon Cemetery in Glendale, NY on Monday. ...
  A: I understand that often non-Jewish funeral directors are asked to serve in a Jewish funeral and/or ...
Tombstone inscription7/23/2010
  Q: My father recently passed away and we are starting to think about the cemetery marker. On my ...
  A: HOW KIND OF YOU TO REMEMBER ME AND BARBARA. GERSON ZT"L WAS A DEAR FRIEND AND TEACHER AND IMHO A ...
Jewish attendance at funeral7/13/2010
  Q: I have a conservative Christian acquaintance who says he had a bad experience with Jews years ago ...
  A: Unfortunately, there is no simple and direct way to resolve the "anger" of another person which is ...
Jesus6/29/2010
  Q: why dont you take Jesus as God? what is Judaism's view on jesus deity, what is the proof that he is ...
  A: but the questions require a book to answer. It would appear that you are asking as a Christian who ...
A Number in Scripture6/20/2010
  Q: Gen 14:14 states: "When Abram heard that his relative had been taken captive, he called out the 318 ...
  A: however I'd like to have a bit of background before answering; I want the answer to fit your needs. ...
Sale of shul6/15/2010
  Q: If a congregation must disband because there are few members left and the shul must be sold, by ...
  A: The most responsible answer I can provide is to contact the movement/denomination with which you ...
The dedication headstone ceremony6/11/2010
  Q: What is the meaning of this ceremony and the importance for relatives like a sister of a son of a ...
  A: Generally, speaking for American Jewry although there is some overlap with other Western European ...
Court of Women6/8/2010
  Q: I am asking for some clarification on a previous Q&A. It was asked: "Was the Court of the Women ...
  A: As I wrote earlier, while we do have some architectural dimensions we know very little about the ...
video: Against All Odds5/22/2010
  Q: Have you seen this amazing series looking at miracles that helped Israel gain independence? What a ...
  A: but you really are asking for quite a lot. Before I can completely answer, would you please write me ...
kidnapping..5/20/2010
  Q: me again! if i remember correctly, kidnapping is a sin punishable by death. but does the torah mean ...
  A: While I am flattered by your many questions, this will be my last answer. Your questions can be ...
death and heaven5/19/2010
  Q: I would like to know where Jews go after death and what is the meaning of seven heavens.
  A: We had a death in the family. There is no definitive answer to your question, while there has been ...
false testimony..5/10/2010
  Q: it is a sin to give false testimony against your neighbor. but does this include opinions on the ...
  A: While I am delighted to answer a specific question, your note is "very involved." With this ...
Ring5/10/2010
  Q: Rabbi, My wedding ring has a phrase written in Hebrew ("This is he who my soul loves"). I had never ...
  A: I must admit that I am unusually grateful for your question as I never thought about the "direction" ...
talesim and women5/7/2010
  Q: While I am conservadox.....my own variation that makes me comfortable in a mixed seating, women ...
  A: Glad I could help. No, with tallit and tefillen I would not allow someone to lead services. The ...
talesim and women5/6/2010
  Q: While I am conservadox.....my own variation that makes me comfortable in a mixed seating, women ...
  A: My own opinions would be but my opinions. The Rabbi of your congregation is your final authority. I ...
marriage5/6/2010
  Q: i was wondering if arranged marriage is the norm in judaism? i saw a movie called "keeping the ...
  A: Arranged marriages are not the norm for the vast majority of modern Judaism. There are some selected ...
judaism5/4/2010
  Q: I am doing certificate 3 in aged care so i am doing Judaism as my assignment so would be very ...
  A: but. . . We do not answer questions which are intended to be a student's assignment. Therefore, ...
resource for Jewish customs4/29/2010
  Q: I want to understand the Pentateuch in light of it's historical context. Can you recommend a ...
  A: However, answering your question is a challenge on several counts: 1. I would need to know more ...
???4/21/2010
  Q: I was wondering if you could be a Jew be born in Israel and all, but celebrate Christmas and believe ...
  A: Anyone born in Israel to an Israeli citizen is an Israeli. A child born to an Israeli Christian is ...
???4/20/2010
  Q: I was wondering if you could be a Jew be born in Israel and all, but celebrate Christmas and believe ...
  A: The rules are essentially the same for anyone born to a Jewish mother in Israel or any other ...
Jewish Preferences4/16/2010
  Q: Rabbi, forgive my ignorance, but a question arose recently that seemed innocent enough but on ...
  A: You are to be congratulated for thinking and asking questions which is characteristic of Jewish ...
Headstone cloth prior to an unveiling4/16/2010
  Q: Good day Rabbi I stand in awe of the Jewish religion and see it as thee most sincere & revered ...
  A: Customs vary as to the "exact cloth" used n covering the headstone, such that during a dedication ...
Haifa in the Tanakh4/15/2010
  Q: Is Haifa mentioned in the Tanakh? If yes, where and in what context. Also if mentioned what has it ...
  A: I'm a bit curious as "Haifa" in Google has the answer many-times over. Is there any reason for your ...
Burial Napkin??4/12/2010
  Q: What is the purpose for the burial napkin (?) in the first place? Is there a cloth that covers the ...
  A: Please help me to help you by sharing with me why you are asking the question. If the word "napkin" ...
Eve and Adam's Rib4/7/2010
  Q: Rabbi Lerner, I was wondering about Eve being created from the rib of Adam. Is there any ...
  A: Please understand that I am responding as a Conservative Rabbi, meaning that I stand with one foot ...
is conversion a necessity?3/31/2010
  Q: My son, who is a baptized, confirmed Presbyterian, wants to marry a Conservative Jewish woman. Must ...
  A: and this is a most personal situation for your families. Conversion from a Jewish point of view can ...
Birkhat Hamazon3/22/2010
  Q: When was Psalm 26 added to the Grace After Meals? I'm continuing my research into the evolution of ...
  A: when was the text added into an accepted practice. According to Jacob Friedman, Psalm 126 is ...
Moses?3/16/2010
  Q: Rabbi, I was watching the story of Moses on the history channel today. They said that when Moses ...
  A: What you have experienced on television was a script that was Biblically based but amplified with ...
Women in the Rabbinate3/15/2010
  Q: What you estimate the percentage of female rabbis in Conservative Judaism to be? Do you have any ...
  A: It's an interesting question with several possibilities in answering: In each movement, what is the ...
information3/10/2010
  Q: please brief me about the tokens as well as bodily looks coincidentally to the last prophet.
  A: although my time is limited and I share with many others. I hope you understand. By the time the ...
valid conversion?3/9/2010
  Q: I made a Conservative conversion in 1999. I lived as a Jew until recently. I met a Rabbi in Chabad ...
  A: but I am frankly outraged. The first principle is that no one is to even question a Jew by Choice, ...
Talmud's history3/6/2010
  Q: 1.When was the talmud written and by whom.
  A: The topic of authorship of the Talmud is somewhat complicated. There were two Talmuds, one Jerusalem ...
sacrifice3/5/2010
  Q: Under the Law, when presenting a sin offering, did women actually have to kill the animal ...
  A: When animal sacrifices were used in ancient times, more than 2000 years ago the priests officiated ...
Genesis 17 covenant2/5/2010
  Q: When God established His covenant with Abraham and his descendants in Genesis 17, He required every ...
  A: As you state, males are circumcised on the 8th day unless medically not permitted. By the way, Yom ...
Questions2/5/2010
  Q: I am 26 years old and am a college student who would like to learn more about your religion to write ...
  A: but policy is that we don't help students with answers - too often it is a test rather than a paper ...
Christians wearing Kipah's...2/2/2010
  Q: Rabbi, I was just wondering if it would be appropriate for a Christian to wear a kipah for ...
  A: I've dealt with this general question before, but let me be here very specific. I begin with the ...
Exhumation1/26/2010
  Q: Rabbi Lerner: I am President of a local Cemetery Association and some time back, and individual ...
  A: and I appreciate your plight. Allow me make an suggestion and share some observations. First of ...
Bridegroom at a Shiva1/18/2010
  Q: Is it OK for recently married couple to attend a shiva house of a friend or close relative? If it's ...
  A: This question should be first addressed to the Rabbi of the married couple, as some more ...
Passover Haggadah1/14/2010
  Q: I'm giving a talk in 10 days on medieval Passover practices. I've been doing a lot of research ...
  A: I can't find my copy of Idelsohn on Jewish Music, which often has an explanation for various ...
women on the bet din1/11/2010
  Q: As an involved and committed Conservative Jew, I was surprised to hear recently that the ...
  A: I thought it had been decided long ago. Properly you should speak with your Rabbi as the mara d'atra ...
Defending Against Deicide1/5/2010
  Q: I'm an 18 year old Jewish college student. My level of observance is somewhere between Orthodox and ...
  A: I'd like to suggest two answers to your letter. 1. To begin with, if your Christian acquaintance is ...
The book of Ezekiel 14; 141/2/2010
  Q: Shalom Rabbi Barry Dov Lerner, I do hope you will be able to answer my question. What do the ...
  A: and I am somewhat tardy in writing as I don't log in on Shabbat for questions to answer. I checked ...
Temple12/17/2009
  Q: Rabbi, G_d bless you and your family! As a Christian, I was wondering if you (as an Orthodox Jewish ...
  A: G. Thank you for writing. But, I am not an Orthodox Rabbi; I am a Conservative Rabbi. I don't ...
Abraham's Sons12/15/2009
  Q: 1 chronicles 1:32 says that Abraham had 6 sons with a slave woman. Now, we know that Abrahams ...
  A: I'm writing again because I don't think that my answer was sent before the goblins of the ...
Conversion to Judaism and Jesus12/14/2009
  Q: I am a christian who is attending a messianic synagogue where jews and christians believe i b Jesus ...
  A: The resources you continue to quote are Christian and comes of out of what is called "messianic ...
Conversion to Judaism12/14/2009
  Q: I am 14, and I have been searching for religion. I feel that I may have a Jewish soul. My maternal ...
  A: The best way for you to have answers to your questions is to speak with a Rabbi locally, IF your ...
Hebrew Tradition on the Folded Napkin11/24/2009
  Q: I currently read an e-mail about Jesus and the folded napkin: It stated that Jesus' action of ...
  A: I've consulted a number of solid, academic references and can find nothing to indicate that there ...
participation af parents from a ger in the chupa11/8/2009
  Q: i have been preparing for a giur for almost a year. since i am in a relationship with a jew and we ...
  A: I look forward to welcoming you into the Jewish People. In terms of these questions, you should use ...
belief11/2/2009
  Q: Shalom Rabbi, can you tell me, do Jews believe in heaven and if so, who goes? Do Jews belief ih ...
  A: The anwer(s) is(are) yes and no. Judaism has a wide spectrum of beliefs or speculations about what ...
Jews in churches10/30/2009
  Q: Is there a traditional prohibition against Jews setting foot into churches, not to pray, just to ...
  A: Yes, there are some Rabbis and movements who might say that there is a prohibition against entering ...
Conversion help from the south10/28/2009
  Q: Sir, I am trying to convert to conservative Judaism, and live the rural south. I had read in a ...
  A: I suspect that perhaps no Rabbi is there, but not too far away is Bethe David in 804 Winview ...
Halacha for cemetery ground10/25/2009
  Q: What are the procedures for sanctifying the ground for a new Jewish cemetery. In other words, what ...
  A: but this is an issue for a community and its Rabbi(s). I would not interfere with their authority. ...
education in Biblical times10/22/2009
  Q: Could the people read in the time of Moses. Were they taught to read and when did that start. Thank ...
  A: A quick answer: Perhaps Moses and other privileged upper classes were tuaght to read and perhaps ...
Living a Turmoil Peace10/18/2009
  Q: I was raised a Catholic, got married in the United Church (similar to Reform) converted to ...
  A: You've made it much easier to be of assistance. Because you and your husband are "on the same ...
Mesoreic text10/16/2009
  Q: Shalom SIr, I as you probably can tell by my e-mail came to faith as an adult. I have Christian ...
  A: The Masoretic text is the which current, probably 11th century, which was edited by scribal groups ...
weaning10/14/2009
  Q: When should a mother wean her child according to Jewish custom.
  A: It's a very interesting question, and I suspect that in my research that the age of weaning is less ...
The meaning of this verse10/7/2009
  Q: Song of Solomon Chapter 2 Verse 3 Can you tell me what this verse means
  A: The text appears to be straightforward. Cohen's comments in the Soncino break up the verse: The ...
Generalized beliefs on being healthy among Jewish People10/4/2009
  Q: I am currently enrolled in an Baccalaureate nursing class, and one of the assignments is to complete ...
  A: and I've decided to answer rather than "click" the automatic answer that we don't assist in homework ...
Latin American women rabbis10/4/2009
  Q: When was approved for women to study to get ordained as rabbis in the conservative movement in Latin ...
  A: If I understand your question, you are asking why it took 11 years after the first ordination of a ...
Christian etiquette for Jewish Funeral9/28/2009
  Q: I am a Christian and my Jewish neighbor has just passed away. I want to be as respectful as ...
  A: and I want to thank you for your sensitivity and friendship. Your friend indeed is blessed with your ...
survival9/25/2009
  Q: I am a college student with a fascination with ancient history. Recently I have been studying ...
  A: I must have hit delete rather than send. Please forgive me. Secondly, there is no single ...
Christians wearing yarmulka9/22/2009
  Q: I teach at a Christian school for young men. While the school is officially Christian, we have many ...
  A: both your students and peers. There is nothing inherently "wrong" in a non-Jew wearing a kipah ...
Tree Planting Tekes9/21/2009
  Q: Rabbi: We are planting a willow tree to honor the memory of a departed member of our community. Is ...
  A: I am unaware of any ritual per se with planting a tree as a memorial. On the other hand, one could ...
Desire the take a part in your classes via e-mail9/20/2009
  Q: "I have been trying to provide some understanding of Paul's letters, by providing the context of ...
  A: but I do not currently conduct classes by email. I have thought of it and might in the future. ...
Burials9/17/2009
  Q: Can a widow who remarries be buried next to their deceased spouse if they choose? Also, after a ...
  A: This is indeed very often the question that arises for the children of the deceased. In part they ...
Burials9/16/2009
  Q: Can a widow who remarries be buried next to their deceased spouse if they choose? Also, after a ...
  A: This is a complicated question, because it apparently deals more with local customs and personal ...
Conservative View on Entering Church9/15/2009
  Q: I am a conservative Jew, with very little wiggle room. IE entering a church with nice art certainly ...
  A: There are those who would absolutely refuse to enter and/or authorize anyone else to enter a church, ...
jewish feasts9/7/2009
  Q: i am a student of M.Th final year and these information i need for my thesis; which i need to ...
  A: but the quantity of information for which you are searching is extremely large and lengthy. There ...
Ezekiel9/6/2009
  Q: Rabbi; In Ezekiel 4:9 the Lord gives Ezekiel a recipe for bread, then in verse 12 He says to ...
  A: The Soncino Biblical commentary on Ezekiel quotes A.B. Davidson who says that the use of dung was ...
Judaism and Peace6/24/2009
  Q: G'day. Though Judaism has the writing of Tikkum Olam, besides this how else does Judaism promote ...
  A: Yes, Judaism has many different terms for the ways in which Judaism promotes peace in the world. ...
Conversion6/5/2009
  Q: I am reading a book called Turbulent Souls by Stephen J. Dubner. It describes his family's history. ...
  A: On the one hand, traditional Jewish law has held that even if a Jew converts out of Judaism, that ...
Help choosing Hebrew name?6/4/2009
  Q: Shalom Rabbi! I am looking for help. I am converting into Conservative Judaism, and have only one ...
  A: It would be inappropriate for me to interfere with our Rabbi and I would urge you to follow the lead ...
David6/4/2009
  Q: G_d bless you Rabbi, I have been exploring King David recently. Can you give me any information ...
  A: Unfortunately we know very little about many of the Biblical characters except for what is in the ...
To convert or not to convert6/4/2009
  Q: Shalom Rabbi Lerner, As the subject implies I am nor sure whether or not a conversion is in order. ...
  A: As a Conservative Rabbi and following Jewish traditional law, one is Jewish when they are born to a ...
reckoning days5/30/2009
  Q: I'm curious about the spices used according to Jewish burial customs in biblical times. John 19:39 ...
  A: The term "day" refers traditionally from sunset to the following sunset, based upon the Biblical ...
Noahide5/22/2009
  Q: I am currently taking Judaism classes online with a Rabbi. I love Judaism, every aspect of it and I ...
  A: If you are taking instruction on-line, I am required by Rabbinic protocol not to interfere or ...
Sabbath: Isaiah 58:145/21/2009
  Q: What is meant by, and/or can you direct me to resources for further study on, the Fourth Commandment ...
  A: I'm not sure why you are beginning with Isaiah. The best resource would be the older edition of the ...
burial spices5/20/2009
  Q: I'm curious about the spices used according to Jewish burial customs in biblical times. John 19:39 ...
  A: I've done some research but the following from the Encyclopedia Judaica may help: Unfortunately, I ...
jewish culture5/16/2009
  Q: Please does the jewish tradition have anything to do with the igbo tradtion of Nigeria?
  A: When in doubt, I've learned to do a quick Google search, because I had no recollection of any ...
custom and tradition5/11/2009
  Q: it is being widely acclaimed that in times past it was the custom of a master to fold his napkin ...
  A: I must admit that this is an interesting question but that I am unfamiliar with this custom. To the ...
Old Testament5/6/2009
  Q: Hey im a primary school teacher completing a certificate in catholic teaching studies, and im really ...
  A: however our policy is that we do not assist in school projects, assignments or examinations. ...
Genesis 3:155/1/2009
  Q: In the book of Genesis Gen 3:15 And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy ...
  A: I'm not offended. However, the questions you are asking are those which are best answered in a study ...
Genesis 3:154/30/2009
  Q: In the book of Genesis Gen 3:15 And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy ...
  A: We have to call a halt to this. Judaism does not interpret any part of canon Scripture to relate in ...
Wine at Passover4/25/2009
  Q: I'm a Christian, and there is a controversy in some parts of the Church about the concept of “new ...
  A: To the best of my research, it can be made with the addition of yeast rather than rely on ...
Solomon's Temple 24/25/2009
  Q: I have read Christian articles stating that Israel was preparing to rebuild the temple. They also ...
  A: In no way is the Israeli government nor the majority of Israel's Jewish population interested in or ...
Jesus as the Messiah 24/25/2009
  Q: You mentioned in the original question "Jesus as the Messiah'; "The Hebrew Bible according to Jewish ...
  A: The time frame for Isaiah is 8th-9th century, BCE, 800 years before the time of Jesus. There was ...
Wine at Passover4/24/2009
  Q: I'm a Christian, and there is a controversy in some parts of the Church about the concept of “new ...
  A: 1. The wine which is "kosher for Passover" indeed does contain alcohol, but it is from the grapes ...
Hell4/21/2009
  Q: I didn't think that the Jewish people believed in hell? I ran across a commentary saying the ...
  A: The real answer is "yes," "no," "maybe," "sometimes," "figuratively," and "what do you mean by ...
Coke / Pepsi4/8/2009
  Q: Is Coke & Pepsi Kosher? since it contain Carmine - Carmine may be prepared from cochineal, by ...
  A: The following is taken from the cRc - Chicago Rabbinical Council, orthodox - regarding coke ...
two questions re: passover4/7/2009
  Q: I am Jewish, always attended a conservative synagogue. I do not keep a kosher home, but my wife and ...
  A: songbook, readings, etc.: http://www.jewishfreeware.org/downloads/folder.2006-01-07.0640323187/ ...
Noahide commandments4/3/2009
  Q: I found the following on this website. ahavat-israel.com The Noahide commandments are those that G-d ...
  A: We had some personal family health issues. The sources of commandments - in general - are either ...
Jews cannot enter a church??3/30/2009
  Q: Shalom Rabbi, My question is related to what the halacha says or does not say about a Jew going into ...
  A: Somewhere in your education should have been included the "rule" that your Rabbi is your final ...
rock on grave3/27/2009
  Q: Sir, in the movie Schindler List, at the end of the movie all the people were putting stones on his ...
  A: I'm sorry for the delay but there were family health issues. The tradition of placing a stone on ...
jewish quotations3/26/2009
  Q: What is the correct hebrew translation for the pirkei avot quote: "It is not your responsibility to ...
  A: The translations you sent are essentially how most would translate the texts. Are you asking whether ...
Judaism & health care beliefs3/25/2009
  Q: How or can the beliefs of Judaism affect their stay in the hospital? Does it affect any tests or ...
  A: but to be honest I am not sure of your questions. Are you asking if Judaism believes - which means ...
Faith3/23/2009
  Q: I am writing a book about how faith affects a person's life. Has there ever been a time when your ...
  A: but I hope you understand that as a Rabbi "faith" has been part of my life. It would be ...
Any significance to the numbers 6 or 7?3/23/2009
  Q: I know that in Judaism, some numbers are thought of as special. Is there any special significance ...
  A: While there is nothing specific per se in the numbers 6 or 7, they are very symbolic with regard to ...
Jesus at 30 years of age3/22/2009
  Q: Pope Benedict XVI writes in his book "Jesus of Nazareth", that at the age of thirty Jesus had ...
  A: While I can't presume to know what the Pope had in mind - that is for you and the Church to define ...
Wearing of Yamaka3/19/2009
  Q: Can you tell me when the Jewish men first began the wearing of the Yamaka. In studying the Old ...
  A: The cut-to-the-chase answer is that it is a custom, and it developed after the custom of Babylonian ...
Animal Sacrifice3/9/2009
  Q: What happen to the carcass of the animals used for sacrifice occassions other than passover?
  A: In essence, the different kinds of sacrifices from the time of the Desert Sanctuary=Mishkan, and the ...
Statistics3/3/2009
  Q: I have heard for many years that more Christians convert to Judaism in the USA than the other way ...
  A: Unfortunately I don't know of any hard, reliable statistical data that either records the respective ...
CONVERSION OF A MINOR3/2/2009
  Q: We are Jewish parents who recently a adopted a non-Jewish baby boy, and live in Canada. We would ...
  A: I hope that you will read my entire response and understand that I am responding to the particulars ...
The Jewish view of survival after death2/28/2009
  Q: I was raised Catholic, but have always had Jewish friends, so I am a little bit familiar with Jewish ...
  A: Yes, this is a complex question if only because we don't always use the same terms to mean the same ...
Amidah2/20/2009
  Q: My question is brief. I am just genuinely curious about something during the Amidah. At my BBYO ...
  A: and I am responding as a former chapter, divisional, regional leader in AZA - many years ago. Keep ...
Punishment For Sins Upon Descendants2/18/2009
  Q: I have heard or read recently that our children, grandchildren, and maybe posterity even longer down ...
  A: I wish that I could frame our current economic situation as you put it, but I do have a different ...
Birthdays2/15/2009
  Q: Did Jews celebrate birthdays in the first century, and if not then why do they celebrate them today?
  A: The Hebrew Scriptures deals with ages of people for various roles, whether Levites and the census or ...
A question on Solomon...2/10/2009
  Q: I am a "student" who privately studies Torah and am waiting to summon the guts to go to a synagogue ...
  A: You may be unhappy with my answer, because in part I have to urge you not to delay getting to a ...
Priests2/5/2009
  Q: I am 48 years old and a Baptist. I was reading in 2 Chronicles about King Uzziah burning incense in ...
  A: Great question and thanks for asking. I'm researching and will get back to you. Perhaps you can ...
Education2/4/2009
  Q: I am looking for a Jewish story that I can tell with children about the importance of education. Can ...
  A: Unfortunately I am not as current with childrens' literature - Jewish or otherwise - as others, ...
Faith and Blasphemy2/2/2009
  Q: My question and situation is similar to the one addressed by Kim but I would like to clarify this a ...
  A: although I believe that you should be speaking with your priest and faith community teachers rather ...
egalitarin1/26/2009
  Q: What does egalitarian mean in relation to conservaive synagouges? I am a 15 year old reform jew.
  A: "Egalitarian" means that women have equal roles parallel to men in ritual, whether in synagogue or ...
Belief system1/19/2009
  Q: I have just started studying Jewish history. I have been a Christian since I was 8 I am 48. I have ...
  A: You describe an uncomfortable position to be sure. You are concerned not about this world but "going ...
the mercy seat1/13/2009
  Q: On the Day of Atonement, when the high Priest would go into the Holy of Holies, he would sprinkle ...
  A: I was trying to research this question, but all info I have supports my earliest thinking: 1. ...
in Israel...1/9/2009
  Q: in Jerusalem, can you see the entire constellation of stars at night? Can you even see the degree ...
  A: 1. Would you like for me to try and find a Jerusalem contact to more scientifically answer you? My ...
Jephthah's daughter1/6/2009
  Q: I have read commentaries that promote the idea that Judges 11 really shows Jephthah's daughter ...
  A: In terms of a life "dedicated to divine service" it would be hard to imagine such a life-style or ...
Conservative Judaism1/5/2009
  Q: I have just read your answer to the question about the Babel and languages, where you directed the ...
  A: I feel that I have outlined the parameters of the answers - note plural - from a descriptive point ...
Police and Soldiers working on Sabbath1/4/2009
  Q: Is it ok for police and soldiers to work on Sabbath? If so, is it alright to keep the money that you ...
  A: There are three factors in answering this(1) the principle of "pekuah nefesh" - saving a life; (2) ...
jewish buriel practices1/4/2009
  Q: at the time Jesus was crufified, was it jewish buriel practices to embolm the body with the spices?
  A: I am not a real specialist in this subject. I know that there are New Testament references to ...
Jephthah's daughter1/4/2009
  Q: I have read commentaries that promote the idea that Judges 11 really shows Jephthah's daughter ...
  A: I believe that we will never know how literally Jephthah acted. Given the time in which he lived, ...
Crockpots kosher for cooking on Shabbat?1/3/2009
  Q: Are crockpots and other slow-cookers kosher for preparing cholent/stews for Shabbat? Thanks, L
  A: In my opinion yes. I have read responsa of major Orthodox Rabbis as well who have ruled similarly. ...
Fat1/2/2009
  Q: The Law says one is not allowed to eat the fat of an animal, but what of cheese and milk? when it ...
  A: The fat which is proscribed Biblically and then in Rabbinic law is helev, different from the other ...
Conservative Judaism1/2/2009
  Q: I have just read your answer to the question about the Babel and languages, where you directed the ...
  A: Orthodoxy is not itself monolithic as you describe it. Consider how many "varieties" of Orthodoxy ...
israel1/1/2009
  Q: I am a member of a progressive congregation that is part of the Australian movement and have been ...
  A: I'm not certain of several terms you use, and I may not be the person you wish to question. I ...
clothes1/1/2009
  Q: What are the laws regarding dress in conservative judaism? I am a 15 year old reform jew.
  A: Interesting question. I hope that this is not for any class assignment, as we are not allowed to ...
leviathan?12/25/2008
  Q: what is your interpretation of the leviathan mentioned several times in the bible? I have been doing ...
  A: In the Bible Leviathan is a multi-headed (Ps. 74:14) sea serpent, appearing in Isaiah 27:1; Psalms ...
mezuzah scroll12/24/2008
  Q: Do you know of an internet site that I can buy a scroll to put into a mezuzuah cover I have?
  A: I would encourage you to go to a local synagogue and check with their gift shop, provided that their ...
ONE LANGUAGE ONE SPEECH12/21/2008
  Q: It seems, from Scripture that when the Creator confounded the languages of the builders of Bavel, ...
  A: As a Conservative Rabbi and being willing to use modern scholarship in the study of the Hebrew ...
Converting the religion12/21/2008
  Q: My current religion is Islam and i want to convert it , please cover my question about the step. 1- ...
  A: If conversion is not legal or possible in your country, then obviously it would be legally wrong and ...
Jewish Heritage12/17/2008
  Q: I know the heritage is passed through the Mother but can you tell me why the Mother and not the ...
  A: The best historical study in my opinion is by Professor Shaye Cohen, Littauer Professor of Hebrew ...
curses12/17/2008
  Q: Does the soul survive? ANSWER: Dear Ruth, Thanks for writing. The question is excellent; the ...
  A: The 2007 edition "Encyclopedia Judaica" states: The rendering of tithes of property for sacral ...
I'm Catholic, Husband Jewish12/14/2008
  Q: My husband has been raised Jewish and I was raised Roman Catholic. I have the biggest respect to the ...
  A: My best advice is that you speak with a Rabbi and/or a Priest about this proposed plan. I am fairly ...
Conservative Conversion12/14/2008
  Q: I have been attending a Reform temple for a few years (throughout college- I will be entering ...
  A: Allow me to answer your questions, but remember that I am answering as a Conservative Rabbi. ...
Modern Day Shiva Trends12/9/2008
  Q: I would like information about what current trends you are seeing in regards to Shiva. Do todays ...
  A: You confirmed what I thought - that this is an assignment which we are not permitted to assist as a ...
Day of Atonement12/7/2008
  Q: I am 56 years old. I belong to a Christian denomination by name of Seventh Day Adventist. Our ...
  A: I've done some additional research. I can't find a specific citation for the popular notion that a ...
Day of Atonement12/6/2008
  Q: I am 56 years old. I belong to a Christian denomination by name of Seventh Day Adventist. Our ...
  A: I'm not sure of your question. Are you asking what is the ritual of the Ancient Temple for Yom ...
jewish women's premarital sexual behaviour12/4/2008
  Q: Do you think that jewish women are more conservative that gentiles in their premarital or divorced ...
  A: especially the sexual activity and mores of Jewish women. In all honesty, I don't believe there is ...
vayechi haftorah12/1/2008
  Q: My daughter will be bat mitzvah on Jan 10 2009 we are looking for a simple explanation and lesson ...
  A: Unfortunately it is against policy to do an assignment for anyone, but I am delighted to provide ...
God's work in Israel 6-day war11/28/2008
  Q: I'm a 22 year old strong believer in Jesus Christ as the one and only Messiah, the son of God. I ...
  A: You are entitled to your faith as a Christian, as I am permitted to hold a different faith and set ...
aliyah11/26/2008
  Q: I converted to Judaism under the conservative movement. I've heard conflicted reports that if I make ...
  A: I would hope that you speak with your sponsoring Rabbi regarding your status as an immigrant to ...
The Hereafter11/26/2008
  Q: Does the soul survive?
  A: The question is excellent; the answer is problematic: yes, no, perhaps, somehow. Sorry for the wide ...
Health11/25/2008
  Q: I am training to be a General Practitioner and am doing a presentation to our group regarding The ...
  A: I would urge you to contact the Committee on Jewish Law and Standards of the Rabbinical Assembly, ...
Clothing...11/23/2008
  Q: in my version of the Old testament, the law says you cannot wear clothing made of wool and linen ...
  A: Hebrew Scriptures - Jews don't use the term "Old Testament" implying that there is a supercession of ...
Jew by Birth?11/20/2008
  Q: Rabbi Dov, I have a question that I'm not too sure is very easy to answer. Nonetheless, I hope ...
  A: A person is "Jewish by birth" according to traditional Jewish law if their mother is Jewish by ...
ossuaries11/15/2008
  Q: So we have the Caiaphas Ossuary, why does it look different than all other ossuaries? I have a ...
  A: I really am not a trained archaeologist. I turned to various resources and I am going to attached ...
1st century burial laws and customs11/11/2008
  Q: according to oral Torah in the first century, could a non-related single woman accompany a dead ...
  A: I wish you luck in your search. "Proper Halakha" from a Jewish point of view has long left the ...
Raising jewish children as a catholic mother11/10/2008
  Q: Ok I know this seems far fetched here. I have recently had an in depth conversation with my ...
  A: Let's take the easier items first. A Jew is someone who is born to a Jewish mother [ by birth or ...
1st century burial laws and customs11/9/2008
  Q: according to oral Torah in the first century, could a non-related single woman accompany a dead ...
  A: I don't know the answer at this moment and have begun a search. Be patient please. I'll get back ...
women in the temple11/5/2008
  Q: I read the answer to the question about women being allowed in the temple, wondering if it was part ...
  A: If one is a literalist in terms of the Torah, there is some correspondence between the "layout" of ...
sin11/5/2008
  Q: Is it a sin for a wife to provoke her husband? ANSWER: Dear Rocky, Thanks for writing. I need ...
  A: If you mean a sin in terms of violating God's "Word," you are speaking in a fundamentalist sense ...
stones on graves11/4/2008
  Q: why do you put a stone on the grave stone when you visit the sight?
  A: There are a variety of references and reasons for placing a stone on a headstone when visiting a ...
Second Temple education11/3/2008
  Q: What was the role of the disciple in the first century? Can you clarify this method of education ...
  A: We don't have as much information about the education system of the first century BCE and CE as we ...
Literal interpretation10/30/2008
  Q: I am Jewish but have often struggled with reconciling Jewish teachings that fly in the face of ...
  A: Your thoughts and feelings are not unusual, but they are very important. Let's deal with first ...
Jewish backround10/30/2008
  Q: I found out that I had a Jewish grandfather on my mother's side. He and my grandmother was divorced ...
  A: In terms of Jewish law, as you describe your family history, you would not be considered a Jew by ...
a few questions...10/30/2008
  Q: is smoking considered a sin in judaism? what of masturbation? and the occasional glass of wine? ...
  A: It would appear that you are a relatively ecclectic person in terms of religious rules and ...
gelatin10/30/2008
  Q: i am interested in finding out the conservative view on gelatin and what is acceptable. Also, if ...
  A: The responsum by Rabbi Isaac Klein zt"l held in 1969 that gelatin is kosher, although gelatin from ...
I wanna be a jewish10/27/2008
  Q: Im a grandson of a jew from morroco(Siboni)but my mother is cristian,Im 15 years old, Im from ...
  A: First of all, I would urge you to discuss this with your family and with your priest/minister. ...
Re: Gentile wanting to follow Judaism10/24/2008
  Q: I'm not really with any religious affiliation, but I guess the closest thing would be identifying ...
  A: Yes, there is a category of "B'nai Noah" which encouraged those living in proximity to Jews to ...
Holocaust victim tattoos10/14/2008
  Q: and aware of the historical anti-semitism within our church. Although tattooing is not allowed in ...
  A: No, there has not been such an organized effort to memorialize those martyrs of the Holocaust. I ...
couples who are not jewish wanting to join a conservative synagogue10/14/2008
  Q: We have 2 couples who come every Friday night and they have asked us to become members. We have been ...
  A: This is ultimately a decision for your Rabbi to determine. Assuming you are writing to me for a ...
Hannakah10/12/2008
  Q: In our home we have a tapestry for Hannakah that has a menorah in the form of a tree and with the ...
  A: :-) I'm researching it now and will be back with you soon - certainly before Hanukkah. By the way ...
Counting of the Omer10/9/2008
  Q: With all the other tragedies that have befallen Jews, why is the period of mourning for 24,000 ...
  A: My own sense is that because the period historically was the time that we brought the Omer according ...
stories10/9/2008
  Q: I am preparing a presentation for school childen on writing fiction. I want to explain to them that ...
  A: I would imagine that you are looking for the Hebrew term "midrash" which technically is exegesis or ...
Services10/8/2008
  Q: I'm a 19 year old college sophomore, and a lifelong Christian. As part of my Intro to Religion ...
  A: The simplest approach is that people will be dressed in at least slacks, tie and sports jacket. Most ...
plagues in the book of Exodus10/4/2008
  Q: I am 34 year old Christian. I'm in a Bible study at my church, we are studing the Book of Exodus. ...
  A: I am unaware of any textual or scholarly treatment of the chronology of the series of plagues. It ...
art in the talmud9/29/2008
  Q: how can I research art in the Talmud?
  A: although this is a more technical subject. Sorry for the delay but as you know Rosh HaShanah took ...
The Amidah9/20/2008
  Q: Recently I've been finding myself looking for ways to get more in touch with my ...
  A: You haven't asked a new question and I've answered it many times with the same answer: the Amidah is ...
Suffering9/20/2008
  Q: I am 54 years old, was raised Orthodox but since have left it to become agnostic but still searching ...
  A: Your final paragraph says a great deal to me, and I would encourage you to indeed retain an ...
Death & funeral practice9/15/2008
  Q: I'm a convert to Conservative Judaism and am observant. I didn't convert for marriage, so there's ...
  A: This should bring it to an end, but I thought I would explain. I garden a great deal, raising 50+ ...
Death & funeral practice9/15/2008
  Q: I'm a convert to Conservative Judaism and am observant. I didn't convert for marriage, so there's ...
  A: I started to write - got half-way through and the system crashed. I didn't find a draft and so I'll ...
Death & funeral practice9/15/2008
  Q: I'm a convert to Conservative Judaism and am observant. I didn't convert for marriage, so there's ...
  A: Did you receive my follow-up answer? Rabbi Dov Here is my retrieved answer that should have been ...
naming traditions for girls9/14/2008
  Q: I have one Jewish friend who says that the name of the firstborn is chosen by the mother and that ...
  A: In my opinion, there is no such law, and I've never heard of such a "rule." The basis for such a ...
Religious Object Burial (Genizah) Practices9/11/2008
  Q: Rabbi: Could you tell me what the tradional ceremonial practise would be for the burial of ...
  A: My first suggestion and recommendation is that you speak with your Rabbi who is your congregational ...
Conception in the Torah?9/4/2008
  Q: Mashlom'cha In the Torah, does it state that conception is between a man, woman and God? Because ...
  A: To begin with, there are metaphors in the Bible and then later Rabbinic writing that describe a ...
Next Life9/4/2008
  Q: It has been a long time since I asked a question but one has been bothering me. Two part question. ...
  A: Judaism believes that there is a world to come, but we can only speculate about the nature of that ...
REFORM CEMETERIES9/3/2008
  Q: Looking for where I can find all the rules for running a reform jewish cemetery. I was asked to be ...
  A: but I am a Conservative Rabbi. Consult your own Reform Rabbi, or if you temporarily without a ...
jews8/31/2008
  Q: why did the Jews kill Jesus?
  A: The Jewish People couldn't execute Jesus as they lacked the self-government authority for capital ...
Adam and the Garden8/30/2008
  Q: Good afternoon Sir .I was wondering what your understanding was of the garden .I am a Southern ...
  A: and I'll provide several alternative answers. My first response is based upon my own theological ...
Judaism-afterlife8/26/2008
  Q: What do Jews believe will happen after death?
  A: Unfortunately, the subject of an after-life is especially complicated and the literature is large. ...
What was the purpose of animal sacrifices?8/10/2008
  Q: I was raised a Christian and am presently attending an Orthodox church. I get a Christian ...
  A: I refer your two questions - about sacrifices and the derivation of Christianity from Judaism and ...
1st century Jewish greeting rituals7/31/2008
  Q: How involved were greeting rituals? I have read they could last for some days. I am intrested in 1st ...
  A: I've been trying to research this and have found nothing that would approach the kind of rituals you ...
black jews7/28/2008
  Q: I am a 52 year old Christian black man. I consider myself well educated and socially conscious. My ...
  A: To begin with Judaism is a faith, and it has absolutely no racial, ethnic, national origin, ...
unveiling7/12/2008
  Q: What type of invitation do we need to send out for my father's unveiling? What is the appropriate ...
  A: and I hope that the years ahead will bring you joys and health for you and your family. I ...
Rabbinic Judaism7/2/2008
  Q: Are Conservative and Orthodox Judaism related to the ancient Pharisees and the rabbinic judaism of ...
  A: This is a very "big" question and you will find varying answers depending upon whom you ask. As a ...
Organ donation for Jews?7/2/2008
  Q: I want to be an organ donor, but if I am, can I still have a Jewish funeral and burial? My ...
  A: I am responding with a general background as a traditional, Conservative Rabbi. You should, however, ...
What Jesus really looked like.6/27/2008
  Q: Years ago I was inspired by a Jesuit priest's serenity to do a portrait of Jesus. This of course ...
  A: , Thanks for writing with an interesting question - to which probably only an anthropologist will ...
law?6/26/2008
  Q: When my uncle stays with my mother, she tries to accommodate his newly orthodox ways. She is ...
  A: Unfortunately, I don't know of any research possibility except fo contacting the Reference Desk of ...
law?6/24/2008
  Q: When my uncle stays with my mother, she tries to accommodate his newly orthodox ways. She is ...
  A: I must confess that I've never encountered such a "rule" in any Jewish law. Yes, hospitality and ...
jewish or not in the eyes of the God6/24/2008
  Q: Q: If your farther is Jewish and your mother was catholic and you are born a boy and then baptised ...
  A: According to traditional Jewish law one is born a Jew to a Jewish mother or is converted formally to ...
Query6/16/2008
  Q: I have Jehovahs witness neighbours who say that you should call God, Jehovah, but i think i read ...
  A: I apologize for the delay - I'm recovering from major surgery and thought I would be back to ...
confused on my roots5/14/2008
  Q: I was raised catholic, reverted to Christianity, and now am bitter towards the hypocrites that are ...
  A: First of all, if you ask about being a Jew by birth, then yes if you have a maternal line that is ...
Cemetery Issue5/12/2008
  Q: I am the president of a synagogue in southern Rhode Island. About Twenty years ago a deal was struck ...
  A: I am unable to answer your question and interfere in a synagogue, Rabbinic, community and movement ...
Sabbath5/10/2008
  Q: Many Christians worship on Sunday but Christianity came from Judaism, which worships on the Sabbath. ...
  A: Judaism observes the Sabbath on the 7th day of the week and it cannot be changed to any other day. ...
?5/8/2008
  Q: During the lifetime of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, (which was a time before they had the law, and the ...
  A: Before the development of Jewish law, there were societal codes and laws - often similar or even ...
Books of the Jewish Bible5/6/2008
  Q: Rabbi, I am a Christian and have never seen the Jewish Bible and was wondering how it differs from ...
  A: 1. Same book with a different translation - Hebrew is literally song of songs 2. I'll have to check ...
Books of the Jewish Bible5/6/2008
  Q: Rabbi, I am a Christian and have never seen the Jewish Bible and was wondering how it differs from ...
  A: There are various canon texts and they vary between religious traditions. Check the ...
Women and God5/5/2008
  Q: I was raised Catholic, but I have found too many contradictions in their teachings to feel ...
  A: I would urge you to speak with a Catholic faith leader regarding this question within the Catholic ...
images5/5/2008
  Q: The Law of Moses says to not make for yourself an image of any living thing....but does this mean ...
  A: Yes, I believe that you have understood the intention of the laws. There was a great concern that ...
Jewish Temple5/5/2008
  Q: I know in Solomon's day the Ark of the Covenant was hidden behind the veil in the Temple and only ...
  A: I don't know the answer but I shall go now and try to find one for you. In the meantime, try the ...
conversion/Jewishness5/2/2008
  Q: I understand that one is considered to be Jewish either because A) one's mother was Jewish or B) one ...
  A: I wish I could provide you with an answer that would be more satisfying. A Jew is a Jew, in terms ...
Anti -Semitism4/28/2008
  Q: Why have The Jewish people suffered centuries of persecution from Christian faiths when according ...
  A: Anti-semitism stems from many sources and for many reasons. No one has yet determined the defintive ...
Heaven4/17/2008
  Q: As a person raised a Catholic, I always wondered in what context the Jewish man, Jesus, used the ...
  A: I must leave the final interpretation of the phrase to your faith instructor. As a Jew and Rabbi I ...
Moses4/15/2008
  Q: Is there any proof acceptable to historians that Moses existed? How about the exodus? Any ...
  A: This is a long-standing academic discussion for Bible scholars, modern and traditional. Those who ...
religious identity4/14/2008
  Q: Recently someone asked me what my last name is. I told him "Goldberg." He said, "Oh, you're Jewish ...
  A: I meant that someone who converts formally out of Judaism may be considered still a Jew by many ...
On Deuteronomy 44/12/2008
  Q: Will you please quote DEUTERONOMY 4:13 to me from the Original Hebrew into English. Thank You
  A: The Jewish Publication Society TaNaKH which translated directly from the Hebrew reads: He declared ...
religious identity4/12/2008
  Q: Recently someone asked me what my last name is. I told him "Goldberg." He said, "Oh, you're Jewish ...
  A: To begin with, your faith identity is your own statement and practice. In traditional Jewish law, ...
Lev.4/9/2008
  Q: In Leviticus 20: 1-5 (King James Bible) it mentions several times about "giving his seed to Molech." ...
  A: Molech was a middle easter pagan god, characterized by some as an idol with a furnace in the belly. ...
Commandments4/8/2008
  Q: The Commandments given to Moses I find in Exodux,20 and 34 and Deuteronomy 5. Exodus 20 and ...
  A: You are not the first to see the similarity and the differences. There are a variety of ...
Martin Buber4/7/2008
  Q: "All journeys have secret destinations, of which the traveler is unaware." ~ Martin Buber I use ...
  A: Thus far I have struck out using search engines and CD-ROMs I have of Jewish literature. While I ...
Hasidic Tales or other Jewish Stories Honoring Women3/27/2008
  Q: I am searching for a Hasidic tale or other Jewish story that honors women. Can you help me? ...
  A: There are a few books in English on gematria and also CD-ROMs. There are generally pages of such ...
Hasidic Tales or other Jewish Stories Honoring Women3/25/2008
  Q: I am searching for a Hasidic tale or other Jewish story that honors women. Can you help me? ...
  A: I have several suggestions: 1. In the Bible, you have a wealth of stories in which women play ...
officiating rabbi3/23/2008
  Q: who usually performs the wedding ceremony-the bride or groom's rabbi? we are extremely fortunate to ...
  A: There is no such term as "primary Rabbi" and each can officiate in equal parts of ritual, speaking, ...
officiating rabbi3/22/2008
  Q: who usually performs the wedding ceremony-the bride or groom's rabbi? we are extremely fortunate to ...
  A: Firstly, thank you for writing, and mazal tov to your family and that of your future daughter in ...
suffering3/15/2008
  Q: why do jews believe we suffer? thanks very much
  A: First of all, I hope that you are well and that the question is more theoretical than practical for ...
Palestine3/13/2008
  Q: I cannot believe the simplified version of history you perpetrate, but I guess the only way to ...
  A: You really haven't written a question, and given the tone you've taken of attacking me - not even ...
ancient cremation3/10/2008
  Q: Was cremation/funeral pyres an acceptable part of ancient Judea customs?
  A: I did a quick search in the new Encyclopedia Judaica, and I am appending the relevant information ...
Hello2/27/2008
  Q: thought your name sounded familiar, so I checked the Ketuba and there it was. We've been married ...
  A: I'll check out the pictures on Sunday but speaking as a grandfather - I'll bet they are beautiful! ...
women at Moses' tabernacle2/24/2008
  Q: Could you please tell me where the women were allowed in regards to the tabernacle. I understand ...
  A: Works now, thank goodness. :-) We don't know a great deal for certain about the desert sanctuary. ...
Judaism2/22/2008
  Q: Why, considering the global impact of the Jesus story in general, do the Jews not claim Jesus as God ...
  A: In answer to your question, please understand that there are two responses: 1. As Jews, we don't ...
Judaism2/22/2008
  Q: Why, considering the global impact of the Jesus story in general, do the Jews not claim Jesus as God ...
  A: but Jews do not and will not accept Jesus as their messiah or savior. The reasons are legion and ...
prayer and fasting2/21/2008
  Q: I believe that prayer and fasting are important in my walk with God but I am struggling with people ...
  A: Fasting - giving up all food, drink or a partial amount - has origins in the Hebrew Scriptures and ...
Jewish beliefs about dying2/14/2008
  Q: I'm learning about Jewish culture for school and one other things we are suppose to research is ...
  A: However, I can "point" you to some sources. The easiest is the www.jewishencyclopedia.com, looking ...
Very sorry if you've heard this one before...2/13/2008
  Q: In the bible i have read that God takes people who has a speciific attitude towards people who have ...
  A: I truly feel for your losses and disappointments. Life is often not fair and filled only with joy ...
Very sorry if you've heard this one before...2/12/2008
  Q: In the bible i have read that God takes people who has a speciific attitude towards people who have ...
  A: Before I answer, would you mind please telling me more about yourself - your age, religious ...
Follow up to "born again"2/10/2008
  Q: Rabbi - In a class, the teacher mentioned that there were eight Jewish "born again" experiences -- ...
  A: I appreciate your frustration in not receiving an answer in your frame of reference. Perhaps that is ...
"Born again" -- again2/10/2008
  Q: Rabbi - In a class, the teacher mentioned that there were eight Jewish "born again" experiences -- ...
  A: In what sort of class did your teacher mention "there were eight Jewish "born again" experiences -- ...
marriage without ceremony2/7/2008
  Q: I am 78,a liberal Baptist, and trying to grow spiritually.Before man created ceremonies to legalize ...
  A: The Torah, Five Books of Moses, don't describe the actual marriage ceremony or the consummation of ...
Homosexualtiy2/2/2008
  Q: My name is Bradley, i am 14 and a Christian. I, however, am interested in conversion to Judaism, i ...
  A: However, I don't personally believe in counselling a minor regarding conversion. I would encourage ...
questions about a proverb1/30/2008
  Q: there is a proverb that says the quiet will always be thought of as wise. When it says "quiet" does ...
  A: It would be helpful if you would tell me which chapter and verse in the Book of Proverbs you are ...
interfaith dating1/24/2008
  Q: My son is dating a Conservative Jewish girl. He is Christian and has gone to church all his life. ...
  A: and I want to respond to you not only as a Rabbi but as a father and releatively recent grandfather. ...
lost tribes1/24/2008
  Q: Can you give me a brief explaination of what is meant by the "lost tribes of Israel" ...
  A: The most popular explanation for the "lost Tribes of Israel" refers to the destruction of the ...
a question...1/19/2008
  Q: the scripture says "blessed is the man who does not stand in the way of a sinner" but it also says ...
  A: "Standing the way of the sinner" in Ps. 1:1 is a parallel stich to the opening stich, and it means ...
killing.1/17/2008
  Q: if the law says killing is wrong, then how come the law also says it is okay to kill people who ...
  A: The laws of the Torah and Judaism forbid murder, but under different circumstances the taking of a ...
in the torah...1/16/2008
  Q: in the jewish faith, is it conidered a good thing or a bad thing to want to be like God?
  A: In my understanding of the Jewish faith, imitation of God is a positive value but it is also ...
Abraham Heschel1/16/2008
  Q: I'm working on a translation from Abraham Heschel's "The Insecurity of Freedom" in the chapter ...
  A: While I was a student of Dr. Heschel z"l I would not claim that I can fully understand his writing ...
Tradition of visiting a new home.1/13/2008
  Q: I have a friend who is Jewish and came to my new home with a loaf of bread and a small parcel of ...
  A: There are several historical reasons for this custom of bringing various items to a new home. 1. ...
Jewish home decor customs1/13/2008
  Q: Are there any specific home decor customs for Jews?
  A: There are traditionally two elements in the "decor" of a Jewish home: (1) a mezuzah = on each ...
Leviticus Chptr 121/11/2008
  Q: Why was is necessary for a woman to continue in her blood purification for 40 days when a male child ...
  A: Sorry for the use of the Hebrew which may not have been clear. The term "milah" means ...
Kneeling before g-d1/10/2008
  Q: Did the Jews ever have the custom to kneel before G-d before Christianity (BCE)? If so, was it ...
  A: Jews have had the custom of kneeling, and it continues today on the High Holy Days. At that time it ...
sheitel1/9/2008
  Q: Iis it true that some orthodox women have their sheital made of their own hair? would this be ...
  A: I am not an Orthodox Rabbi and I refer your question to an Orthodox Rabbi for an Orthodox ritual. ...
Leviticus Chptr 121/9/2008
  Q: Why was is necessary for a woman to continue in her blood purification for 40 days when a male child ...
  A: There are a variety of explanations and interpretations. Rabbi SRHirsch writes that the woman ...
....1/7/2008
  Q: what's the difference between mocking someone and rebuking someone....
  A: To mock someone is to make them the object of ridicule, privately at the least and quite possible in ...
Malachi1/7/2008
  Q: Why was Malachi the last prophet. Did we do something that prevented us from being worthy of a ...
  A: When the Rabbis canonized the Bible, it was they who declared Malachi the last prophet - please note ...
inquiry11/30/2007
  Q: Shalom alechim, my question is about people who claim to be atheists yet live very ethical and moral ...
  A: There are really two parts to your question. Certainly those who live an ethical and moral life as ...
MiShebayrach11/30/2007
  Q: I am a 51 year old male in New York City. Can a personal MiShebayrach blessing be given by a ...
  A: This is a complicated question. To begin with it is congregational policy which is entirely int he ...
jesus11/28/2007
  Q: do jews believe that jesus is the son of god and that he died on the cross for our sins.after all ...
  A: While I thank you for writing, I've answer this many times. Jesus has no religious or divine ...
Naming Traditions11/26/2007
  Q: My wife and I are expecting our second child in January. My wife started the process of converting ...
  A: Ashkenazi tradition normally does not name a child for a living relative - as do the Sefardim. ...
Weekly service11/25/2007
  Q: Greetings Rabbi: I wanted to ask if there are any guidelines or restrictions regarding a non-Jew ...
  A: I would urge you to speak with the Rabbi of the congregation where there is a service to work out ...
jewish get and civil divorce11/25/2007
  Q: I would like to obtain a get and thereby effect a Jewish divorce as quickly as possible. I am not ...
  A: Speaking for myself I speak with the attorney and they write into the civil decree the requirement ...
Conservative judaism11/20/2007
  Q: I Have a project about religions and I got assigned conservative judaism but im not really sure what ...
  A: but we don't do assignments for obvious reasons. Some suggested resources are a local Conservative ...
women attending funerals11/19/2007
  Q: Greetings, What are the limitations on women attending funerals? When do they date back to, please? ...
  A: Your question reflects some very Orthodox customs and procedures, especially in Israel. In the ...
Conversion11/14/2007
  Q: Rabbi Dov, I am contemplating conversion to Judaism, my wife is not interested in converting but has ...
  A: The process for conversion is possible, and the best suggestion is to speak with a local Rabbi. ...
Conversion to Judaism11/12/2007
  Q: I am wondering about the process involved in converting to Judaism. My husband and I (35 and 28, ...
  A: Thnks for writing and I hope I can help. There are a series of steps in conversion: 1. Education ...
adoption of non-jewish child11/12/2007
  Q: If Jewish parents adopt a non-Jewish infant what is the status of that child. Does the child need a ...
  A: BTW I speak from being a proud Rabbi of adopted children in our larger family. Yes, an adopted ...
Burial in a jewish cemetery11/11/2007
  Q: I have been undergoing an Orthodox conversion but stopped because my fiance could not commit to all ...
  A: The essential principle in Jewish tradition is that when one converts according to the tradition of ...
Jesus11/8/2007
  Q: I fancy Jewish nation , their great achievements , magnificent history and awesome survival . but ...
  A: I appreciate your kind thoughts about the State of Israel, the nation with a Jewish culture, ...
Turning lights on shabbath11/8/2007
  Q: My cousin (who is currently converting to Judaism) is convinced that a conservative Jew on Saturday ...
  A: First of all, I have to say honestly I've never heard of such a rule about being in a room under ...
Jewish as race or religion10/31/2007
  Q: I am in a sort of identity crisis. My father is Jewish as well as all members of his family. My ...
  A: and your situation is not unusual - for several reasons. First of all, the most traditional answer ...
Question on Eschatology10/29/2007
  Q: I want to ask what is the Conservative Jewish position on the Messianic Age and the World to come? ...
  A: The reality is that Conservative Jews don't have to explain or deal with the Orthodox opinions - ...
PRAYER10/29/2007
  Q: I am a mystery novelist. My character abandoned his Jewish faith when the rabbi would not marry him ...
  A: What you just discovered is that there is no "average" Jew but rather every possibility is just that ...
genealogy possibilities for Messiah10/27/2007
  Q: Are the Jewish people aware of the current possible family lines through which the Messiah may ...
  A: However, there is no reliable genealogical data-base from which any bloodline can be traced reliably ...
PRAYER10/26/2007
  Q: I am a mystery novelist. My character abandoned his Jewish faith when the rabbi would not marry him ...
  A: Correct conclusion. Your characters like so many Jews think of marriage as a sacrement, a ...
PRAYER10/24/2007
  Q: I am a mystery novelist. My character abandoned his Jewish faith when the rabbi would not marry him ...
  A: First question of this sort!! The premise is very realistic in terms of disappointment, although it ...
question about mary10/17/2007
  Q: was mary breaking jewish law by sitting at the feet of Jesus and anoiting his feet. someone tryed to ...
  A: I am unaware of any law that would have prohibited someone from washing the feet of another, either ...
Visiting the gravesite of my parents10/9/2007
  Q: My name is Teri, I am 57 years old. I used to attend a reform temple, but have switched to ...
  A: To begin with, please understand that I am not a follower of the Kabbalah or those customs. I agree ...
sects10/9/2007
  Q: Are there different sects or cults in Judaism? thank you behzad
  A: We don't speak of sects or cults. There are some groups within Judaism that are more extreme - ...
Teffillin10/8/2007
  Q: Is it acceptable to bring a bag with both tallis and teffillin to a Yom Kippur service, or should ...
  A: If one considers Yom Kippur to be the "Sabbath of Sabbath" we don't don or handle tefillin on the ...
Re: A few questions10/8/2007
  Q: Shalom! I have a few questions if I may ask. Ok, so recently I have been doing some religious ...
  A: Concerning the Documentary Hypothesis, it has also been revamped and revised over time. Be careful ...
head covering10/7/2007
  Q: Our new Rabbi insists that women wear a head covering when on the Bimah. This has never been a ...
  A: I appreciate your response. Let me explain. First of all, I never contradict a colleague - of any ...
head covering10/4/2007
  Q: Our new Rabbi insists that women wear a head covering when on the Bimah. This has never been a ...
  A: I will encourage you to meet with your Rabbi. Change is always difficult, and your new Rabbi will be ...
why10/4/2007
  Q: Why do Judaism followers do not believe in Jesus as Messiah? There are many messianic prophecies ...
  A: but this is an old question with old answers. Jesus did not fulfill the Biblical prophecies in the ...
ayuda9/5/2007
  Q: My father was Jew and my mother catholic. My father took me several times to the synagogal and I ...
  A: Please forgive the delay in answering; I was needed to help with a death in the family out of town. ...
Rebuild9/5/2007
  Q: From a question previously asked,but not answered...Do you have the answer? Q- What year was the ...
  A: Please forgive the delay in answering; I was needed to help with a death in the family out of town. ...
A buzzword?9/5/2007
  Q: I'm writing from Europe and I'm a Catholic. I watch a lot of American movies which sometimes ...
  A: Please forgive the delay in answering; I was needed to help with a death in the family out of town. ...
Melchizedek9/2/2007
  Q: Sir, What is your take on: "Melchizedek"? Who/what is he...for what purpose?
  A: Please forgive the delay in answering; I was needed to help with a death in the family out of town. ...
unveiling9/1/2007
  Q: Due to issues that are very complicated it is not possible for my brother and I to be present at my ...
  A: Please forgive the delay in answering; I was needed to help with a death in the family out of town. ...
Wine8/30/2007
  Q: Q- Hosea 4:12 says...( Can you explain) ? "Harlotry, wine, and new wine enslave the heart. ...
  A: What is it specifically that you are seeking to clarify. Harlotry means sexual immorality. ...
Grave metal boxes8/29/2007
  Q: We were at the cemetery where I saw metal boxes on several graves that appear like mail boxes. These ...
  A: I've consulted with colleagues, most of whom have not reported seeing such metl boxes. No one could ...
Wine8/27/2007
  Q: Q- Hosea 4:12 says...( Can you explain) ? "Harlotry, wine, and new wine enslave the heart. ...
  A: The citation is properly Hosea 4:11. Dr. A. Cohen sees a relationship between harlotry and drink, ...
Hebrews8/25/2007
  Q: Rabbi When the Hebrews were in the wildderness for 40 years, did they have animals, that were used ...
  A: During the time that the Israelites or Hebrews were in the desert, the basic domestic animals were ...
Judaism8/24/2007
  Q: What are some changes Judaism underwent from its founding and why? Difference in practice/belief ...
  A: I can't speak for the history of the other movements, but consider the following on the Conservative ...
Judaism8/23/2007
  Q: What are some changes Judaism underwent from its founding and why? Difference in practice/belief ...
  A: however the questions you raise are beyond the scope of this column. There have been untold changes ...
body/spirit death8/22/2007
  Q: I recently read your answer regarding the placing of rocks on headstones. It is something I have ...
  A: What I had intended to convey were the "layers" or evolution of understanding about death and the ...
"girtel"8/20/2007
  Q: What is the sometime custom of men wearing a tie or sash around their waist? What does it signify ...
  A: In some ultra-orthodox and/or Hasidic communities, there is a belief that one needs to separate the ...
I Kings 11:19-20, Tahpenes8/16/2007
  Q: All my questions are related to Queen Tahpense, I Kings 11:19-20. (1) What is the meaning of her ...
  A: Unfortunately I am not a specialist in Egyptian language and applications. Tahpenes is an Egyptian ...
DH, and one other question8/16/2007
  Q: Today I was approached by a muslim missionary (yup.. they exist now.) And they were trying to show ...
  A: I don't wish to be rude or evasive, for I appreciate your interest in the topic. However what I ...
DH, and one other question8/12/2007
  Q: Today I was approached by a muslim missionary (yup.. they exist now.) And they were trying to show ...
  A: I took some additional time to check out some resources for you. Documentary Hypothesis is a term ...
BORN AGAIN8/6/2007
  Q: I am a Christian, 61 years old. The Christian Bible uses the expression 'you must be born again'. ...
  A: I needed to do some research on the various interpretations of "to be born again" in Christianity, ...
Who?7/31/2007
  Q: Q- Re Ezra 7:7 Who are the “Nethimim”?
  A: Thye are earlier mentioned in 2:42ff, and the Hebrew means "given" to God or the Levites. They were ...
prophecies7/18/2007
  Q: there are places in the bible where God tells people that their families will be tormented and die ...
  A: Regarding various personalities in the books of Hebrew Scriptures who disappointed God or ...
sheep7/15/2007
  Q: I heard a preacher say that it was a custom at one time to keep a unblemished shhep in the house for ...
  A: This is a notion I never heard of. It is an interesting idea,to suggest that one "sacrifices" ...
Slayings7/9/2007
  Q: Q- Does the Talmud record anything about the slaying of the male children that Herod was supposed to ...
  A: , Thanks for writing. If I am not wrong, this isn't the first time you have written, trying to find ...
The Big T7/2/2007
  Q: Lerner...I hope you can help me understand this.. Okay, I don't understand how the name "Tammuz" ...
  A: Although you're correct that the references are to pagan deities in various traditions, including ...
Egypt as Serpent6/30/2007
  Q: to a community fleeing Egypt) as a symbol for Egypt, or Pharaoh? I know at one later point at least ...
  A: Is it possible? Perhaps. Let's not forget that the crown, as seen for Cleopatra, had the serpent ...
GOOD NEWS6/30/2007
  Q: MESSIANIC PROPHECIES FOR JEWS 1. Isaiah 52:13-53:12 2. Isaiah 49:1-7 3. Isaiah 42:1-9 4. Isaiah ...
  A: Bannai, You may think that this is a positive act, but from my point of view it is rude - it is ...
Please reply, i am still waiting, am I a jew?6/30/2007
  Q: I have written to you before, you askesd me for my email adress. I wonder if I am a Jew, I am so ...
  A: Allow me to be brief and clear. According to Jewish tradition and law, if your mother had only a ...
Broken Shabbat Candle Stick Holder6/24/2007
  Q: I have kind of an odd question. Would you have any advice on how to fix a Shabbat candle stock ...
  A: Contact either a jeweler or a metal shop which does welding. The only rel decision that has to be ...
The Messiah6/18/2007
  Q: Hey there, thank you for reading my question. I need not just your point of view on this question, ...
  A: The Hebrew is speaking of a time during that of the prophet, NOT of a future time as Christianity ...
Stem Cell Research6/16/2007
  Q: I am a Christian and in highschool. I would like to know the Conservative Judaism beliefs in ...
  A: As a Conservative Rabbi, our movement is entirely in support of all forms of stem cell research that ...
head coverings6/11/2007
  Q: I found your answer to a question dating back to 2004 on the tradition of the yarmulka. I have ...
  A: I went researching and found the following that provides some background. A Babylonia custom was ...
Torah scroll6/5/2007
  Q: I'm a 14 Year old student studying Judaism at school. Please can you tell me what the wording means ...
  A: There are many different inscriptions on a Torah Schroll mantle. Unless I can see it, I cannot ...
Animal Sacrifice6/3/2007
  Q: I know now that animal sacrifices stoped in 79 CE when the Temple was destroyed. My questions are; ...
  A: Animal and all sacrifices ceased in 70 CE when the Romans destroyed the Second Temple in Jerusalem. ...
purgatory5/31/2007
  Q: From what I have been reading, I am led to believe that the Jewish religion believes in some form of ...
  A: Judaism is a faith that is "this-world" oriented with greater interest in how we conduct our lives ...
Moses5/30/2007
  Q: This question is about Moses. Moses was raised by Pharohs's daughter and was treated as an Egyptian ...
  A: and the subject is very complicated. The Biblical text is very cryptic. For that reason the Rabbis ...
jew?5/30/2007
  Q: I am a 44 years old man married with a catholic lady and with 2 sons. My father was jew from melilla ...
  A: A Jew is either born to a Jewish mother or converts to Judaism according to traditional rituals and ...
Christian attire to Jewish Funeral5/28/2007
  Q: What do Christian Men and Woman wear to a Jewish Funeral? Do we wear something on our head?
  A: Appropriate attire is modest, whether liberal or very traditional Jewish funeral. If the funeral is ...
why?5/28/2007
  Q: How do bald men put on yamaca's?
  A: Good question - for those of us who are balding and have very short hair! We either use kipot ...
6 Day War5/24/2007
  Q: Within the last year I saw an amazing documentary on television in which soldiers who fought in this ...
  A: There are a variety of films aboutthe 6 Day War in 1967, including some documentaries. I have seen a ...
INterfaith Love5/20/2007
  Q: This is a follow up to http://en.allexperts.com/q/Judaism-951/INterfaith-Love.htm How do i deal ...
  A: It may be that they don't know how else to express themselves and their love for you as well as ...
INterfaith Love5/18/2007
  Q: I am writing you after reading many articles on interfaith relationships. My boyfriend (38) and I ...
  A: but your situation is far from unusual or unique. My first response is that you should immediately ...
Jews5/18/2007
  Q: I would like you to answer my questions regarding today's Jews. Are they really Semitic? or they are ...
  A: Today's Jews are a faith community, not a nationality. They are descended from men and women from ...
Tefilla5/16/2007
  Q: Q-Re Vayikra 16:3-5…can you tell me what prayer in the Siddur corresponds to this? To do the ...
  A: What is it you are seeking to understand? Chapter 16 of Leviticus becomes the basis for the Service ...
cemetery5/13/2007
  Q: I recently visited a Jewish cemetery, and I noticed that many of the tombstones had small rocks on ...
  A: Rocks are placed on tombstones today for various reasons, if only to indicate that people visited ...
Offering5/7/2007
  Q: Q- Is this done today? If so, in what way? Leviticus 6,18 “Speak unto Aaron and to his sons, ...
  A: Check out http://www.jewishencyclopedia.com/view.jsp?artid=496&letter=P&search=prayer The prayer ...
Conversion5/4/2007
  Q: my name is Rafael, I am a jew and my wife is Christian, we have 3 kids a child from her previous ...
  A: The simplest answer is for you to contact the Rabbi of the congregation in which you would want your ...
A place to worship5/4/2007
  Q: I have been a devout Christian (Protestant) all my life, but I now no longer believe that Jesus is ...
  A: I believe that you are correct in that not everyone needs to be a Jew, even if they are not ...
Offering5/4/2007
  Q: Q- Is this done today? If so, in what way? Leviticus 6,18 “Speak unto Aaron and to his sons, ...
  A: but there are no sacrifices for the past 1900 years since the destruction of the Second Temple in ...
Sanhedrin rulings5/4/2007
  Q: I don't know if the last one made it. So, I will try repeat. How did the Sanhedrin vote or did ...
  A: The pattern for the Sanhedrin is an extensive literature. However we wouldn't and don't use that ...
Israelism5/1/2007
  Q: Could you explain the difference between Judaism and Israelism?
  A: Judaism is a faith with which one is affiliated, to which one is committed and whose heritage is one ...
No music4/30/2007
  Q: I listen to a Jewish radio program in my car called JM in the AM, and I noticed that for the past ...
  A: There is a custom of not using or listening to music during the period of Sefirah, counting 49 days ...
Jewish education in the first century4/24/2007
  Q: I was wondering did schools exist in Israel in the first century, or were most people taught by ...
  A: There is a general consensus that young people were educated with teachers as a priority. We don't ...
Importance of attending shiva for relative4/23/2007
  Q: We live in Atlanta, GA and my husband has a first cousin who lives in Toronto, Canada. Her ...
  A: I can't offer you any advice. Clearly when and if it is "convenient" - distance and time - ...
Jewish law4/21/2007
  Q: What is the book of the covenant referred to in Exodus? Who wrote it and when? Thank you.
  A: There are two uses of the words "book of the covenant." For some it means the entire Torah=Five ...
uh-oh4/19/2007
  Q: Shalom, My name is Shlomo and i 12 years old and am in need of serious help. I recently discovered I ...
  A: I give you credit for addressing the issue and obviously doing a lot of research. It is against my ...
Bris4/18/2007
  Q: My son is married to a non Jew. They are expecting a baby soon. It will be a boy. They are still ...
  A: This should have been worked out by the couple before the marriage, and hopefully has been. A brit ...
Am I a Jew?4/16/2007
  Q: "Hi, I am very confused over the distinction between being an ethnic Jew as opposed to an active ...
  A: First of all, if you have a particular congregation in mind, make a call to the Rabbi and set up an ...
Passover/Haroseth4/6/2007
  Q: Are you Berel Dov Lerner of Israel or a different person? What is the origin of Haroseth? It was ...
  A: No, I am not that person as I live in the States. I have been confused with "Barry Dov Lerner" who ...
Jewish Heritage4/3/2007
  Q: Hi, I'm 20 years old. I researched through your past answers, and I understand that Judaism is not a ...
  A: By Jewish law for the last several thousand years, so long as one is descended matrilineally - ...
Zechariah 11 and Jesus4/2/2007
  Q: could you please help me with this question that is troubling me. The Christians say that Zachariah ...
  A: I apologize for any delay due to pneumonia. There is, from a Jewish point of view, no relationship ...
symbolism of the yamulka3/9/2007
  Q: I had asked you about your communion participation. and what other symbols that i could take on. ...
  A: Now I understand. Perhaps in searching for an example I used the wrong on in "taking communion in ...
Roles3/8/2007
  Q: What is the difference in services before the L-RD of the Kohanim and the Levites? What role does ...
  A: In the Temple, the Kohanim=priests conducted the sacrifices, while the Levites were assisting them, ...
symbolism of the yamulka3/8/2007
  Q: Rabbi Barry I am curious as to why you chose not to respond to my other follow up questions? ...
  A: I thought I had answered all your questions. If you or other Christians wish to wear a yarmulka, go ...
symbolism of the yamulka3/8/2007
  Q: Why can one group of people practice one thing and no one else can? For example lots of people ...
  A: but I would suggest that you may be over-reacting. You asked for an opinion. There is no law or ...
symbolism of the yamulka3/6/2007
  Q: I recently have thought about wearing a yamulka, but i am very confused as to do so or not. My ...
  A: Yes, it is a Jewish article of clothing, even for Jewish women these days in the liberal movements. ...
Kosher meats3/1/2007
  Q: Sir, I am neither Jewish nor kosher,but, I have recently become concerned about the treatment of the ...
  A: I've taken this time to be certain of my facts in responding to your most sensitive note. Jews from ...
Hebrew Name2/18/2007
  Q: There is no one living in my family that can remember if I was given a Hebrew name. My son is going ...
  A: First of all, your "English" or secular name is frequently used in Yiddish as a Jewish name. It is ...
giving gifts2/6/2007
  Q: The poem that I was referring to goes like this: Wine- so that you will always have joy, Bread- so ...
  A: I shall keep it in my library and I am very grateful for your response. I knew of bread and salt, ...
Forgiveness2/3/2007
  Q: However, my question concerned locating instances in the Bible of MAN forgiving MAN, God ...
  A: I wish that I were able to have the time and opportunity to do the research for you. If you use a ...
giving gifts1/31/2007
  Q: My friends are very strong in their jewish faith. They are preparing to move into a new home and I ...
  A: If they are truly observant, then the foods need to be "kosher" and must come from a kosher source. ...
Serpent1/30/2007
  Q: Shalom R. Lerner Can you tell me when the Tanach speaks of the hebrew word "Tannim"...in these ...
  A: In short, there is in my opinion no support for "tanin" to refer to either any Christian ...
Forgiveness1/29/2007
  Q: I'm investigating the subject of forgiveness in the Old Testament. Clearly, there are numerous ...
  A: and indeed it is a great question. Generally we do not respond to research or assignmensts. But this ...
Baptism1/26/2007
  Q: I am a Penecostal man 49 years old trying to deepen my walk with God.I believe in "Here O Israel, ...
  A: Yes, "immersion" was a required ritual of the Temple in Jerusalem, and they have found many "ritual ...
Moses1/25/2007
  Q: Rabbi- I'm a Christian youth minister volunteer and I had a visitor in my Bible study tonight. ...
  A: You visitor was really telling your group a legend. It does not exist in the Hebrew Scriptures at ...
gods1/23/2007
  Q: Where does Judaism teach about the Muslim and Christian gods? Are they the same as the Jewish god, ...
  A: Judaism teaches that God is one and unique. For Jews, God is not divisible in any fashion, and it is ...
Judaism1/21/2007
  Q: At what point in biblical history did the fundamental pattern of Jewish experience emerge, and what ...
  A: but this sounds like a question right out of an examination or take-home. We don't participate in ...
Judaism1/16/2007
  Q: How does Judaism assist its adherents to achieve inner peace?
  A: Jews find a great deal of inner peace, as you might expect in prayer three times a day - morning, ...
inviting the departed to a happy event1/16/2007
  Q: Is there a custom that one goes to the cemetery to invite a departed loved one to a happy event?
  A: Yes, there is a custom - not a law - that one may go to a grave of a loved one and invite them to be ...
Insanity1/13/2007
  Q: How is the concept of insanity viewed in Judaism? What Biblical references can be quoted? Thank ...
  A: This is a continuing thread and I can't add too much more. Frankly, I wonder why you are so ...
philo1/12/2007
  Q: I have been reading the ancient writings of Philo and am trying to understand the Jewish concept of ...
  A: The brief but important principle is that for at least 2000 years Jews and Judaism teaches that each ...
ethics1/7/2007
  Q: What is the connection between law and art
  A: In advance I must say that this is most complicated with various nuances in Jewish law and Jewish ...
Judaism and Insanity1/5/2007
  Q: I'm truly humbled. Therefore, I ask my question in a different way: Please, can you tell me, in a ...
  A: Sorry but a "juicy summary" shouldn't suffice for anything, even a review question for a class. ...
Judaism and Insanity1/5/2007
  Q: Can you tell me, in as much detail as possible, how Conservative and Orthodox Judaism views ...
  A: However, when you ask "for as much detail as possible" you indicate already that it is a very large ...
Judiasm1/3/2007
  Q: What influences did Judaism have on the development of early Christianity?
  A: however you are asking for a major treatise! There is far more influence than can be summarized in ...
Sacrifices12/21/2006
  Q: Rabbi Dov, I saw an answer you gave concerning the rebuilding of the temple and was wondering if ...
  A: Deatr Mark Thanks for writing. The Rabbis included those who felt that the Temple would not ever ...
the laws12/21/2006
  Q: Rabbi; when reading the laws in Leviticus they tell us to do some very harsh things; to stone ...
  A: First of all, we are citizens of countries and we are bound by the laws of the land; we may not ...
Question12/19/2006
  Q: I am a Philosophy student and a Christian, but I am very interested in Judaism as well as ...
  A: First of all, Jewish use of the term Satan is far from the Christian use. At most, A solid summary ...
love12/15/2006
  Q: I've been asking about love, what is the love that the Torah speaks about, we're supposed to love ...
  A: This love of which you speak is a real theological challenge. The love for one's neighbor is really ...
Converting to Judaism12/8/2006
  Q: I am interested in converting to Judaism. I want to be a Conservative Jew. Where do I go in ...
  A: I'm contacting colleagues in Chicago to determine who teaches in the Hillel School. Please contact ...
God11/19/2006
  Q: I wonder if the bible is really an inspired work , any more than other great poetry or philosophy. ...
  A: On re-reading my answer and your question, I see that I neglected the first part. For myself, the ...
Judaism11/16/2006
  Q: how many people follow Judaism
  A: I googled the topic myself and found the following information as of 2005. Best wishes Rabbi Dov ...
Sacrafice of animals11/15/2006
  Q: When did the Jewish religion stop sacrificing animals and why
  A: ALREADY ANSWERED Dear John, Thanks for writing. When the Second Temple was destroyed by Rome for ...
regarding hand shakes of rabbi11/13/2006
  Q: Why cant you give a rabbi a hand shake or can you.
  A: There is a traditional modesty that many Jews still observe, one aspect of which is not touching = ...
Conversion with tatoo11/11/2006
  Q: Good Morning my friend, Upon my journey in discovering the Jewish people and my hopes of ...
  A: Conservative conversion would not be denied to you because of tatoos, nor would any other status as ...
Evil11/10/2006
  Q: I am a member of a Conservative Congregation, 90 years of age and taking courses at a Community ...
  A: I translate the term to mean the "inclination to do evil" defined for me as opposed to God's will ...
Catholic Student Assignment Question11/9/2006
  Q: I am 13 and go to a Catholic Jr High in Missouri. During our religion class we are encouraged to ...
  A: but we don't answer questions from exams. The messiah in Jewish terms was to occur just after the ...
Various11/7/2006
  Q: Shalom R. Lerner, I was hoping you could help me with these questions I have? Q1 -Is it possible ...
  A: , Thanks for writing. I thought I had written earlier. What is the basis for these questions. We ...
housewarming traditions - bread and salt10/30/2006
  Q: I read your answer to the question about a housewarming gift of salt and bread (oh, I'm sorry, they ...
  A: The meanings seem to be shared in a variety of cultures. Rabbi Dov We've heard two versions, and ...
Jewish beliefs9/22/2006
  Q: Rabbi Lerner, First allow me to thank you for providing this service! I was in discussion w/ a ...
  A: Indeed most modern or liberal Jews do emphasize "this world" rather than the "world to come." More ...
driving on Shabbos9/20/2006
  Q: How about flipping on lights or adjusting the AC? Are these also permitted by some? How about use of ...
  A: Electricity in mnay opinions of the Committee on Jewish Law and Standards is permitted. As I ...
Halal equal to Kosher?9/17/2006
  Q: I have heard that from the Muslim viewpoint, Kosher meat is acceptable for Muslims to eat, as meat ...
  A: No, Hallal does not meet the standards of kosher slaughter, butchering or preparing meat. Yes, you ...
driving on Shabbos9/17/2006
  Q: I recently received a magazine in the mail from the Conservative. I was surprised to find that they ...
  A: All of my student peers were Shomer Shabbat, including not driving on Shabbat. I don't recall that ...
Evil eye9/12/2006
  Q: Do the jewish people,as a whole believe in the "evil eye?" And if so what is the Evil Eye??
  A: I wish I knew the answer. No educated Jew believes in magic, in superstition, etc. The "evil eye" ...
moving into a new home9/5/2006
  Q: Rabbi: What is the Jewish tradition for someone who is moving into a new home? I think the custom ...
  A: David, Thanks for writing. The Jewish custom is to take to the home bread and salt. The broom is ...
Does Israel Accept Reform / Conserv Convert?9/3/2006
  Q: I realize my mom is Jewish, and out of fear all of the records were lost and destroyed after her dad ...
  A: What makes you concerned that your Mother or Grandmother might not be consdered Jewish in anyone's ...
business custome8/29/2006
  Q: I am meeting with an orthodox business man to negotiate a commercial real estate deal. I would like ...
  A: You re obviously a thoughtful and sensitive person. No, I would not suggest bringing anything to ...
yamulka or kippa8/23/2006
  Q: i am jew ,I grow up as a conservative actually my family and i assist to a reform sinagoga,in the ...
  A: In my experience, in Jewish tradition single men don't wear a tallit and single women don't cover ...
Daily Reading8/20/2006
  Q: I just got my 2007 Conservative calendar and noted a daily reading of some sort. Some from Torah and ...
  A: I'm delighted that you are receiving the calendar, as my wife and I were the creators and editors ...
Conservatism8/15/2006
  Q: Rabbi Dov, I guess I was not aware of the extent of the animosity between Conservatism and Orthodoxy ...
  A: Please don't impute general animosity, although - for example - there are a number of Orthodox ...
10-6038/14/2006
  Q: As always, thank you for your time! What do you believe is the relationship between the Decalogue ...
  A: I appreciate the fact that you are writing. However, please remember that this is a Conservative ...
Feast of Tabernacle8/13/2006
  Q: Age: 35 years Religious affiliation: Non-denominatinal, Charsmatic I have heard that during ...
  A: In short, the answer is yes. The Babylonian Talmud, Sukkah, 5:1-4 For the Simchat Beit HaShoaevah, ...
miracles during the 67 war7/5/2006
  Q: ..i am a Deacon in the Roman Catholic faith who has always believed strongly that the JEWISH PEOPLE ...
  A: There are many legends and personal accounts of the 6 Day War in 1967 if only because it was still ...
Judiasm Religion7/3/2006
  Q: What are the top two current issues facing the Judiasm religion today?
  A: Every teacher, Rabbi and involved Jew would have different answers. In my own opinion, among the ...
Deut. 15:357/3/2006
  Q: Rabbi, Thank you for your follow-up answer. As a closing thought, I find it interesting that, as ...
  A: I appreciate your kind - albeit slightly patronizing :-) - comments, although I had sensed you are ...
Deut. 15:357/2/2006
  Q: Rabbi, Right you are, should have been Numbers, not Deuteronomy. What was his crime? Do you find it ...
  A: The Talmud in Shabbat, see 73b and 96b, discusses exactly your question. They suggest that the ...
animal sacrifice6/27/2006
  Q: I am a 39 year old practicing christian. My father and I were discussing the laws of judaism the ...
  A: There are really two separate issues here. The first is that animal sacrifice could only take place ...
Conversion Help6/27/2006
  Q: Do I have a pickle for you. My husband and I are living in Okinawa, Japan. My husband is the lay ...
  A: To be honest, I am trying to set up distance education course for conversion. The challenge to such ...
Deut. 15:356/26/2006
  Q: Rabbi, What was the man's crime in Deut. 15:35? The 'traditional' explainations don't seem to make ...
  A: The text to which you are referring I imagine is really inNumbers and not Deutronomy. In any event, ...
Prayer6/20/2006
  Q: You seem very sensible and I would like to follow up with one last question. Could you please ...
  A: As a Jew I believe that we have free will, without limits. We have the capacity even to ...
Prayer6/20/2006
  Q: I recently read Rabbi Kushner's book When Bad Things Happen to Good People. I understand his logic ...
  A: While you have identified that in both situations one is praying "for" nonetheless there is a ...
do the jews believe in jesus as the messiah6/19/2006
  Q: alright, i already know the answer to this which i believe is no. as far as i know the jews ...
  A: Sometimes it takes the opinion of a third person to convince a friend. Jews do not believe that ...
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  Q: Some people from the Bible/Torah, such as Solomon, Abraham, and Jacob had multiple wives, ...
  A: Strange as it sounds, yes. There were laws and rules in the culture in early Israelite history, and ...
tabernacle6/15/2006
  Q: Rabbi Lerner My question concerns the tabernacle. Exodus says that the tabernacle was 150 feet by ...
  A: You've raised a wonderful and fascinating issue. Most of the dimensions described in the ancient ...
Consrvative Judaism6/12/2006
  Q: What are the main features of conservative Judaism??
  A: Unfortunately, it is a very complicated question with many nuances. In brief we are (1) an ...
Pentacost6/9/2006
  Q: Rabbi, First, thank you for taking the time to consider this question. I am a Non-Denominational ...
  A: If you wish to read up on Pentecost (Shavuot or the Festival of Weeks) in the Jewish tradition, try ...
Jurisdiction of Beth Din5/30/2006
  Q: I have a dispute with a Ukrainian government official, a Jew, and would opt for a rabbinical court. ...
  A: I must advise you to contact someone who is familiar with both local, secular law and also its ...
American Judaism5/22/2006
  Q: Rav Lerner, There are hundreds of hispanic radio stations, thousand christian radio stations, black ...
  A: While I appreciate your observation, may I respond as follows: 1. Although you speak out of a ...
Purpose5/16/2006
  Q: I am a student of religion and was wondering if you could help me. Could you explain, in a couple ...
  A: I can only answer personally as this is too broad and deep a question in terms of philosophy. ...
Shalom5/8/2006
  Q: Your profile was interesting. Can you tell me the difference, between orthodox, ultra orthodox, ...
  A: Orthodox and ultra-orthodx Jews are fundamentalists in terms of written law of the Five Books of ...
origin of "Jewish mother" rule for Jewish identity5/8/2006
  Q: In an internet forum, a reader of a recent Ha'aretz piece, Shmuel Rosner's "The mystery of the fifth ...
  A: The first issue is the determination of Jewish identity based upon birth to a Jewish mother. It is ...
please reply...5/8/2006
  Q: I am sorry to bother you, I have an important question that had busy my thought for a long time. As ...
  A: However, I could never advise anyone to do which is illegal and against the law of one's heritage. ...
Please Help Im so confused :-(4/21/2006
  Q: I am 26 yr old male from the U.K AM I jewish? I have not been bought up as jewish but maybe want ...
  A: First of all, I would urge you to speak with a local Rabbi who should be able to assist you more ...
Alcohol during Passover (?)4/10/2006
  Q: I belong to a "Gourmet Club" in Toronto, Ontario, Canada. Our mandate is to understand the world ...
  A: Interesting question. Thanks. Plum brandy is available and is marked on the label - Kosher for ...
why are we here? Ya know,...4/5/2006
  Q: why are we here? Ya know, why do we exsist? is there a meaning of life?
  A: You are asking a profound question, frankly beyond my ability to answer for you. I can only answer ...
Would an All Powerful God Permit Our Evil World??3/29/2006
  Q: I hope you will consider a further inquiry. You state that "there is a universal force for good, ...
  A: Passover is almost here and I must admit that I am pressed, but I wanted to respond albeit briefly. ...
Would an All Powerful God Permit Our Evil World??3/24/2006
  Q: I am a 35 year old male, born to two Conservative to Reformed Jewish parents. I'm a lawyer and ...
  A: It would appear that you have a full plate from which to ask about the "justice" or "goodness" of ...
Abraham3/22/2006
  Q: Please can you tell me what you know about Abraham. I know about the story when he wants a child, ...
  A: whether we are talking about what the Hebrew Scriptures actually state or the stories that have been ...
religion3/21/2006
  Q: What is your religion ? in your opinion what is religion ? in your opinion what is Faith ? Has ...
  A: but it sounds as though this is a class assignment. I remind everyone that we don't participate in ...
lineage3/13/2006
  Q: How is the heritage passed down, through a person's mother or father?
  A: If you are acking whether the Jewish community consideres someone to be Jewish, they can choose to ...
Term Paper3/9/2006
  Q: I am doing a term paper on Judaism and need to ask a few questions to finish my paper. Would you be ...
  A: but our policy is not to work with students on their research papers. That needs to be an ...
Jews and Jesus3/6/2006
  Q: I wondered who Jews believe Jesus was? Do they believe he was a prophet, never existed, or an evil ...
  A: It is impossible for me to represent all Jews and Judaism. For an academic response which is ...
cultural beliefs that affect health2/24/2006
  Q: my name is brenda, i am a nursing student in pampa tx. i am doing some reasearch about judaism and ...
  A: In terms of assisting Jewish patients, the specturm of observance is very wide. The only way one can ...
Hebrew names on grave monuments2/19/2006
  Q: My aunt passed away last april and I am now looking for a monument for her grave. What I need is the ...
  A: From the perspective of teaching, there is not always an exact correlation between the English and ...
Milk and meat2/13/2006
  Q: There was an interesting article in the NY Times, February 6th, 2006( "The Word of G-d, as Shaped by ...
  A: I don't know of Mr. Hillel or his academic credentials. I consulted Biblia Hebraica to see if there ...
halacha2/12/2006
  Q: I am a Jewish chaplain (CPE) and often I am confronted with issues that I would like a true ...
  A: but it would appear that you are seeking definitive opinions of the Conservative Movement and the ...
The 10 plagues2/11/2006
  Q: How long did the last plague last?
  A: The Book of Exodus describes the 10th plague beginning at midnight when God passed through Egypt, ...
Counting of the omer1/30/2006
  Q: I am a relatively observant conservative Jew and have a question about the official conservative ...
  A: My experience has been that often when members of a congregation don't agree with their Rabbi's ...
Sumerian kings and Biblical history1/30/2006
  Q: Religious affliation: I have basic knowldege abt. the Biblical events, primarily the antediluvian ...
  A: As a modern, Conservative Rabbi I don't read the first 10 chapters of the Bible as literal history ...
Messianics1/26/2006
  Q: I feel priveleged to communicate so easily with you today. I am female,58 yrs of age and was raised ...
  A: Yes, if you still believe that Jesus is the Messiah, then you may find your fulfillment in the ...
Judaism vs Christianity1/25/2006
  Q: Simply put, can you please tell the difference between Judaism and Christianity? Thank you.
  A: Simply put, Jews don't believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Christ, the son of God or anyone more ...
soul, spirit etc1/24/2006
  Q: I find the the Old Testament to be a little confusing as it is hard to understand the differences in ...
  A: I am answering from the perspective of a modern, Conservative Rabbi. If you want or need a ...
Ezekiel's Temple1/23/2006
  Q: I was wondering about the prince in the book of Ezekiel. Is he a king, prince, or Messiah that is to ...
  A: I commend to you the Soncino Bible series and the volume on Ezekiel. The prince in these chapters in ...
Ezekiel's Temple1/20/2006
  Q: I was wondering about the prince in the book of Ezekiel. Is he a king, prince, or Messiah that is to ...
  A: I'm be delighted to respond. To what chapter(s) are you referring. In terms of Christian thinking ...
Counting of the omer1/17/2006
  Q: I am a relatively observant conservative Jew and have a question about the official conservative ...
  A: However, as an observant Conservative Jew is there a reason for asking me on-line rather than asking ...
Multiple Versions?1/8/2006
  Q: One more thing though. When you said "We know that it was edited in Babylonia and the final versions ...
  A: There are multiple versions in the Septuagint, the Greek translation, that exist in multiple ...
Punishment For Apostacy In Judaism 21/6/2006
  Q: You said that "Jews historically has not, does not and will not execute apostates to any other ...
  A: I appreciate your reading of the text, but it is - even if revealed in antiquity - has been passed ...
I thought jews were a race? How is it possible to convert?12/30/2005
  Q: I am a 36 year old protestant soldier serving in Iraq. I am married to a Jewish girl of 30. Hilary's ...
  A: , First of all and above all, thank you for serving your country in such an exposed and dangerous ...
christ12/21/2005
  Q: Why did the jews not accept that jesus was the promised one Many thanks Bill Battram
  A: Judaism does not interpret the Hebrew Scriptures as did Christianity across the ages. We apply to ...
jews perspective on aids/hiv12/6/2005
  Q: I just wanted to know whats jews perspective on aids. What does or has judaism religion taught their ...
  A: The Jewish religion believes that AIDS and HIV are diseases which came into existence probably as ...
conversion to judaism11/26/2005
  Q: I am a 58 year old divorced female. I have no children. I am disabled because of PTSD. I was a ...
  A: but thus far I have no good advice for you except to try and make a trip to my colleague in San ...
Judaic teaching11/24/2005
  Q: Are you able to tell me what the current Judaic teaching is regarding stem cell research? Even if ...
  A: The key concept is "saving of a life" - whether in actuality or potentially - through such research. ...
blood11/23/2005
  Q: -------- Once again thankyou Rabbi. My follow up question is this...since during the sin or ...
  A: I appreciate your interest, and I know that other faiths are very much involved in ...
blood11/23/2005
  Q: I have a question about the eating of blood. I know that in that God tells Noah not to eat blood ...
  A: "Blood an Object of Awe. Biblical Data: The importance of blood for the continuance of life must ...
Ezekiel's temple11/16/2005
  Q: I hope I am not a bother. I have been reading the book of Ezekiel and was surprised at the great ...
  A: I hope I can help, but it is really a brief response. As in many questions, I would hope that you ...
Wedding11/16/2005
  Q: Please advise me on what I can speak about in my wedding speach from the Torah about marriage. I am ...
  A: First of all thanks for writing and mazal tov on your forthcoming marriage. While I would normally ...
Temple Pottery11/7/2005
  Q: I wrote to you a few days ago regarding temple pottery and the idea that the pots, after being made, ...
  A: This is a system that returns the mail; I don't have your email address. I asked several potters ...
date10/31/2005
  Q: Please be kind and answer on what date started deluge ?
  A: but you would have to ask a fundamentalist if you really want a calendar date. I truly believe that ...
peace offering10/30/2005
  Q: I have written you a few times before and have always appreciated your answers. I would like to ...
  A: This is intended to be a"brief" note reply service. You are asking for a major analysis of the ...
Mikveh10/24/2005
  Q: i want to keep the mikveh laws you know avoid having relations, bedikoth, and going to the mikve the ...
  A: You are to lauded for wanting to observe Jewish tradition, and perhaps in a meeting with you and ...
candles10/23/2005
  Q: In the four synagogues I have been in each had candles up front, either individual candles or a ...
  A: Generally, a candle or light often refers to "or Torah," the Torah as a light to one and all. The ...
Rosh HaShanah10/22/2005
  Q: I am an Anglican theology student. I am doing study on Jewish theology, and have a question, ...
  A: Regarding the question of the days, you are right. It is a technical issue involving the mathematics ...
Lost tribes10/19/2005
  Q: I would like to know about the 10 northern tribes that were exiled by the Babylonians and ...
  A: You are asking a question from a religous and almost agenda-driven perspective. It is possible ...
feast of passover10/17/2005
  Q: I have a question that relates in a way to christianity. My question is this: in the Christian ...
  A: I'm sorry for any delay but Jewish holidays continue to occur mid-week with the Sabbath weekend and ...
Jewish tradition of usury10/6/2005
  Q: Please could you tell me the biblical or historical factors that led to the Jewish tradition of ...
  A: Please forgive my tardiness. My father passed away and I only returned home from mourning just now. ...
Tradition10/4/2005
  Q: I am 59years old and a Catholic seeking confirmation on traditional teachings. Is cremation allowed ...
  A: Cremation is not allowed - at the outset - in Jewish law regarding caring for the body of a loved ...
Replacement Theology8/1/2005
  Q: Below I have drawn some conclusions on replacement theology. I have always considered them to be ...
  A: Debate is not the purpose of this list, nor even a debate phrased as a question. Those who accept ...
How does Judaism explain suffering?7/31/2005
  Q: I have been interested in understanding how different world religions explain the pain and suffering ...
  A: There are a variety of religious explanations for the suffering in the world and I've yet to find a ...
Chosen People7/19/2005
  Q: I just found this site,while browsing. I am so excited at the possibilities here, It's hard to ...
  A: There are many volumes about Judaism - beliefs and practices. The best one volume encyclopedia ...
God and Angels7/16/2005
  Q: If God is all-powerful and all-knowing, why would he need angels?
  A: The term "angel" is taken from the Greek "angelos" which means "messengers", not semi-divine beings, ...
Skull Cap7/10/2005
  Q: I live in Pennsylvania. At the present time we do not have a Rabbi. How do we get a Rabbi? Are you ...
  A: Several questions if I am to help you - whether me personally or the organization of Conservative ...
Skull Cap7/9/2005
  Q: My conservative temple does not require a skull cap. What do you think?
  A: The decisions of a congregation are made under the supervision of the Rabbi. If you have a question ...
jewish beliefs6/27/2005
  Q: I am a Christian. I would like to know if as a Jew,you believe in Heaven and hell
  A: Most Jews have "a belief" in an afterlife. Whether or not it is "Heaven" or "Hell" as it is ...
10 comandments6/22/2005
  Q: Can u help me remember the 10 comandments I have problems remembering them all. Is there a poem or ...
  A: However, there is no mnumonic for remembering the Aseret HaDibrot, the Ten Statements as they are ...
talmud6/15/2005
  Q: I have read that the Talmud talks about how to treat a women who has a chronic vaginal hemmorrhage. ...
  A: I suspect that you are referring - or someone brought it to your attention - the case indicated in ...
blood6/10/2005
  Q: I have read the torah and the laws regarding the touching of blood. I am wondering about times of ...
  A: I really don't have more than the following. You may wish to contact the Reference Desk of the ...
Decisor5/19/2005
  Q: This is question from an confused Anglican. What is a Rabbinic Decisor? Is he like a mediator ? or a ...
  A: A "Decisor" is the English translation for a Hebrew word "Posek" derived from the word for a verse, ...
oral traditon5/18/2005
  Q: ------------------------- where do you find it the books your talking about please send me a link ...
  A: Both are certainly in any decent Jewish library. "Legends" is a seven volume set, 3 volumes of ...
prophecies5/17/2005
  Q: I was wondering why I read so many prophecies in the Torah about the Prophets telling about the ...
  A: but this one is relatively straightforward. Prophecy ceased with Malachai roughly in the 4th ...
what to bring to the family after a death5/16/2005
  Q: I have been a private duty nurse for a jewish woman that has just passed. I would like to know what ...
  A: and the best response to your friend will clearly be a good friend caring about and for her as you ...
oral traditon5/15/2005
  Q: im interested in where to find the oral tradition . like i read abraham was 78 years old when he ...
  A: There is the text of our tradition known as the "written Torah." There is also a body of literature ...
Conservative Judaism5/12/2005
  Q: I am doing a research project for Geneva College, where I am a student. My research is on the ...
  A: I am not certain that your thesis is correct. Orthodox Jews generally don't affiliate as much as ...
Clean and Unclean Eating5/12/2005
  Q: They were very helpful and very much appreciated. Keith HawkinsDear Rabbi Dov, Thank you so much ...
  A: Rabbinic law and logic is not consistent at all times with what you might consider logical or ...
Clean and Unclean Eating5/9/2005
  Q: I heard that according to Jewish Law that it is an abomination to eat duck. I would like to knowif ...
  A: I can't figure out why anyone woudl tell you that except that it is expensive and sometimes hard to ...
Rabbi, I feel guilty4/29/2005
  Q: I guess I am considered conservative. I keep kosher inside the home but not outside. During pasover, ...
  A: First of all, when others misinform you and cause you to break a rule of ritual, then it is on their ...
Passover4/24/2005
  Q: Why does Passover last for eight days?
  A: Passover is described in the Torah = Five Books of Moses as a 7 day holiday. However, the system ...
Ancient History4/24/2005
  Q: I have a question that I don't know exactly how to ask. It is meant with full respect and courtesy, ...
  A: Secondly, you've been most polite and phrased the issue in a most respectful. The challenge is to ...
Gentile Conversion - Tattoos4/21/2005
  Q: I am a 25 year old gentile who has started self-study for conversion to the Conservative Movement. ...
  A: Regarding tattoos, while after the fact there is no consequence, before the fact they are extremely ...
Tatoo and organ donation4/19/2005
  Q: My son has joined the military and wants to get a tatoo. He asked if there are Jewish laws, or are ...
  A: I'm having a great deal of trouble with the AllExpert ISP and my own Comcast ISP. I don't know when ...
passover4/18/2005
  Q: but can't remember from one year to the next. i don't think so, because of Kitneyot (sp?) but i want ...
  A: There is a 1986 responsum to the Conservative Law Committee permitting peanuts and derivatives. ...
Birth of baby girl4/13/2005
  Q: There seems to be almost no information available on a ceremony for the birth of a jewish baby ...
  A: I'm sorry that Comcast has been down and only "up" occasionally in my neighborhood. I don't know ...
Bar Mitzvah4/13/2005
  Q: Would you explain for mw the significance of the Bar Mitzvah ceremony for Jews? I teach 14 year old ...
  A: I'm sorry that Comcast has been down and only "up" occasionally in my neighborhood. I don't know ...
Dear Rabbi, My question...4/12/2005
  Q: My question today is how many hills is the city of Jerusalem built upon? Thank you for your time.
  A: I'm sorry that Comcast has been down and only "up" occasionally in my neighborhood. I don't know ...
Some questions4/7/2005
  Q: My name is Ken, and I have some questions I was hoping you can help me answer. I have emailed you in ...
  A: The Hebrew Scriptures are intended as the only Bible for the Jews, and if other religious traditions ...
Meaning of a word.4/6/2005
  Q: My Baptist pastor asked us to look up the word Hacaliah for next Sunday. We are studying the book of ...
  A: but we will have trouble making sense of English rather than the Hebrew in which is was written. ...
Angels4/4/2005
  Q: Some years ago I saw a program on the history channel about Angels and it said that Jewish families ...
  A: It took a little bit of research if only because when I put my children to bed - many years ago - we ...
American Jews4/4/2005
  Q: The question I have might not be exactly in your area, but you seem very knowledgeable about ...
  A: As Jews have lived in different countries over the centuries there have been both conversions of the ...
Jewish Tradition4/4/2005
  Q: I was wondering what a a day at the synagogue would be like for someone of non-Jewish faith. I was ...
  A: however it is virtually impossible to answer your question. Are you speaking of a weekday, for an ...
The creation of "the devil."4/2/2005
  Q: I am 27 and in the very early stages of converting to Judaism. (So I'm not too knowledgeble about ...
  A: hwoever the answer to your questions really ought to be answer by your teacher in conversion to ...
1st century CE Jewish burial4/1/2005
  Q: My question is: what were Jewish burial practices in the first century CE? I am curious to know ...
  A: and I wish I could help you. However, virtually everyone with knowledge of that period and patterns ...
Ezekiel3/30/2005
  Q: I am studying the book of Ezekiel and am scared out of my wits at God's evaluation of Judah. God's ...
  A: but relax. From a Jewish point of view, Ezekiel was a prophet speaking / writing to his own ...
New home3/28/2005
  Q: What are the 3 traditional items you are supposed to bring into a new jewish home. I believe that ...
  A: These are only customs. The traditions was bread and salt, and others have included wine with which ...
Passover3/27/2005
  Q: Why is Passover so late this year? It usually comes around the same time as Easter.
  A: Passover is on time this year! Don't fret. We just have an extra month. We follow a Jewish calendar ...
King Solomon3/21/2005
  Q: If King Solomon was given the gift of unparalleled wisdom, then why did he directly go against God's ...
  A: For myself, King Solomon's wisdom was a hyperbole, a way of stating that he was blessed by God with ...
Cakes3/20/2005
  Q: This week's Parshah tells of the dough-type offerings as well as some of the others. My question, ...
  A: Interesting question. My quick recollection is that either meal is brought as an offering or baked ...
philosophical3/11/2005
  Q: I would be greatly obliged if you could give me a relatively concise philosphical disquisition about ...
  A: but you've asked a very complicated question, in particular the comparison and contrast. Let me ...
ancient burial customs3/11/2005
  Q: My name is Janet Wamble. I am a 42 yr old Southern Baptist who is interested in the customs for ...
  A: First of all, myown familiarity with burial from that period was that the body was placed in a tomb, ...
signing of the ketubah3/10/2005
  Q: Can you please tell me who can and can not sign the ketubah at a wedding. My youngest brother is ...
  A: The only Rabbi who can make a decision is the officiating Rabbi. While there are questions about ...
My lineage3/2/2005
  Q: My father is Jewish and mother is Italian My father's father's name is Katcher or Kaczor My ...
  A: In terms of traditional law, when the mother is not Jewish, then the child is not Jewish and ...
jewish religion2/27/2005
  Q: What is the role of religion for the jewish people?
  A: Religion is for the Jew not only a set of beliefs and a faith commitment but it is also a cultural ...
Bowls2/26/2005
  Q: I am trying to find out the name of the bowls you use for maybe Passover They are keep in a box one ...
  A: I suspect that from your description you have seen a ritual known as "n'tilate yadaim" which is ...
Bris2/24/2005
  Q: How much do people usually give a mohel for preforming a bris? I'm 28, Conservative and my husband ...
  A: Mazal Tov. As we say in Hebrew "b'sha-ah tovah," may everything happen in its proper time and ...
traditional jewish family cultures2/23/2005
  Q: I am a 31 year old married mother who has gone back to school. For an assignment I am doing a ...
  A: Unfortunately, I can't think of any place where you can find the information pulled together in a ...
bar mitvah2/22/2005
  Q: 59, non affiliated, taking melton course currently ?, understand if a boy's father dies he is ...
  A: I am unaware of any legal status of a Bar Mitzvah changing because of the death of a father or of a ...
Trinity2/21/2005
  Q: A christian recently pointed out to me some Bible passages which he said points to the trinity. 1) ...
  A: Regarding the trinity or even a duality - there is only one God and God is a unique oneness of a ...
Compare/Contrast Christianity to Judaism2/20/2005
  Q: What, in your opinion, is the most valuable lesson Christianity takes from Judaism?? This was a ...
  A: but we don't deal with classwork. My own personal opinion is that Christianity appropriated from ...
Ezekiel 48:82/20/2005
  Q: Curtis Cherry curtisiv@earthlink.net Ezekiel 48 My name is Curtis Cherry, I am 38 years old my ...
  A: You've raised a wonderful question - namely that the Second Temple as it was built and the "ideal ...
Mezzuzahs2/19/2005
  Q: Is it ok to hang a mezzuzah on a gentile's home? Would it be an insult to my jewish friends? I think ...
  A: It is a religious commandments for Jews to do so, and there are a variety of rules, regulations and ...
Jewish religion and tradition2/16/2005
  Q: I am writing a paper for my sociology class. The paper is on Jews and their contribution to ...
  A: On-line Jewishencyclopedia.com Library a much more updated "Encyclopedia Judaica" Reference ...
Questions about Jesus and Christianity2/13/2005
  Q: - ------------------------ Hi Rabbi Barry Dov Lerner, Thanks for answering my questions. ...
  A: If you do want to pursue some answers, you can always check out a somewhat outdated fundamentalist ...
Questions about Jesus and Christianity2/12/2005
  Q: My name is Nick and I am currently a religious studies major. I have some questions about Jewish ...
  A: I'm not an "expert" and if you are searching for real scholarship you will have to do some extensive ...
The star of David.2/11/2005
  Q: I wish you would give your knowledge about the star of David. I recently read the book called "The ...
  A: The comment about the origin of the Star of David as described is nonsense. No one knows where it is ...
judaism2/8/2005
  Q: what jesus christ message what was he trying say are tell what was his reason for judaism?????
  A: However I don't understand what you are asking. Would you please state the question again and if it ...
jewish time and calender; festivals2/7/2005
  Q: i am 36 years old, and have been a christian for 6 years. i did not go to a church, but to the ...
  A: You have assumed - and I don't want to contradict you - that Judaism follows the Bible literally. ...
jews and gentiles getting married2/7/2005
  Q: where in the holy books does it say that jews can't marry gentiles.
  A: Is this a question about your own possible marriage, a question for a class or exam - or for what ...
yarmelukes2/6/2005
  Q: are non-jews supposed to wear yarmelukes in a conservative temple?
  A: In answer to your question, when a Christian guest objected, I suggested that he ask the Bishop. The ...
jewish time and calender; festivals2/6/2005
  Q: i am 36 years old, and have been a christian for 6 years. i did not go to a church, but to the ...
  A: Before I answer, you speak of being a Christian for 6 years. Would you please tell me more of your ...
mount of olives2/5/2005
  Q: Where is mount of olives? I mean that mountain which Old testament talks about (Zech. 14:14.). How ...
  A: Har HaZeitim, the Mount of Olives is east of the Temple Mount. One goes out the Lion's Gate, down ...
Jewish Baptism2/3/2005
  Q: I am a 43 year old Baptist. I understand that baptism is not a Christian invention. I have read ...
  A: Yes, full immersion in a natural pool of water that was not "piped" in but was rainwater or a ...
History1/27/2005
  Q: I am a non-jew but a follower of the teachings of Rabbi Yeshua who is said to be a student of Rabbi ...
  A: If you mean Jesus when you say Rabbi Yeshua, I should let you know that there is no record of Jesus ...
Trees1/21/2005
  Q: Psalm 1:3 says that a praiseworthy man is "like a tree deeply rooted alongside brooks of water, that ...
  A: I also have been trying to trace out Israeli flora and fauna. It's been more difficult than I ...
sacrificial rites1/21/2005
  Q: I understood that this sacrificial system applied to all communities and was not exclusively ...
  A: In pre-Temple days and perhaps at its beginning, there may have been sacrifices around Israel - ...
The nature of Sin1/20/2005
  Q: I am currently working on a personal project about the nature of Sin. I am the artist and co-author ...
  A: I wish I could be of help but the topic of sin" is so mammoth and varied it is beyond my meager ...
sacrificial rites1/20/2005
  Q: I am agnostic and very interested in religion and have just read throught the Old testament of the ...
  A: Animal and even vegetable/grain/fruit Sacrifices ceased with the destruction of the Second Temple by ...
Jewish Faith1/19/2005
  Q: I am 50 years old and have been basically protestant all of my life. I was always taught that the ...
  A: Your encounter with someone who claimed to be Jewish did confuse you a bit I am sure. It sounds as ...
Spirit of the Law1/19/2005
  Q: Since the only materials they had to make clothing out of when the Law was given were cotton (linen) ...
  A: I feel that a selection from the Encyclopedia Judaica describes accurately some of my conjecture ...
place1/13/2005
  Q: i was wondering a. where is Judaism mainly concentated? b. who is the God you worship? thank you for ...
  A: and normally we don't participate in school projects. May I suggest that you consult ...
lost tribes1/11/2005
  Q: I would like to know if something is true. I was told that when them Messiah comes He will be the ...
  A: Some in the Jewish tradition writing about the messianic age or the Messiah believe in the ...
Sabbath11/10/2004
  Q: What exactly is the Foundation for Family Education? How did it come into being?
  A: I don't know who you are or your concerns. I suggest that you confine yourself to the goals of the ...
Judaism: Jesus, Messiah, Islam11/9/2004
  Q: -Thanks for writing, but if you are thinking of converting to Islam then you should be studying the ...
  A: I apreciate your responses and questioning. There is no mention of heaven or hell in the Hebrew ...
Judaism: Jesus, Messiah, Islam11/8/2004
  Q: I'm 22 and don't practice any religion. Was brought up Catholic and am thinking about converting to ...
  A: but if you are thinking of converting to Islam then you should be studying the differences between ...
Sabbath11/7/2004
  Q: A friend of mine told me that the only real Judiasm is Orthodox and that Conservatism and Reform is ...
  A: Your friend is entitled to his opinion, and he probably considers himself to be an Orthodox Jew - ...
Sabbath11/7/2004
  Q: Does a person have to go to a synagogoue on the Sabbath to pray?
  A: No, one can pray at home. But, there are certain prayers that cannot be recited - important prayers ...
Judaism11/6/2004
  Q: hi my name is richard i need help what are the unique aspects of judaism
  A: While I might have checked an "automatic button" that sends a form letter saying that this is beyond ...
Rabbinate11/4/2004
  Q: I am not trying to provoke anything. Maybe I have you confused with someone else. Do I have you ...
  A: I still don't understand why you are pursuing this subject. You've told me nothing about how this ...
Ethical Fiber11/2/2004
  Q: How long does a Rabbi usually stay at a synagogue? Do they changes pulpits every few years? How many ...
  A: I tried to help but you seem to have an agenda which I can't really address. Contact United ...
Ethical Fiber10/31/2004
  Q: Did you ever send a congregant to a therapist and then the results of the therapist turned out bad? ...
  A: All clergy are trained to recognize when the need is more than a simple pastoral visit - the ...
Diaspora10/31/2004
  Q: What is the Diaspora? my background info: 26 college student, taking Jewish Tradition
  A: "Disapora" is a term used for the times and geography for those who are not living in Israel, from ...
Ethical Fiber10/31/2004
  Q: I was once in a synagogue in New Jersey. I overheard a Rabbi talking to a congregant. Then he said ...
  A: The challenge to us is that we don't know the context of the conversation, what the ...
Ethical Fiber10/29/2004
  Q: In your opinion is it acceptable for a Rabbi to ever lie? Furthermore, if a Rabbi said, "if you ...
  A: It sounds as though this is more than a hypothetical situation. I could imagine circumstances ...
why?10/29/2004
  Q: When did the jewish religion start? Was Jesus Christ a con man? If scientific evedince proves ...
  A: But I now understand the depth of your soul search and I can appreciate the pain of your life. Most ...
RE : Religious Conversion10/27/2004
  Q: Rabbi, I have been raised via strict (not orthodox) bene israeli jewish traditions. But I have been ...
  A: From your name I never would have guessed that your family came from Israel. It is not unusual, ...
What is that object outside...10/26/2004
  Q: What is that object outside the front door that jewish people touch before entering the house? Why ...
  A: The object is called in Hebrew "mezuzah" (plural mezuzot), consisting of a case of various materials ...
BIMAH Cover10/26/2004
  Q: Good Morning, I Received A BIMAH Cover From An Inheritance. This Cover Was Taken From A Jewish ...
  A: If I guess correctly you are in the Los Angeles area. You can determine the value and also consult ...
Becoming A Rabbi10/26/2004
  Q: Can you tell me what it takes to become a Rabbi? Also can you list the functions of a Rabbi? How ...
  A: The brief part is that after four years of college and the GRE exams, if one is found to be ...
RE : Religious Conversion10/25/2004
  Q: Rabbi, I have been raised via strict (not orthodox) bene israeli jewish traditions. But I have been ...
  A: but in order to be helpful I would need some additional information. For example, what is "strict ...
God10/18/2004
  Q: do you have the same perception of God as with the christians? if there is any difference would you ...
  A: Your question is very comlicated, if only because there is more than one perception of God in ...
Death of Christ10/17/2004
  Q: I am a Junior at Pacific Lutheran University and am doing some research for a Lutheran Literature ...
  A: and this is a most "loaded" question. I'm going to speak as a Rabbi, a Conservative Rabbi and Jew. ...
Dates of the Books of the Tanakh10/14/2004
  Q: Could you provide me with the approximate dates that the books of the Tanakh were written and the ...
  A: but this is a "toughie." First of all, the different movements have different "agendas" for their ...
Abraham10/14/2004
  Q: By telling Abraham to sacrifice his son, was God telling him to do something against God's own ...
  A: From my own point of view, my doctoral studies in bible and commentaries, I am prepared to say that ...
religon10/14/2004
  Q: what or who is king david because my dad does not tell me much.and becuse my brother(people ...
  A: King David lived 3000 years ago, was the second king of Israel and you can find out about him the ...
Growth and arrival of judaism10/14/2004
  Q: Thr arrival and growth of judaism into australia between 1788 and 1900. The reasons for migration ...
  A: mid-term or a paper. The easiest and best resource is the Encyclopedia Judaica, looking up ...
weddings10/5/2004
  Q: Is it permissible to marry on May 29,2005? Thank you for your help.
  A: Most Conservative Rabbis would permit weddings after Lag B'Omer, which occurs on May 27 - but not ...
isiah 539/30/2004
  Q: Who is the man of sorrows that is mentioned in Isaiah 53 .THANK YOU......
  A: This is a common question from those who rely upon Hebrew Bible verses to support their Christian ...
Does God exists?9/27/2004
  Q: How do you prove existance of God to an atheist?
  A: I never attempt to do so. One can't argue about such a subject where "proof" doesn't exist - just ...
Kabbalah9/26/2004
  Q: I asked from others what is Kabbalah and is it real. I found out it is Jewish Mysticsm. Now, what I ...
  A: Jewish mysticism is intended for Jews and is built upon a Jewish interpretation of the Hebrew Bible, ...
Weddings9/19/2004
  Q: What do Jewish brides traditionally wear? A white dress and veil? Why do the couple step on glasses? ...
  A: You'll find a great deal of background on-line at "wedding" and "marriage" at ...
Be Like God9/16/2004
  Q: What happens to human beings who strive to be like GOd on their own terms?
  A: We believe that we are encouraged to fulfill God's expectations for us, on His/Her terms. We are not ...
Re: Meaning of the word Robah9/15/2004
  Q: Can you tell me the meaning of the Jewish word Robah and how it is related to Genesis? I saw the ...
  A: As you wrote it, I can't identify the word. It probably was a transliteration from Hebrew. The ...
daniel9:259/10/2004
  Q: 25 and you said that you do not rely upon biblical text to say when any messianic age will be.What ...
  A: I hope that you will understand that many others build castles on Daniel and the future; I don't. ...
converting to judaism9/7/2004
  Q: I have been involved with and exposed to judaism for the last 8 years. I am very interested in ...
  A: To begin this process is easier than you would think. There may be one or more Rabbis in your ...
Hello, I was wondering...9/5/2004
  Q: I was wondering if you had information or could direct me to some that deals with what the sages had ...
  A: The best modern resource in summarizing the subject would be from a Jewish point of view the ...
Hello, How are you doing....9/5/2004
  Q: How are you doing. I was wondering has the prophecy in Ezekiel 11:16-17 been fulfilled or is it a ...
  A: From a Jewish perspective, the prophecies were not eschatological or apocalyptic. They referred to ...
Yevemot9/5/2004
  Q: I'm studying Yevemot from the ArtScroll Mishnah Series. It is indeed a complicated yet fascinating ...
  A: While I haven't studied these laws in detail, I leave it to you and your Rabbi. However, I have ...
Baptisim9/4/2004
  Q: I am 51 years old. I was raised in a Southern Baptist home. My husband was raised in a Seventh Day ...
  A: Y. Thanks for writing. Baptism as such is not a historical part of Judaism. Immersian in a ...
Marriage customs9/4/2004
  Q: I am a 21 year old Christian (no denomination) and I am asking this question to try to help me to ...
  A: The simplest explanation is that between betrothal and then chuppah=living together as husband and ...
Lilith9/1/2004
  Q: Age: 24 Religious Affiliation: Southern Baptist I work with a guy who was raised mormon. Lately he ...
  A: Your friend studying kabbalah is as silly as Madonna studying kabbalah. It is part of a ...
Jewish Community8/30/2004
  Q: London is a very metropolitan city with many different people from all works of life. I find this ...
  A: Did you even attend any programs at the Jewish Community Center? Did you ever attend a public ...
yahrtzeit8/25/2004
  Q: do young widows observe yahrtzeit for their late husbands.do they light a yahrtzeit light for them
  A: and I would remind you as I do everyone that in such issues as ritual people should consult their ...
Israel in prayers8/23/2004
  Q: I teach at a Jewish Day School which belongs to the Reform movement. I am Israeli and teach now the ...
  A: Beruha Haba'a uv'hatzlaha. Thanks for writing but this is an issue of curriculum in which the ...
jewish customs8/23/2004
  Q: age 40 christian Recently, while on vacation, our Jewish neighbors asked us to remove their ...
  A: There are some Orthodox Jews who won't open their refrigerator if it is not running - because that ...
palastine8/22/2004
  Q: can you explain in simple terms what the jews and palstine conflict is about
  A: In reality there is no way to simplify a very complicated, long piece of history. I write after ...
Isaiah 538/21/2004
  Q: What is the correct interpretation for Isaiah 53? Thank you Nazam 23 year old Islam
  A: and I apologize for the delay - some family health issues that are now resolved, thank God. It is a ...
The Purpose of the Yamaca8/19/2004
  Q: Please educate on the history and purpose of the Yamaca. If possible please explain the design of ...
  A: Solhi, Thank you for asking, and I apologize for the delay - some family health issues that are now ...
persecution8/15/2004
  Q: whos grandparents were put in camps here in canada. The other night I was watching the ...
  A: Yoshy, Thanks for writing. I can appreciate the question you are asking and regret personally ...
jewish wedding8/11/2004
  Q: i would like to know why does the groom smash a glass with his foot
  A: Sorry to be tardy in replying but my wife had a hip replaced and I am now nurse, housemom and cook! ...
What is the connection between...8/3/2004
  Q: What is the connection between Judaism and circumcision?
  A: A quick check with the Encyclopedia Judaica provides the details in answering your question. ...
Moses7/30/2004
  Q: I recently read about a theory that Moses was an Egyptian and gave the Israelites the monotheism of ...
  A: From a traditional point of view, the perspective of Moses was clearly different from that of the ...
Moses7/30/2004
  Q: I recently read about a theory that Moses was an Egyptian and gave the Israelites the monotheism of ...
  A: This is not a new theory, and one of those who wrote about it - if not created it - was Sigmund ...
Historical Jewish customs7/22/2004
  Q: I have heard it said that in Biblical times it was the custom, at least in the more affluent ...
  A: It sounds like the right thing to do and would have been consistent - at the least - with the ethics ...
Jesus7/21/2004
  Q: .I am a 75 yr old man and consider myself an agnostic with an open mind..The reason I am an Agnostic ...
  A: I can't convince you of any belief, andbeing one who doubts and thinks is also a healthy position ...
Jewish beliefs on death, suffering and love7/21/2004
  Q: I am a teacher in a Catholic School in Sydney, Australia, teaching 17 & 18 year old students ...
  A: The range of views, ideas from the Hebrew Bible through current Jewish philosophy and theology is so ...
Tattoo's and my religious upbringing7/17/2004
  Q: Hello. I have a question. I was born and raised Jewish. My mother is full and my father converted to ...
  A: Firstly, as long as your mother is Jewish by birth, then you are "completely Jewish." However, if ...
the exodus from Egypt6/30/2004
  Q: I have been involved in an online dabate about creationism vs. evolution, and many of the people ...
  A: This is an on-going debate between the archaeologists and Biblical scholars even today. You, your ...
idenifying a Jewish folk tale6/30/2004
  Q: When I tried to send the following note to your home address, I got this response (reproduced here ...
  A: I've tried to update my page, and this time it disappeared! Look in Ginzberg's Legends of the Jews, ...
idenifying a Jewish folk tale6/27/2004
  Q: As a child, more than 60 years ago, I came across a story that ran, very approximately, like this: ...
  A: Here is the follow-up and research. My mistake was accepting your premise. It was Adam, not ...
rocks on headstones6/25/2004
  Q: What is the real reason we put rocks on top of headstones? I was told by my mom b/c it represents ...
  A: There are various explanations. The most probable origin is in ancient times when people were ...
Blood/Son of God6/18/2004
  Q: Rabbi Lerner, I am a 24 year old Lutheran, and I have some questions that have been plauging me. ...
  A: However, I would urge you to speak with your Pastor about the second issue. My opinion as a Jew is ...
Messiah6/17/2004
  Q: I am a Christian and know you don't believe Jesus is the Messiah. In all due respect I was just ...
  A: The easiest answer - although a little bit of a challenge - is for you to read a brief book "Judaism ...
TANAKH6/16/2004
  Q: You mentioned that there are tens of thousands of volumes of Jewish religious writings incl. TaNaKH, ...
  A: The number of volumes dealing with the philosophy, origins, core texts, scripture, commentaries, ...
TANAKH6/16/2004
  Q: I would like to ask few questions regarding the Hebrew Scriptures (TANAKH): 1) Are the Hebrew ...
  A: The TaNaKh is the Hebrew Bible, and there are various Christian versons of the "Old Testament" that ...
auf ruf6/15/2004
  Q: My friends are planning their own auf ruf for this coming Shabbos morning. They belong to a chavura ...
  A: I also worship most often in a Havurah here in Philly. :-) The only formal part of the auf ruf is ...
afterlife6/15/2004
  Q: being quite facinated with judaism, i found it very confusing to her a reporter say that jews dont ...
  A: Judaism at the time of the Second Temple, 2000 years ago was already divided over the issues of an ...
sects6/15/2004
  Q: I would like to know what are the major branches/sects/denominations of Judaism, how they were ...
  A: but the subject is so vast it is impossible to summarize for you in this area. I would urge you to ...
Conservative Jewish Burial6/15/2004
  Q: Is it more proper for a Jew's body to be buried or cremated after death? Will the choice, in any ...
  A: This is ultimately a question for the Rabbi of the family of the deceased, the deceased or for the ...
Biblical Jewish Childrens games6/14/2004
  Q: I am a member of small Christian Church. We are running a Vacation Bible School where we try to ...
  A: The best location I could suggest would be the Jewish Educational Services of North America - they ...
Bar Mitzvah6/14/2004
  Q: I understand that the age at which Jewish males have a Bar Mitzvah is generally related to the age ...
  A: Thirteen was the age as which puberty generally began at the time of the Talmud, roughly the second ...
Prophecy in Malachi about Elijah6/11/2004
  Q: I am a seminary student doing a research paper on the coming of Elijah, as prophesied in the last ...
  A: I wish I could explain Rabbi Telushkin's comment. I don't agree and hence his premise is wrong. ...
I am looking for the full...6/6/2004
  Q: I am looking for the full version of the Talmud. Where can I find this. I don't think they sell ...
  A: Any responsible Jewish bookstore will carry a variety of Talmud editions, from the Vilna Hebrew only ...
pre wedding urf urf6/6/2004
  Q: rabbi, our son is being married June 27, 2004, we are conservative jews. Is a urf urf(pardon me ...
  A: An "auf ruf" is a strong custom "bordering" on an institution. Today it is perhaps an improtant ...
Afterlife and laws6/6/2004
  Q: First, thanks in advance for answering my question. I was raised Christian and have always been ...
  A: For most of us, the afterlife is truly an after-thought. If it isn't there, we won't know; if it ...
Judaism6/4/2004
  Q: I have three questions that I want to ask you. 1.What do the jews expect Messiah to be like? 2.Are ...
  A: 1. The Biblical view was really addressing a descendent from David who would immediately/imminently ...
wedding laws5/24/2004
  Q: My question is ,can a non jewish stepfather who has raised his jewish stepdaughter be able to walk ...
  A: but this question falls within the jusdiction of the Rabbi of the Temple where the wedding is going ...
jewish confirmation5/23/2004
  Q: My best friend invited me to her confirmation. What should I wear and what kind of a gift is ...
  A: and you are a truly wonderful and thoughtful friend. That's the best gift you are giving her! Books ...
Shabbot 24b and 39 Melakhot5/21/2004
  Q: My name is Stephen. I am a 38 year old Anglican who is back in school studying for priesthood. I am ...
  A: Although it is policy not to help with school assignments, I am delighted to help a future ...
Cremation5/20/2004
  Q: I'm a Hunter College student and am 22 yrs old. I went to a High school Yeshivah and know quite a ...
  A: and I hope that my answer doesn't contradict anything your Rabbi teaches. I studied with a ...
smooth stone custom5/18/2004
  Q: My father and I are curious to know what smooth stones mean in your religon. I have heard they were ...
  A: however I am unfamiliar with the expression or description "smooth stones" in any context, let alone ...
Jewish Laws5/16/2004
  Q: I've been a Jew all my life, and have wondered greatly about a question, and hopefully you can ...
  A: First of all, some of the movements have actively engaged in "outreach" or efforts to draw the ...
Tithing5/15/2004
  Q: Are we required to tithe today? Is it done in Israel? If we are required to tithe where do we send ...
  A: This is most complicated. I'm going to append a portion from the Encyclopedia Judaica after a few ...
weddings5/15/2004
  Q: why do we break a glass at a jewish wedding?
  A: There are various explanations. Some say that it keeps evil spirits from harming the couple and the ...
ethnicity5/14/2004
  Q: I am a 32 year old male that was raised in the Methodist Church though I do not now practice or ...
  A: It's relatively simple. Judaism is the faith or religion that Jews observe. Its ethnic character is ...
reading from Old Testament5/14/2004
  Q: I have been asked, to do a reading, from the Old Testament, at the marriage, of my son. Although I ...
  A: butthis is an unusually complicated question. I don't know you, the circumstances and the reasons ...
Unveiling5/13/2004
  Q: I will be a leader of a family group at an unveiling (a ceremony to show the gravestone about one ...
  A: I have several suggestions for you to facilitate your unveiling. Remmber that the "unveiling" itself ...
Women and Habima5/13/2004
  Q: I am 34 years old. I live in Mexico City. I'm in a Conservative Community in my country. MyCan women ...
  A: If you are a member of a Conservative congregation, your Rabbi is the final authority on the ...
Iconography/Art/Imagery5/13/2004
  Q: I am very interested in the Iconography and Art of Judaism and the symbology that is attached to it. ...
  A: They can further guide you, I am sure including websites if any. In addition, my daughter in law ...
Christians5/12/2004
  Q: What are the Jewish perspectives on the Christians? Are they all going to Hell? What about the ...
  A: Virtually all modern Jews are of the opinion that good people who live and respect the rights of ...
who is a jew?5/12/2004
  Q: I recently heard that the conservative movement now recognizes children of either jewish parent - ...
  A: The Conservative movement recognizes as Jewish only those born to a Jewish mother or converted ...
Introduction to your faith5/10/2004
  Q: Let me get more specific then. What are the key differences between the Reform, Orthodox, and ...
  A: Let's understand that the movements per se are only in the past 150 years, at most, and thus are ...
Introduction to your faith5/10/2004
  Q: I am teaching a class on world religions in our church and (while I have read Huston smith's ...
  A: I wish that I could provide even an outline, but you are speaking of a tradition that has been ...
Karaites5/10/2004
  Q: Do Conservative Jews generally regard Karaites as being Jewish?
  A: The Karaites became a separate group when they broke from Judaism in Babylonia for primarily ...
The Messiah5/9/2004
  Q: B"H! Dear Rabbi Dov! Shalom Aleichem! You wrote in your post that confronted the "Jesus as Messiah" ...
  A: While the idea of a messianic figure began as I described it, following the destruction of the ...
The name Jehovah5/7/2004
  Q: What is the Jewish prospective on the name Jehovah? Do you ever use this name? My husband's family ...
  A: Jehovah is an attempt to pronounce the four letter divine name in the Hebrew Bible - and tragically ...
Exodus 12:21-27 vs Deuteronomy 16:5, 165/7/2004
  Q: I am 51 years old ands attend a small church which was affilliated with the Worldwide Church Of God ...
  A: and I am uncertain I can offer you a definitive explanation. There are a variety of traditional and ...
The jewish Faith5/2/2004
  Q: How did the Jewish Faith Begin?
  A: Unfortunately, your question is both long and brief. The Jewish faith began with Abraham and his ...
conversion4/28/2004
  Q: I want to convert to Judaism, and have for a while. However, I wasn't really planning on going ...
  A: The best way to approach conversion is to meet with Rabbis in your community or nearby who can ...
Sheol4/27/2004
  Q: I am currently doing a study on the Old Testament understanding of "Sheol". From a theological ...
  A: Sorry for the delay, but I have been ill. The following from the EJ should be of help. Check also ...
conversion to Judaism.4/21/2004
  Q: Shalom, I have been considering coversion to Judaism for three years now ( a long story) and today I ...
  A: because I can be of some help. According to Jewish tradition and custom, you have chosen a Rabbi ...
passion4/18/2004
  Q: I was originally wondering about the Jesus' teachings, that why Jews don't accept them. But, I guess ...
  A: I think that you have the general point: we don't really know what for certain Jesus taught. And, ...
passion4/18/2004
  Q: Shalom, Rabbi, I would like to know why the Jews don't accept Christ's teachings. Don't misuderstand ...
  A: Let's understand the situation this way: Jesus was born and died a Jew, one of many who had various ...
torah portion emor4/14/2004
  Q: I am writing my Bas Mitzvah speech. My Torah portion is Emor, about the rules and laws for the ...
  A: However, if I assist you, then you haven't done the work as outlined for you by your Synagogue. All ...
Alms4/14/2004
  Q: I want to know something about "Financial Command In Jewish Laws".(something as alms or tithes) Do ...
  A: Yes, Judaism has an ingrained system of philanthropy and also a system of tithes. May I suggest ...
10 Commandments4/12/2004
  Q: I was told (asked) today that commandments were given in the indicative mood. As I read them, I'd ...
  A: Sorry about the delay but between holidays and my bout with an infestion - aren't grandchildren ...
marriage4/8/2004
  Q: My Mormon friend said that ancient Jews believed that marriage was eternal and existed in heaven. ...
  A: I can't and won't debate early Hebrew Bible teaching when the period of history involving Enoch ...
Passover4/7/2004
  Q: Do you know anything about the passover? Like when it is and how long it lasts? I'm doing a report ...
  A: Dar Nick, hanks for writing and asking. While we don't directly assistschool assignments or ...
Conservative Judaism4/6/2004
  Q: What exactly is "Conservative" Judaism?
  A: Orthodox Judaism contends that they are practicing the heritage according to revealed sources in the ...
An atheist believes there must be a God4/6/2004
  Q: An atheist believes there must be a God and is trying to pick the best religion. Why is Judaism the ...
  A: but it is a question that is truly beyond my own personal opinion - and that is not sufficient basis ...
grave site4/6/2004
  Q: What is the meaning of putting a rock or stone on the grave site ?
  A: While we don't directly assistschool assignments or papers, let me point you in some good ...
The Torah4/4/2004
  Q: Who wrote the Torah and when? Thank you!
  A: The answer is difficult. Orthodox teachers will hold that the Torah was given to Moses exactly in ...
attacks on religions4/2/2004
  Q: I'm doing a research on different religions, in regards to the means used by each of them when ...
  A: While we don't participate in academic or school assignments or research, let me suggest that you ...
death/traditions4/2/2004
  Q: What does it mean for a man to "sleep at his mothers grave?"
  A: but I have never heard the expression. If you mean that it is occurring literally, that someone is ...
Miriam's Cup4/2/2004
  Q: What is the symbolism of Miriam's Cup at the Seder and where did this tradition begin? I am 49 ...
  A: I'm going to send you to my web-site for the 2003 Seder Supplement and all kinds of 2004 information ...
GOD'S LAWS3/30/2004
  Q: I WILL TRY TO EXPLAIN THIS AS QUICKLY AS I CAN, BUT PLEASE BARE WITH, FOR THERE IS A REAL "LIFE" ...
  A: and thank you for the honesty with which you have described your situation. Judaism - if indeed ...
Jewish law3/29/2004
  Q: Is there a specific religious prohibition of first cousins marrying? I am trying to find out if ...
  A: and I wish you luck with your book. It would seem to be more cultural and not consdiered in good ...
Morning Prayer3/29/2004
  Q: I an a Catholic who loves my Catholic faith and I love the Jewish faith also. I heard a Jewish ...
  A: While I can't identify the prayer precisely from your description - it coudl be several - you ...
Passover3/28/2004
  Q: Can you explain to me general similarities and differences between the Passover customs of ...
  A: The first suggestion I would make is to send you to my website to download materials that may be ...
history of the Yarmulka3/28/2004
  Q: My name is Shaun MacMullin and i am 25 adn was raised a Baptist Christian, but stopped attending ...
  A: but no one knows. This from the Encyclopedia Judaica may help Also: Bareheadedness,; Wig HEAD, ...
Yetzer Ha-Tov, Yetzer Ha-Ra ,origins of?3/27/2004
  Q: To Rabbi Lerner,I am trying to verify the origins of the concepts of the duel yetzers. I have read ...
  A: I would suggest that you check out the relevant entries in the Encyclopedia Judaica that is in ...
Am I a Jew? Constraints on Remarriage3/24/2004
  Q: Shalom Alechem May HaShem grant shalom and kindnesses upon you and yours. I am trying to make ...
  A: First of all, you write in such flowery language - were you at any time a follower of Islam. It's ...
Davidic Kingdom3/24/2004
  Q: What is the recent understanding of the Messiah who will bring back the kingdom of David
  A: Speaking as a Conservative Rabbi and not for all Judaism, we don't expect a personal Messiah or the ...
About Judaism3/22/2004
  Q: What would you consider to be a major change in conservative or over all Judaism, in the past fifty ...
  A: Don't you think that the egalitarian movement has been the most significant change in Judaism in the ...
clairvoyants3/21/2004
  Q: What is your belief on clairvoyants. I have had friends that have gone to a clairvoyant and with out ...
  A: To be blunt, Judaism is opposed to witchcraft, wizards, etc. I don't believe that such things are ...
3rd Temple3/17/2004
  Q: Will the 3rd Temple be built in this century? I have read accounts that there are groups in Israel ...
  A: But, I have to disappoint you. The 3rd Temple will not be rebuilt except in the imagination. Period. ...
medical preferences3/16/2004
  Q: My name is Jessie Strom. I am a 23 year old nursing student at Jackson State Community College in ...
  A: Check out the various subjects on Amazon.com and you'll find lots of books, although esoteric. ...
Judaism3/14/2004
  Q: I am not here to convert you or judge I just wanted to ask some questions on your religion out of ...
  A: First of all, read Trude Weis Rosemarin's book "Judaims and Christianity" and you'll have the basis ...
Why Orthodox Jewish women wear wigs3/14/2004
  Q: I was told as a child that an Orthodox Jewish woman shaves her head and wears a wig when she gets ...
  A: The question really is one of strictness in interpreting the degree to which a woman's hair is "her ...
Cain and Abel3/13/2004
  Q: I was reading this story recently and felt puzzled on a few items. It may just be the translation ...
  A: Shavuah Tov. First of all, as aConservative Rabbi I read these narratives as Jewish mythology, not ...
Tifillin prayers3/13/2004
  Q: I am 12 years old and I am preparing for my bat mitzvah. My porashot is Bamidbar. In school we are ...
  A: Shavuah Tov. Unfortunately, we don't answer questions or write materials for school assignments. ...
Death, suffering and evil3/12/2004
  Q: I am a 16 year old catholic highschool student in Australia and i am learning about Judaism in ...
  A: but we don't answer questions or write materials for student assignments on principle. This is a ...
tithing3/11/2004
  Q: I am 49 yrs old and would like to know if tithing is still practiced among Jews and what method of ...
  A: In general, the Biblical form of tithing is no longer practiced. However, studies and surveys ...
kabballah3/10/2004
  Q: what is the reform, conservative and orthodox feel on the kabballah movement? thank you, Jon
  A: but I can only speak for some of the Conservative Rabbis. Mysticism is a complicated subject, and ...
Ancient jewish funeral rites.3/10/2004
  Q: My niece (13, Catholic) is doing a school project on death and in particular ancient jewish funeral ...
  A: I would refer you niece to do her own research in the Encyclopedia Judaica and read up on Jewish ...
passover alcohol3/9/2004
  Q: I am 26 and grew up in a conservative family. My question is simply I would like to be able to go ...
  A: A blessing on your head for caring (although I'm not personally keen on the bar scene) :-) You ...
Philosophy3/2/2004
  Q: I am doing a project on Judaism and Christianity, since they both came from the same area. My ...
  A: but we don't participate in class projects or assignments. I would refer you to the Encyclopedia ...
genealogy of jesus2/27/2004
  Q: in my edition [uncensored vilna shas] massechet sanhedrin 43a jesus was allowed 40 days for a ...
  A: I'll continue to look if only because I am interested. However, Joseph is allegedly descended from ...
assisted reproduction2/26/2004
  Q: Is Judaism practices for or against all means of assisted reproduction excluding cloning methods? ...
  A: Please note that what I am going to say represents moreso the Conservative movement - which contrary ...
genealogy of jesus2/26/2004
  Q: in my edition [uncensored vilna shas] massechet sanhedrin 43a jesus was allowed 40 days for a ...
  A: but . . . 1. I don't have an uncensored vilna shas - which should be remedied as I think about it. ...
religious doubts2/25/2004
  Q: I am 67 years of age, Jewish, retired and teaching critical thinking and public policy at a local ...
  A: Let me address both the general and the specific separately. In general, doubt is a healthy part of ...
homelessness2/25/2004
  Q: 20yrs old Christian Student I'm doing a project on how society at large relates to the homeless. ...
  A: Good of you to write. Unfortunately we don't participate in school assignments, papers or projects. ...
what is the purpose of man?2/24/2004
  Q: what is the purpose and nature of man according to judaism?
  A: However, this appears to be a question from an exam or a paper, because it is far too complicated to ...
judaism2/17/2004
  Q: My name is Jennifer Richards and i'm a high school student at El Camino High School in Oceanside, ...
  A: I wish I could be of direct help, but we don't participate in school assignments. Furthermore, ...
Wedding2/8/2004
  Q: I am a conservative jew and will be marrying the same. What time can I have a wedding on a Saturday ...
  A: Generally speaking the wedding can take place no earlier than 40 minutes after sunset, although most ...
angels2/2/2004
  Q: What does Conservative Judaism have to say about the contention that there are exactly 301,655,722 ...
  A: Unfortunately, I am in the school that sees "angels" as the creation of ancient priests to explain ...
burial place of Joshua1/24/2004
  Q: I've been told that Joshua is buried in what is present-day Iraq. Is that information accurate? If ...
  A: I must disagree with the suggestion that Joshua was buried in Iraq. If one accepts the Biblical ...
marriage1/12/2004
  Q: I was wondering, can I reform and a conservative Jew get married in a conservative shul? If not ...
  A: In general, yes. But the Rabbi of the congregation may have some reason for not allowing the ...
Temple: Court of the Women1/8/2004
  Q: I am 67 years old. I am a Protestant Christian. Was the Court of the Women part of Solomon's ...
  A: The plan for the structure of the Temple of Solomon followed roughly the desert Tbernacle of ...
Yad Vashem12/30/2003
  Q: Is Yad Vashem exclusively for honoring those righteous gentiles who risked all to preserve the lives ...
  A: To the best of my knowledge, Yad VaShem is specifically a memorial and educational institution ...
Betting??12/18/2003
  Q: SHALOM! Dear Rabbi Barry I would be much obliged if you could Plz let me know whether "SOCCER ...
  A: I hope that you're not kidding me. Betting just for fun and now for any serious amounts of money or ...
Medical beliefs12/11/2003
  Q: I am a 29 year old nursing student. I am writing a paper on health care beliefs for Jewish people. ...
  A: While we don't assist in class assignments, I hope that I can help point you in some useful ...
respect12/9/2003
  Q: Rabbi, I am not of the Hebrew Faith, Baptist if it matters. My question is this, my son has ...
  A: In these forthcoming years inter-faith or dual-faith families are going to become more frequent - ...
History11/9/2003
  Q: I am told that my people, the Pushtoons (presently inhabiting Southern Afghanistan and Pakistan) ...
  A: Khan, Thank you for writing, but I may have to disappoint you. The history of the so-called "lost ...
ancient v. modern judaism11/6/2003
  Q: Lerner: I wonder whether you could recommend to me any books (or websites!) that could explain the ...
  A: The Biblical record is history of a different sort than with which we are familiar. They kept ...
10 "commandments"10/31/2003
  Q: I am a Catholic priest in Barcelona, Spain. Four years ago, in theology school, I deed some research ...
  A: It is my conclusion after study through post-ordination doctoral studies, majoring in iblical ...
Funeral Practices10/23/2003
  Q: Religious Affiliation: Unaffiliated congregation, tending toward Conservative: If a grave is ...
  A: The opinion of the Conservative Committee of Jewish Law and Standards is that to exhume and then ...
judaism culture10/21/2003
  Q: i am just starting my n.v.q level 2 i have been asked to do a paper on judaism culture i was ...
  A: and I hope that I can provide you with leads for the kind of information you are seeking. Let's ...
6 day war and visions10/8/2003
  Q: Becoming more interested in our lord Jesus' land,i'm just learning so forgive me if I appear ...
  A: and I hope you will forgive me if I don't share your religious perception of placing everying into ...
Feast of Tabernacle9/29/2003
  Q: What is the Feast of Tabernacle and its meaning?
  A: The Feast of Tabernacles or Sukkot commemorates when Jews harvested their fields in ancient Israel ...
Hi mr Barry Dov Lerner. I...9/25/2003
  Q: I am a muslim(shia),and don'n have any correct information about holy judaism religious. I am very ...
  A: We don't have a program for conversion or even information about Judaism in Muslim lands in ...
modern jewish movments9/18/2003
  Q: I wanted to know if you could explain to me briefly about the three central modern jewish movments. ...
  A: Orthodox, Reform, Conservative and Reconstructionist. In addition you have Hasidism and their ...
solomon's temple9/18/2003
  Q: As a Christian, I read in the old testament about the importance of Solomon's temple and of ...
  A: Solomon's Temple, the First Temple, was destroyed by Babylonia to the ground, except for the Western ...
Non Jews9/4/2003
  Q: My Jewish friend and I are in disagreement: He says that Jews believe that if a person observes the ...
  A: but I don't believe that you'll like my answer. :-) Your Jewish friend is quite correct. Judaism, ...
Why no faces on the Shekel?8/21/2003
  Q: I am a 43 YO male, christian with liberal beliefs. I am in a conversation with someone who is a ...
  A: I wish I could help you. However, there is no relationship between our secular bill and Jewish law ...
jewish or not?8/20/2003
  Q: I go to a jewish community high school accepting of all sects. of the religion, although we only ...
  A: Traditional Jews who accept only Jews born to a Jews mother - matrilineal - or Jews who convert ...
Jewish Heritage8/18/2003
  Q: Two years ago I met my biological mother for the first time in Ripley, West Virginia in the USA and ...
  A: It's an interesting question that does occasionally arise, most often when there is to be a ...
conversion verification8/5/2003
  Q: When I was married, I went through a conversion to conservative Judaism. The Rabbi at the synagogue ...
  A: POSTSCRIPT TO YOUR EARLIER QIESTION: There is NO Conservative Rabbi= memberof Conservative ...
Unvieling8/3/2003
  Q: My family and I plan on visiting my mother's grave and conducting our own unvieling ceremony. Can ...
  A: I hope that the memory of moments shared in health and love on occasions of joy bring all your ...
conversion of adopted child8/1/2003
  Q: we live in san diego and want to know what is involved according to the conservative movement to ...
  A: Mazal Tov and thanks for asking. You're very wise to have the conversion out of the way as early ...
Child Naming7/31/2003
  Q: My wife and I are expecting a child in September. My wife is not jewish but has relatives that are. ...
  A: Congratulations on your forthcoming joy and I hope that it will be a healthy arrival for mother and ...
The Old Testament7/26/2003
  Q: I am 22 yrs old and have been raised a Catholic, but I never had a chance to learn about other ...
  A: but the questions you have posed apear to be a final for a course. They are far too complicated ...
olive tree/plant7/2/2003
  Q: Honourable Rabbi Barry Dov Lerner, I am 53 years of age and fellowship and serve as an Elder at ...
  A: You'll find an entry on the "olive tree" and related products in the jewishencyclopedia.com on-line ...
canons6/29/2003
  Q: what do they mean when they refer to canons in Ecclesiates and how it relates to the Tanakh? Thanks
  A: "Canon" means the official version, generally referring to the Bible and its various included books. ...
We are a Year 6 class at Whitgift...6/26/2003
  Q: We are a Year 6 class at Whitgift School finishing a year's study of Judaism. We have some ...
  A: In terms of "do some Jews" then it is always an answer "yes." Do some people believe that the moon ...
circumcison6/18/2003
  Q: are people of the jewish faith circumcised and if so is this done by a Rabbi or general surgeon?
  A: Jewish men are still circumcised, as infants on the eighth day by a "mohel" who is especially ...
Milchic/Fleischic separation5/20/2003
  Q: I understand why beef and dairy products must be separated (to prevent from cooking a kid in its ...
  A: They had no trouble deciding which animals were to be considered meat after having determined which ...
Repentance.5/19/2003
  Q: What's the point of repenting your sins when you know that you will commit them over and over again ...
  A: True repentance is a state of mind of intending NOT to repeat the same offense again. If any of us ...
Beliefs5/14/2003
  Q: I am doing a school project and i am needing to know what jews beleive and what traditions you have ...
  A: and since you were so polite, I didn't want to just send out a standard message.Above all, those of ...
gift from a gentile on a Bat mitzvah3/21/2003
  Q: As a non jew making my first visit to the USA my friend's daughter who lives in Las Vegas will be ...
  A: I was in Israel, logged out and somehow the software didn't put me on vacation. In any event, enjoy ...
Why is Shabbat on a Friday3/19/2003
  Q: Why is the Jewish Sabbatt celebrated on Friday? (as opposed ot a Tuesday or Monday). I've referenced ...
  A: but right now I'm in Israel, unpacking gas masks for my two grandchildren ages 2 and 3 months ...
two questions~3/10/2003
  Q: i am a student at Thomas Edison State College in NJ and i have an assignment for Multicultural ...
  A: :-) Normally we don't answer school assignments, but I will this time and I beg to have you send ...
Jesus as the Messiah3/5/2003
  Q: I am curious, I hear that some Jews accept Jesus as the Messiah and some do not. Why is Jesus, as ...
  A: Let me respond in brief and urge you to read "Judaism and Christinity:The Difference" by Dr. Trude ...
general help please2/28/2003
  Q: how are you? I am new to this country and i have a few questions really short ones please. I am ...
  A: I should begin by encouraging you to use the Encyclopedia Judaica in the local library that is very ...
Major Questions2/20/2003
  Q: Forgive me, for I know that my questions are going to probably sound naive and stupid to you, and ...
  A: You've asked a lot of questions and we need tofocus a bit. Jesus was not King of the Jews and Jesus ...
My name is Lisa. I'm 34 years...2/19/2003
  Q: My name is Lisa. I'm 34 years old and Roman Catholic. One of my all time favorite movies has ...
  A: It's an interesting question and also I am delighted to let you in on a topic most don't know! :-) ...
prayers2/16/2003
  Q: i'm mostafa, and interested to know about prayers in judaism. i read something about the similarity ...
  A: and yes there are a number of similarities. The difficulty in answering your questions is that ...
burial customs2/7/2003
  Q: At end of the movie "Schindlers list", the people placed pebbles on the head stone of Schindler. ...
  A: It is currently a Jewish custom to put a pebble on the headstone when one visits a grave to mark ...

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Write to me with questions about Jewish customs and law, history, philosophy and tradition for answers from a Conservative perspective or conversion. I am a graduate of The Jewish Theological Seminary and a member of the Conservative Rabbinical Assembly. Having served in congregational pulpits since 1970, I now am President of the Foundation For Family Education, Inc. a non-profit educational endeavor. I established it to create new formats of hands-on programs and provide free educational downloads at www.jewishfreeware.org. In addition to general informational questions I welcome your questions about programs for social action, outreach to dual-faith families, inter-faith clergy projects, healing services, education for conversion, adult education for the congregation and the community. If you have questions about Informal and Formal Education I am ready to share my extensive experience with Youth Activities, Camping and Religious School/Hebrew High School on a congregational, community and national/international level.

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I have served on the National Youth Commission for more than 25 years and serve on the Boards of the Conservative Zionist movement MERCAZ and the World Council of Synagogues. I have always dual-families and taught candidates for conversion with a great sense of fulfillment. I am very proud of 25 years on the Jewish camping staff of Camps Ramah. My greatest source of pride is my family! Ask me about them, please!:-)

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