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I am the Founder & Owner of Restaurant Coaching Solutions, Inc. We have experience on any topic related to the restaurant & hospitality industry - from Menu R&D, Menu Engineering, Marketing Strategies, New Store Openings, P&L Analysis, Lease Negotiations, Staffing, Policies & Procedures, Building & Design, Site Location, Branding, PR & Promotions, Multi-Unit Development, and any other area effecting the operation of your business. Check us out on the web for more information at www.RestaurantCoachingSolutions.com or call us toll free at 877-535-2324.

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I am the Founder & Owner of Restaurant Coaching Solutions, Inc. We have experience on any topic related to the restaurant & hospitality industry - from Menu R&D, Menu Engineering, Marketing Strategies, New Store Openings, P&L Analysis, Lease Negotiations, Staffing, Policies & Procedures, Building & Design, Site Location, Branding, PR & Promotions, Multi-Unit Development, and any other area effecting the operation of your business. Check us out on the web for more information at www.RestaurantCoachingSolutions.com or call us toll free at 877-535-2324.

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Expert: Jeffrey Summers - 11/6/2009

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QUESTION: I was recently offered a position as a full time restaurant greeter at nice hotel. I will be starting in two weeks; however, I have some questions/concerns that I'm not sure if I should bring with the manager up before I start. First, I plan on flying home for a week over Christmas. My boyfriend and roommate (who are both servers) say that I should not bring this up for a few weeks until I have established myself as a valuable worker to them; however, I feel I should share this information with them before I start. I don't know how big of a deal this is.  The other issue is a second job that I have already begun. It is only 4-8 hours a week and they are flexible with me having a second job, they only request that I let them know my availability a week in advance.  This job is in a field I am very interested in finding a career in and want to allow myself the opportunities they have to offer me. I am afraid that the hotel restaurant position might not be that flexible; but I don't want to come off too needy and demanding before I start the job. I really want to work both jobs, but I don't know whether I should approach the restaurant manager with these concerns now, or wait until I've started working and proved to be a good worker.

ANSWER: Why is this a problem? Why does it require so much thinking? You're already, quickly proving that you are not a "good worker" by failing to address important issues with your employer that may affect your ability to do the job.

You have deliberately withheld information about your employment history that can affect your ability to do the job - namely that you have a second job that may prohibit you from working hours you may be scheduled by your new employer. You should have included this on your application and whether or not you filled one out or no matter the level of incompetence by the hiring manager to do a proper follow-up, you are responsible for the omission(s). The same goes for the vacation.

If I was the hiring manager and you had communicated those issues to me beforehand, I'm sure accommodations could have been made. But now you have lied to him in order to acquire the job. This is the more important issue to me.

Of course you should talk to the manager about these issues. And get better roommates. You're probably stuck with the boyfriend.

It's time to grow up and start to at least act like you understand the expectations of a working adult to be forthcoming and honest about issues with their employer.



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QUESTION: I forgot to mention some information when answering the question. First,  I interviewed and was offered the job I am in training for AFTER my initial interview with the restaurant. When they called to offer me the position I DID inform them of the other job I already had and the number of hours they are going to have me work.  They are absolutely aware I already started another job before I was offered this one.  The problem is that neither job has really given me which specific days/times I will be working (and I did ask), therefore I don't know the best way to go about coordinating the 2.  My 1st job (at a TV station) just said to let them know what hours I'm available one week ahead of time, but I'm just afraid of coming off as too demanding by asking the restaurant to make accommodations for me (like making a schedule earlier than normal) before I even start working.  So, when I had my interview and they asked if there is any time off I needed AT THE TIME there was none. Since then I have acquired another job (which they know about) and purchased a plain ticket home for Christmas.  I asked the person who called to hire me on the phone  (who was not the manager) about taking time off at Christmas and she said to contact the manager personally.  I in no way want to withhold information from the restaurant manager, but I am just worried that if I tell them about my Christmas plans they may revoke the offer.  That's why I figured I could wait a few weeks and put in a time off (since it is only the beginning of November). If they see after a few weeks that I am a good worker (which I am) they will be more willing to keep me around even if they know I won't be here at Christmas. I am an honest person and want to do things right for them and for me, that is why I'm asking the question, and I do value my roommate and boyfriend's advice because they have worked in the industry for a long time and know the best way to go about things (and how the restaurant industry is different from others), but I do want another person's perspective as well.

Answer
Honesty also requires transparency. Tell them you are going home for Christmas and then make your own accommodations.

If you need something (schedules, time off, etc...) just ask when you need it. Not when it's 'convenient' for you to ask. Help them, help you with your issues by giving them as much notice and flexibility as possible.

And next time you want advice, give that person the whole story.

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