| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| lonliness | 11/11/2009 | Todd |
Q: I am a 24 year-old male and when I was 18, I became very sick with chronic pancreatitis which was ...
A: ,, I am writing as I can relate...I don't know if I have an answer but I'll tell you what comes up ...
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| the special someone | 11/10/2009 | Todd |
Q: Why is it, when you’re looking for that someone, you find no one, but, once you find someone, a lot ...
A: . I don't know, really, however, I think of it this way: I think the 'showing up' happens when ...
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| Loneliness | 10/26/2009 | Todd |
Q: I'm the youngest out of 4 adult children. I'm 13 years old and the oldest is 30 years old. My ...
A: I wanted to respond as while I can't say I totally understand as I am not you, however, I can relate ...
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| hate being alone | 10/17/2009 | Todd |
Q: I've been single for three months and cry because I'm so lonely. I hate not ahving someone there to ...
A: .. I have been where you're at in terms of how you might feel emotionally. I can't say that I ...
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| girlfriend leaving | 9/30/2009 | Andrew |
Q: so, my girlfriend is leaving for college this year and it's in Florida...we live in Missouri. she ...
A: It is very tough for couples to deal with this time in there lives, espically when just starting at ...
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| never been in a relationship | 9/15/2009 | Todd |
Q: I'm turning 26 in a few weeks, and I have never been in a real relationship with a man. I'm not ...
A: . I have been here so I can relate. I think it's important to realize that you're not doing ...
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| Kill desire | 8/22/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I'm 22, male, and I've never hugged a woman/girl. I've tried to form friendships with people before ...
A: It sounds like you need something else to focus on. You mentioned you are going to a community ...
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| Lost a great guy- how can I fix this? | 8/20/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I had a very kind and caring boyfriend who called everynight and was very attentive to everything I ...
A: Sorry for the delay in my reply, as you stated, it may be possible that he wanted the break-up and ...
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| Breaking up | 8/20/2009 | Andrew |
Q: my name is Kathleen and I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years. I'm 26 years old. We ...
A: It sounds like you have put up with alot with this relationship and you have been hurt alot, ...
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| LDR | 8/20/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf. We actually met online so our friendship has always ...
A: Why not use this as a chance to meet new people and try to not spend so much time focusing on when ...
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| Lost a great guy- how can I fix this? | 8/19/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I had a very kind and caring boyfriend who called everynight and was very attentive to everything I ...
A: It sounds like the time apart may of shown you how much you really liked this guy. Alot of times ...
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| LDR | 8/19/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I'm in a long distance relationship with my bf. We actually met online so our friendship has always ...
A: A long distance relationship can be tough, I was in one for two years and it takes alot of ...
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| bored | 7/19/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I work 3-4 days a weeks. The problem is I am bored out of my mind on my days off. I am 28. I would ...
A: I am sorry to hear you are having such a rough time meeting that special someone. It can take time, ...
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| i feel so confused and lonely | 7/6/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I'm tired of feeling my control being taken from me. I'm eighteen years old and I live with my ...
A: I apologize for the delay in my reply. It sounds like you are getting alot of mixed emotions from ...
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| Obsessing? | 6/4/2009 | Andrew |
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months (He’s 20, I’m 18). We have really great physical ...
A: When dealing with a long distance relationship it can be tough because you are not constantly seeing ...
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| What to do I don't know | 3/29/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I am now 30 years old, turning thirty one. I have had sex with 3 girls and one girlfriend, which ...
A: I am sorry to hear of your frustration with approaching members of the opposite sex. It sounds like ...
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| Im tired of feeling alone | 3/19/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I just dont feel loved anymore if he doesnt love me why is he still here it just hurts worse becasue ...
A: I am sorry to hear of the struggle you are having with your fiancee. It would probably be a good ...
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| Meeting New People | 3/14/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I was wondering if you had any ideas on some ways to meet new people. I am 21 years old and I have ...
A: It sounds like you are off to the right start with the online meeting. Its a great way to make ...
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| RE: DATING VS MARRIAGE | 3/4/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I have been single for about 8 years due to selecting the wrong type person in my past ...
A: Dating can be a tough thing to deal with while trying to find the right person. There are so many ...
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| a long story | 3/4/2009 | Andrew |
Q: So I am 16 and my name is Adam and I just need to talk. I know from the start just by saying that I ...
A: I understand what you are saying with the frustration going to a all male school is not helping you ...
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| depression hurts | 3/3/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I feel depressed and co-dependent for the first time. I've been with a great guy for two years, and ...
A: Sorry that you are experiencing these symptoms. Have you spoken to your Dr. about this? Maybe it ...
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| My own 2008-2009 crisis | 3/1/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I'm Chris, and I'm 13. I'm very sorry if this out of your element, but, I didn't know what other ...
A: Sorry to hear of the way that Megan reacted to your gift. It sounds like she did not know you very ...
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| Pressures In Dating | 2/26/2009 | Andrew |
Q: Why do people date? ANSWER: Well, there are many different reasons. The primary one would be to try ...
A: Well that is dependant on how strong you feel about the relationship that you are in. The media ...
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| Does this show disinterest from a girl ? | 2/23/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I went to a bar club last night cos it was my friend's birthday. Keep in mind this club is over 21's ...
A: It would be difficult to say without being there as to what the girls may have been thinking. If ...
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| alone | 2/18/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I'm going right to the problem.I am 20 years old.My girlfriend dumped me several days ago.I am in a ...
A: I am sorry to hear of the situation you are going through. It sounds like you need to figure out ...
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| Lonely friend | 2/13/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I'm going right to the problem.I am 20 years old. I dumped my boyfriend several days ago. We were ...
A: People cope with breakups in different ways, some people have trouble letting go and accepting the ...
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| Frustrated and all but given up. | 2/12/2009 | Andrew |
Q: I am 20 years old and i am a student, i never had a girlfriend. I have tried in the past but most of ...
A: It can be tough to meet people espically those of the opposite sex. Are you involved in alot of ...
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| LONELINESS | 1/18/2009 | Andrew |
Q: My name is Jeffrey and I have been going out with this girl for more than 2 years now. For the first ...
A: It sounds like it may be time to move on, based on what you have said, your girlfriend does not seam ...
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| What does this actually mean? | 1/16/2009 | Renae |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: I apologize for the timely wait, I've been trying to think of what to say if i'm honest. You worry ...
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| What does this actually mean? | 1/15/2009 | Renae |
Q: I love my husband but now I am wondering if I married him to feel like I was married to the lead ...
A: Well I will be completely honest with you. When I first started reading this after a few sentences ...
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| Loneliness of widower | 12/29/2008 | Todd |
Q: I lost my wife to cancer in 2007, after 52 years of marriage. I do so want to find a compatible ...
A: .. I certainly appreciate your sincerity so I wanted to give you my thoughts related to what you ...
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| loneliness | 12/3/2008 | Andrew |
Q: I have a boyfriend, we live together, he s always going out to play pool with his friends, and i ...
A: Nora, It sounds like your boyfriend is not having alot of open communication with you, if you have ...
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| never had a girlfriend | 11/30/2008 | Andrew |
Q: well I am 18 and I have never had a girlfriend. People tell me that I'm not ugly or anything, but ...
A: Sorry to hear of the frustration you are having meeting the right girl, it can be a very frustrating ...
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| Coping as a single parent and very lonely | 11/24/2008 | Todd |
Q: My name is Wendy, I am 27 and have a 5 year old son. I have a job which lets me work at home, and ...
A: . Thanks so much for the question. I've been where you are so I sense I might have a few ideas: ...
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| HOME SICKNESS | 11/17/2008 | Andrew |
Q: I am 24 years old, male, and doing MBA. I have always been closed to my whole family and friends ...
A: Homesickness can be very difficult to deal with, alot of times people find it helpful to stay as ...
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| Always lonely | 11/14/2008 | Andrew |
Q: All through school, I've been shy and could never go out of my way to make friends. I've always had ...
A: What have you been doing to make new friends? Have you gotten involved in any goups that interest ...
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| semirelated to self esteam more on obession | 11/9/2008 | Andrew |
Q: My 30-year-old son is obsessed with a nineteen-year-old girl who is dating my other son who is 21. ...
A: This definitely does not sound good. It sounds like your son has a unhealthy obsession with this ...
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| I've been single for 2 years and I'm lonely and tired. | 11/6/2008 | Andrew |
Q: I'm a 3rd year college student and I have not been successful with women. People say I'm good ...
A: I am sorry to hear of the frustrations you have been having, getting the feeling of rejection ...
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| What do i say to a girl when i get her number ? | 11/3/2008 | Andrew |
Q: I am a male teen who's naturally very shy. But today i got a girl's number for the first time. ...
A: The fact that she gave you her number is a great sign that she is interested. Give her a call this ...
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| alone | 10/27/2008 | Andrew |
Q: i am a 30 year old girl, and i feel so alone and unloved, i have some good friends but they all ...
A: I am sorry to hear this debbi, Finding the right person can be quite a struggle. Have you considered ...
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