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Hi i m a doctor presently pursuing MD Medicine and staying away from husband due to my studys, ours ws a arranged marriage, bt i m so mch fed up wd interference of mother nd sis in law and their influence our my husband, he is brainwashed daily resulting in alot of misunderstanding in bw us, i hv been bycott by inlaws bcoz i like to liv life on my own terms and doesnt tk cr of their erratic needs bcoz of my occupancy wd occupation and studys, husband hs stoppd meeting me and our 1yr old son for last 4mths bcoz of mom in law influence, all efforts hv faild nd i hv xm in dec, how to maintain my peace nd gt going wd studys nd stress thanx , waiting 4 prompt reply

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Hello Akanksha!
what i could suggest you is to consult a marriage counselor, if both of you are not finding solution and not able to decide the direction.
long distance relationship in early days is a problem many times, you have to tackle this situation effectively. one to one counseling with preferably both partners involved is of great value.
in the mean while please check if you are suffering from Depression with Psychiatrist, getting treated with antidepressants in time can preserve your peace of mind and you will be able to tackle the situation effectively.
hope this helps.
Regards.

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DR.PALLAVI A. JOSHI

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i can answer questions related to Psychiatry and Psychology, like relationship problems, behavioral problems of children, schizophrenia ,depression and other mental disorders, issues related to Dementia, end of life care,sexology issues and bereavement coping issues.

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i have done M.D.(Psychiatry) & D.P.M. from GMC & Sir J.J.Group of hospitals,Mumbai.i was topper in my M.D. exam.Now practising Psychiatry since 2years post M.D. i have worked as Assistant Professor,Psychiatry,JNMC,Sawangi for last 1 year. I was working with hospice in Nagpur for last 1 year and now working with another hospice in Bangalore. I was also working with NGO , Sandyasanwardhan (NGO working for mentally challenged children) now am a consultant psychiatrist t private in Bangalore.

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VITALAIFE,BANGALORE SWAMI VIVEKANAND MEDICAL MISSION, NAGPUR YOUTH FOR SEVA,BANGALORE NATIONAL MEDICOS ORGANIZATION,NAGPUR IPS,IMA- MUMBAI BRANCH SEVANKUR,MUMBAI-NAGPUR

Publications
- International Publication on “Attitudes of Medical Students Towards Psychiatry”- in ACADEMIC PSYCHIATRY, 2011;35:360-364. - Writing a WEEKLY column for NEWSPAPER "TARUN BHARAT" SINCE LAST 6 MONTHS. - PSYCHOONCOLOGY JOURNAL- 2010

Education/Credentials
•“A.K.NAIK BEST PAPER AWARD” ,BOMBAY PSYCHIATRIC SOCIETY ON “PSYCHOPATHOLOGY IN FEMALE PRISONERS” 24.4.2010 Zonal winner (Maharashtra, Goa, Gujarat) in Torrent Young Scholar Award • 4th Merit in National Torrent Young Scholar Award of 2010 • 1st runner up in Bombay Psychiatric Society Quiz held in Sept- 2009, Mumbai • 1st runner up in Interstate West zonal Quiz held in Oct- 2008, Nagpur • Distinction in 2nd Year – 77% also in subjects Anatomy, Biochemistry, Pathology, Microbiology. • Stood 2nd topper in Nagpur region in 2nd & 3rd yr of M.B.B.S

Awards and Honors
• Invited as Guest speaker for “PSYCO-ONCOLOGY NATIONAL CONFERENCE” held by CICRI, Nagpur on “Pain and Sleep management of terminally ill cancer patients.” • Invited as Guest speaker for “NIRAMAYA” NATIONAL CONFERENCE OF ALLOPATHY, HOMEOPATHY AND AYURVEDA on “HOLISTIC HEALING”. • Invited as Guest speaker for “DISASTER MANAGEMENT” AT NATIONAL CIVIL DEFENSE COLLEGE, MARCH-2011 on “NEEDS OF WOMEN IN CONSIDERING CRISIS MANAGEMENT” • Invited as Guest speaker for “PERSONALITY DISORDERS” by BPS, Mumbai on 25.9.11. • Invited as Guest speaker for SEVANKUR, 2011 on “GOAL SETTING” “A.K.NAIK BEST PAPER AWARD” ,BOMBAY PSYCHIATRIC SOCIETY ON “PSYCHOPATHOLOGY IN FEMALE PRISONERS” 24.4.2010 •

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