| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| older younger married | 11/14/2009 | Azure |
Q: i am older man 56 and at work i have been talking for the past year with a married younger woman ...
A: there's always loss/gain in every situation; here you get to be with a young, beautiful beauty ...
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| my girlfriend | 10/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: Ok Hi im 16 and my names Dave :D. I am dating this girl and im totally inlove with her and I am ...
A: so u have to decide--if the cost of this pleasure (giving in to her every whim) is too high, stop ...
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| parents interference / reconciliation | 10/18/2009 | Azure |
Q: I was in a relationship with a younger woman. 10+ years. We were both grad students and had similiar ...
A: it looks like you're hanging on to pieces of april when it's a morning in may; you have a choice--a) ...
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| Very confused | 10/9/2009 | Azure |
Q: I feel very bad these days, and could use some direction... I am a 51 year old married man, and ...
A: i'm not sure why you're in so much pain--aside from the physical (which can't be THAT important to ...
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| age diff and parents | 10/4/2009 | Azure |
Q: I was in a relationship with a younger woman. 10+ years. We were both grad students and had similiar ...
A: not a question of right/wrong...your decision is understandable when viewed objectively; it was ...
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| Please help | 10/2/2009 | Azure |
Q: have lost the love of my life, and I dont really know why. I am 29 , he is 46, we have been long ...
A: it's probably a good thing that this happened NOW, rather than after a marriage; at this point, no ...
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| Relationship issues | 9/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: Ok here goes, I was with this guy for 2 years, we lived together for a year. He was always on his ...
A: WAKE UP CALL--where has your self-esteem gone?..your insecurities have allowed this jerk to play you ...
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| Socialising with an older man 'as a friend' | 9/24/2009 | Azure |
Q: My question is about how to make clear that you want to be friends, and nothing else, with an older ...
A: the next time he suggests doing something, clarify that you wouldn't mind an arrangement based on ...
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| Dilemma! | 9/19/2009 | Azure |
Q: I hope that all is well with you. My dilemma is that I still have feelings for someone and I am ...
A: wake up call--there's zero basis to think that this is worth pursuing, especially seeing you haven't ...
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| Pursuing a relationship, 15 year difference | 9/8/2009 | Azure |
Q: I met a man almost a year ago on a double date (my best friend was on a date with his best friend), ...
A: the age thing isn't that big a deal, unless someone THINKS it is; at this point, only HE knows his ...
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| 22 years my senior | 8/26/2009 | Azure |
Q: Five Months ago i started casually dating an older man 22 years older then me. I was hesitant to ...
A: depends what you're looking for/what your priorities are; he's offering a friendly, casual, ...
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| jealously | 8/14/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am 42-yrs old and my girlfriend of 2 years is 30-yrs old. She likes to get professional massages ...
A: interesting question...i think you have to give her a pass on this ..she's within her rights here to ...
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| Help | 7/22/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I have been dating a women who is two years older than I am for about a year now. She just graduated ...
A: Mike, Say your question out loud a few times,"What can I do to make her realize I want to work ...
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| Help!!! I don't know what to do. Age diference!! | 7/11/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am very attracted to this guy, but he is 17, and I am 21. I must also mention that me and him ...
A: i think the path is somewhere in the middle..at 17, he has a long way to go before promising ...
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| What do i tel him wat can i do | 7/11/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: Im 20 and he is 32 we really love each other we even told my parents that we would like to get ...
A: If the man you are in love with treats you well and takes care of you, those who truly love you will ...
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| Very confused!! Help! | 7/7/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I have searched on the web everywhere for help, answers, suggestions on my situation and I came ...
A: What's up Tiffaney, This man is definitely interested in you -- he's just performing the seduction ...
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| confused. | 7/6/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: he is 25 and i,m 18. we met on his job. he was showing my freind and i apartments. my freind i both ...
A: Based on what you've told me it sounds like he thinks of you as a bootie call girl. He's not that ...
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| I'm 27 he's 42 | 7/6/2009 | Azure |
Q: I have been dating this man for a month now. I absolutely love the time we spend together! He is a ...
A: it's not about right/wrong; after a month, i wouldn't get too crazy, not to mention this guy has no ...
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| older woman dating younger guy | 6/29/2009 | Azure |
Q: your other Q&A didn't hit on this particular age gap...i'm 56 and (i think...scared to ask) he's 30 ...
A: i believe that's for YOU to determine--guess it would be rationalized under the "age means nothing, ...
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| Falling in love with my best friend's younger brother... | 6/8/2009 | Azure |
Q: My best friend and I are always together. We also hang out with her younger brother and his friends ...
A: the age thing isn't that big a deal, but i doubt your friend will change her feelings about it, and ...
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| interfering people in our relationship | 5/17/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am a 35 year old guy with a 23 year old girlfriend, we have been dating for 9 months now, we are ...
A: "love" is also allowing for freedom of choice; you're not married, you date; if she chooses to stay ...
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| Age Gap and Parental Problem | 5/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am 21 years old and have been dating this really sweet, amazing Christian guy for a little over ...
A: actually a case could be made that it IS important as well--plus, they may not like the guy for ...
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| Age Gap and Parental Problem | 5/10/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am 21 years old and have been dating this really sweet, amazing Christian guy for a little over ...
A: you could a) move out, b) mention how disappointed you are that they are not supportive, c)stay away ...
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| Difficulties in dating a much older man | 4/27/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I'm a 20 y/o single mother who has started seeing a man much older than I am. He is in his early ...
A: Brianna, Bottom line -- as long as someone is of legal age, relationships with a significant age ...
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| going out with 25 year old girl | 4/5/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: my question is for simply curiosity and because it actually interest me. I started to like a ...
A: Fernando, As long as you are both of legal age, and there aren't legal / career consequences to the ...
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| younger woman older man relationship | 3/17/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: my question was should I pursue marriage and maybe a family with a man that is 20 years older then ...
A: Whether or not you should pursue a marriage with a man 20 years older than you is a personal ...
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| Not sure about this.... | 3/14/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I've had this massive cruch on a guy who is a former high school teacher of mine. We've kept up a ...
A: Ask him to meet you for coffee and just have a casual conversation. During the conversation gently ...
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| What can I do?? | 2/27/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I am dating an older man, and my feelings for him are much stronger than his are for me. I am 20 and ...
A: Typically people won't change their behavior unless they are experiencing pain. Right now you are ...
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| Older/Younger Relationships | 2/19/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am a 47 year old woman who has been in a commonlaw relationship with a 64 year old man for the ...
A: every couple has issues; unfortunately you are in an arrangement with a guy that's only partially ...
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| questions | 2/14/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: I have 2 questions. 1. I'm a gal. There is a guy I like, and his friends say he likes me more than ...
A: What's up Steph, As long as the women he's with are of legal age and just LOOK young I wouldn't ...
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| Really looking for peace | 2/11/2009 | Azure |
Q: I'm 29 and married for the last 3 years. I have dated my husband on and off for the last 13 years . ...
A: you already started--we both know you need to leave; there's something lost/something gained in all ...
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| Frustrated - Family Issues - Religion Issues | 2/2/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: My boyfriend (current) and I met one another at work. I am a legal assistant and currently pursuing ...
A: These are the issues I see: 1. He started the relationship by telling you he would be hesitant to ...
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| Help please | 2/1/2009 | The Interesting Man |
Q: ) Okay. I am an 18 year old girl, just about to turn 19 next week. I have known a man for about 3 ...
A: Sophie, Many people women who choose to pursue older men go through this same issue -- I commend you ...
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| I need help so bad...... | 2/1/2009 | Azure |
Q: ) Okay. I am an 18 year old girl, just about to turn 19 next week. I have known a man for about 3 ...
A: that's something only YOU can decide; my "opinion", since u asked, would be to not decide anything ...
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| inter racial relationship | 1/31/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am an asian british/bangladeshi girl, 23. I have been in a relationship with a 29yr old ...
A: you can meet up, but bring the attitude, new requirements that i suggested in the prior answer; i ...
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| inter racial relationship | 1/31/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am an asian british/bangladeshi girl, 23. I have been in a relationship with a 29yr old ...
A: 6 months WAY TOO early to even be DISCUSSING marriage, especially considering he's now too "busy" to ...
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| older/younger relationship | 1/20/2009 | Azure |
Q: I am 27 y.o. and have been in a 3 year relationship with a man who is 52 y.o. (divorced and has one ...
A: know one knows that answer, as there are no guarantees in ANY relationship; certainly, this type of ...
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| 8 year age difference. | 1/17/2009 | Azure |
Q: . First off I would like to say that nothing has happened between is sexually. I have known this ...
A: i think you're very foolish to not see anyone else for almost 2 years while waiting for a kid to ...
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| Older girl,younger guy | 12/21/2008 | Azure |
Q: A while ago a met a guy who i just connected with straight away and it didn't take me long to fall ...
A: can't predict the future, nor should you put any stock in what "people say", but the age thing has ...
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| question | 12/1/2008 | Azure |
Q: I have been in a long distance relationship over two years with a man 13 years older than me and he ...
A: seeing someone 4-6 times a year isn't exactly "often", nor sufficient to build any expectations ...
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