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Expert: Azure - 10/29/2009
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Ok Hi im 16 and my names Dave :D.
I am dating this girl and im totally inlove with her and I am scared because she has total power over me. Her flirting is addictive!! Heres an example we go to movies and we're deciding what film to watch and she wants to go watch a chick flick and i wanna go see a horror or an action she would just pull me round corner and like stick my hand on her boob or something or maybe even stick her hand down my pants and then i just crumble and do what she wants. At first i just thought it was funny and she just thought it was a little joke thinking it was kinda cute i just did what she wanted but now its out of hand. Now she does it for tiny little things like em... she would wanna go see her friend that night and just wanted me to stay at home or go see my mates and i would rather come with her and her friend will get all upset and then she would do it D: do you have any suggestions because im scared that if i told her shed get upset and then just do it again so then id change my mind and not be bothered D: I love my girlfriend and dont wanna break up and im not even sure she knows what she is doing to me :( because if im honest we never do much physichally other than kiss and hug and when she started doing this it started getting more physichal and well im a boy and loves it but not at the cost :(
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so u have to decide--if the cost of this pleasure (giving in to her every whim) is too high, stop giving in...what's your problem??...politeness/timeliness a 1?..not to mention, i gave u the only POSSIBLE answer--those ratings are not only unfair, they're totally disrespectful...if that's your nature, stay off the site...
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