AboutPam Dyson, MA, PLPC Expertise I specialize in working with children and families. I can address issues and problematic behaviors related to anxiety, depression, grief, abandonment, divorce, blended families, abuse, ADHD, peer difficulties, bullying, aggression and low self-esteem.
Experience I am a provisional licensed professional counselor with extensive training in play therapy.
Organizations American Mental Health Counselors Association, Board Eligible National Certified Counselor, Association for Play Therapy, Chi Sigma Iota,(Counseling Academic & Professional Honor Society International).
Education/Credentials BS in Family and Child Development, MA in Professional Counseling, Provisional Licensed Professional Counselor (PLPC)
Question I know a 30 you. girl who converted to Judaism , she told me her father lived in the same home with her special ed mom but stopped being intimate with her and instead was intimate with her aunt , she was a cutter and alcoholic and overcame this but is believed to be a schizoid , borderline and inverted narcissist with social phobia or at least one or some of these diagnoses, she told me she is only comfortable around her twin sister , a female childhood friend from kindergarten and myself a 43 y.o. male , but that she has no feelings for me and does not consider me a marital candidate , does this history indicate lesbianism? Will this girl marry anyone? How doe some get her or such a similar person to b comfortable? Or feel comfortable around one as she does with name? Can I assume that she will go for me instead of someone she does not feel comfortable around? Or both or neither or that if she does not find someone for any reason will gravitate back to me rather than stay single? Or will she stay single? I realize there r no answers to this only speculation and conjecture and delaing with personality profiles and contingencies and estimates of prior experience
Please anwser what u can and if it make sense I will handsomely reward you but I prefer to hear the bitter truth than sugarcoated one
Answer Hi J,
It appears to me that you want a close relationship with someone who is not currently able to offer you that. There is always the possibility that she might change but there is no guarantee. You need to decide if you want to have a relationship with someone based on future speculations or if it would be in your best interests to move on and find someone who can give you what you need.
