| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Am I a lesbian now? | 12/2/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: What do you think that I am? ANSWER: You might be bi-sexual because of your experiences. However, ...
A: You do not have to be bi. You can be straight. You can be whatever you want. You have had ...
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| Am I a lesbian now? | 12/2/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: What do you think that I am?
A: You might be bi-sexual because of your experiences. However, you can decide what you want to be ...
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| Was I molested or not? | 12/2/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: How young were they? I was about between 9,10,or 11 when I first saw it. Can you please answer that? ...
A: add gender identity issues to the list "gender identity" means the gender you identify with a good ...
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| Was I molested or not? | 12/1/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: How young were they? I was about between 9,10,or 11 when I first saw it. Can you please answer that? ...
A: The kids were about the same age. It is not so much the material itself, but how it affects the ...
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| Was I molested or not? | 12/1/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Well am I the one to blame for all of this? How do I get rid of a porn addiction that I don't want ...
A: If you experience symptoms like you described, then you want to do something about it If the ...
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| Was I molested or not? | 12/1/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Well am I the one to blame for all of this? How do I get rid of a porn addiction that I don't want ...
A: You need to talk to somebody. If you feel comfortable talking to him, then do. Otherwise, ask for a ...
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| Was I molested or not? | 12/1/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Well am I the one to blame for all of this? How do I get rid of a porn addiction that I don't want ...
A: Well am I the one to blame for all of this? Only if you hold it inside and never do anything to ...
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| This is a question about mental health. | 12/1/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Well I was 12 when I had started cutting.I stopped but IW ant to start doing it again but I know the ...
A: I will not turn your mother in. I promise. Tell your psychiatrist that you were exposed to the ...
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| This is a question about mental health. | 12/1/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Well I was 12 when I had started cutting.I stopped but IW ant to start doing it again but I know the ...
A: If you promise to talk to a good counselor, I will keep my cool. But I worry about you. Hmmm. I am ...
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| This is a question about mental health. | 11/30/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Well I was 12 when I had started cutting.I stopped but IW ant to start doing it again but I know the ...
A: Corrina, You can heal from this and live a happy life. That is for sure. Many children have healed ...
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| Was I molested or not? | 11/30/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: I went to the site that you said to go to.But I didn't go to the book site. But I read what was on ...
A: Many of the things you experience are normal, such as putting yourself down, getting depressed, ...
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| Was I molested or not? | 11/30/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: I went to the site that you said to go to.But I didn't go to the book site. But I read what was on ...
A: We all have things about ourselves that we cannot explain. Even I question, how could I do this? Why ...
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| Sibling issues-Working together | 11/29/2008 | Pam Dyson, MA, PLPC |
Q: My brother & I have worked together for the better part of 10 years. He is younger that me, and we ...
A: It's always a good idea to talk things over with someone so I think you're on the right track. I ...
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| HELP! (confused) | 11/28/2008 | Hank |
Q: first. thank you for taking the time to answer my question. ok, I'm a 17 yrs. old guy. In life I've ...
A: Here's what I would do, JD. Stay away from her as much as possible. Find a nice girl around ...
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| Family troubles | 11/27/2008 | Danielle Spence |
Q: all help is truly appreciated. I am 19 years old and I am engaged to be married in 2010. My ...
A: How are you today? I hope you are well and all is ok there. Happy Belated Thanksgiving! Sorry to ...
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| A Friend with Fear | 11/27/2008 | Pam Dyson, MA, PLPC |
Q: Tonight I witnessed my best friend suffer from a fear of dogs. I have never seen him suffer like ...
A: Being fearful is nothing for your friend to be ashamed of. He had a traumatic experience with a dog ...
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| This is a question about mental health. | 11/26/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Do I have to order the books or read them online or something? And also,do you think that I was ...
A: The two at Amazon you can buy, but they are only about $10 paperback. Or order them through a local ...
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| This is a mental question. | 11/26/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Well why is something now trying to tell me that it didn't happen and that I didn't think of sex at ...
A: Boundaries http://surrealist.org/betrayalofthespirit/boundaries.html Thou Shalt Not Be Aware: ...
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| This is a mental question. | 11/26/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Well why is something now trying to tell me that it didn't happen and that I didn't think of sex at ...
A: Corrina, I can tell that you are a prolific writer. You may also be a prolific reader, so I ...
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| young widow sabotaging new love | 11/26/2008 | Graig Yarbrough |
Q: 2 yrs ago, I became a widow from a sudden/tragic death of the love of my life. 6 mos ago, I met a ...
A: It’s always how we feel, isn’t it. We dominate our lives by negative feelings. They motivate so ...
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| Family troubles | 11/26/2008 | Danielle Spence |
Q: all help is truly appreciated. I am 19 years old and I am engaged to be married in 2010. My ...
A: You are very welcome, I'm glad that you found your response helpful. Definitely what you stated to ...
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| This is a mental question. | 11/26/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ...
A: The symptoms you describe, feeling that you have a double life, and having no explanation for the ...
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| This is a mental question. | 11/26/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ...
A: You may not remember, or you may have a way of thinking of the abuse, so it does not seem so bad. I ...
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| This is a mental question. | 11/26/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: Call me sick or whatever but you're not coming from my point of view.I was looking at this little ...
A: It takes courage to reach out and I appreciate you writing to me. First, I want you to take a deep ...
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| Family troubles | 11/25/2008 | Danielle Spence |
Q: all help is truly appreciated. I am 19 years old and I am engaged to be married in 2010. My ...
A: You are welcome for your reply and thank you for writing. I hope I can be of assistance to you. ...
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| Family troubles | 11/25/2008 | Hank |
Q: We are sorry, but Danielle Spence wasn't able to answer yourAlright, I am writing this in a time at ...
A: Victoria: DO NOT TELL HER WHAT YOU PLAN TO DO! She will always find something wrong with ...
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| Family troubles | 11/25/2008 | Hank |
Q: We are sorry, but Danielle Spence wasn't able to answer yourAlright, I am writing this in a time at ...
A: Victoria. I understand your circumstance. The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they ...
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| question about counsellor | 11/24/2008 | Lucille Zimmerman |
Q: I am going to a professional counsellor and she is very nice. My husband's urologist's nurse made a ...
A: Your counselor is required to keep confidentiality except in limited cases. She should have had you ...
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| somewhere between friends and a relationship | 11/24/2008 | Laura Giles, MSW |
Q: My boyfriend and I dated for about a year before he broke up with me. Unfortunately, I am pregnant ...
A: >>> Should I just accept that he doesn't want to be with me and stop this "friends with benefits" ...
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| Family troubles | 11/23/2008 | Hank |
Q: We are sorry, but Danielle Spence wasn't able to answer yourAlright, I am writing this in a time at ...
A: Victoria: Since you're getting married, why wait 8 months to move in with your boyfriend? ...
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| Seeking assistance for my son | 11/23/2008 | Nori J. Muster |
Q: I am writing you hoping that you may provide guidance, assistance, any glimmer of hope to find ...
A: , Thank you for your letter and for telling me your son's story. He may benefit from art therapy ...
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| how can i take control of my life? | 11/22/2008 | Graig Yarbrough |
Q: sorry if i already sent this question. i accidentally pressed back to change something and it won't ...
A: You are love. That truth about who you are is covered in negativity. That negativity is coloring ...
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| how can i take control of my life? | 11/20/2008 | Graig Yarbrough |
Q: sorry if i already sent this question. i accidentally pressed back to change something and it won't ...
A: First, you must accept responsibility for where you are at right now. You are more powerful than ...
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| Dealing with Guilt over child's disability | 11/20/2008 | Pam Dyson, MA, PLPC |
Q: I generally keep on top of my mental health by eating well, getting enough sleep, spending time with ...
A: You've already taken the first step. You recognize you need someone to help you process what ...
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| OCD | 11/19/2008 | Patricia A. Schafer, Clinical Counselor/Supervisor, LICDC, NCC |
Q: I'm not sure how to go about this. I've been doing a lot of research lately on OCD and i'm pretty ...
A: When you are reading about symptoms of OCD, make a check off list of your symptoms or print out a ...
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| drugs sold on school campus | 11/18/2008 | Pam Dyson, MA, PLPC |
Q: I am a parent with a high school student and am in need of help on how to: 1. Provide emotional ...
A: The best support you can give your teen is to talk openly with him/her about drugs and to let ...
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| My daughter and her step-dad (my husband's) relationship | 11/18/2008 | Pam Dyson, MA, PLPC |
Q: I never married my daughter's father b/c he was an alcoholic. When I had her, we went through a ...
A: I can sense the frustration in your words. It must be very difficult to deal with this situation. ...
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| sex and relationship | 11/17/2008 | Laura Giles, MSW |
Q: sex is something people do when they love each other in a relationship. but most guys would just ...
A: The answer to your questions would depend on the individual people we are talking about, but in ...
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| how can i take control of my life? | 11/17/2008 | Graig Yarbrough |
Q: sorry if i already sent this question. i accidentally pressed back to change something and it won't ...
A: It’s ok if you sent two questions. The whole tone of your note to me suggests that you cannot see ...
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| depressed teen | 11/16/2008 | Pam Dyson, MA, PLPC |
Q: I have a 17 year old son who was recently diagnosed with depression. We have been dealing with his ...
A: You son has been displaying symptoms of unhappiness and having angry outbursts for two years. During ...
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