Question dear friend:
I am suffering a fourth episode of depression because I had a girlfriend and then I suspected she was pulling my leg. I quit her and abandon her. I am consulting a psychiatrist and taking 5 different medicines for my depression. I am seriously thinking about call her up and ask to be friend again in order to cure this enormous depression.
What do you think?
Answer Auraxa, My immediate reaction is that you shouldn't do anything until you feel better and can think about this more clearly. It might make things better; then again, it might make things worse. If your doctor is only prescribing, then I recommend you find yourself a therapist with whom you can figure this out and also figure out how you can change things so you don't need to be depressed anymore. Obviously if you're taking 5 different medications (I personally think that's a lot) and they aren't making a difference, then you also need to review that - maybe get a second opinion. To quote Albert Einstein, "true insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result." Psychiatric medications at best are only short term answers and they should basically help you to talk about what you want to be different in your life - your best hopes. If you're not having that conversation, then you're not getting the full benefits from the meds. Please feel free to respond if you have any follow up thoughts or questions. Best wishes for the future. Joel
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Over 30 years as a therapist, clinical supervisor and solution-focused trainer. I've worked in a variety of settings including adolescent day treatment, inpatient psychiatric hospitals, community mental health clinics, and hospice. Further information is available on my website: www.0to10.net
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