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Hi!
I hope you will help me with this:
Let's say you meet a woman you like as a person (but still emotional). Now, let's say you also meet her daughters and fall in love with one of them. Is this really the normal way of falling in love? Is it normal to have emotional feelings for her mother? What do you think?

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Andrew:  Is there any normal way of falling in love?  If so, there wouldn't be so many novels and self-improvement books on the subject. It is normal for a heterosexual man to be attracted to women.  Beside, therapists are the worst people to ask what's normal.  Joel

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Joel Simon

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General questions about counseling, psychotherapy and mental health.

Experience

Over 30 years as a therapist, clinical supervisor and solution-focused trainer. I've worked in a variety of settings including adolescent day treatment, inpatient psychiatric hospitals, community mental health clinics, and hospice. Further information is available on my website: www.0to10.net

Organizations
A founding member of the Solution Focused Brief Therapy Association, Academy of Certified Social Workers, Board Certified Diplomate in Clinical Social Work, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in New York State.

Publications
Co-authored "Solution-Focused Brief Practice With Long-Term Clients in Mental Health Services: I'm More Than My Label." Authored: "Solution-Focused Practice in End-of-Life and Grief Counseling" Several articles published in professional journals including 2 with Insoo Kim Berg. Further details are available at www.0to10.net

Education/Credentials
Masters of Social Work (Yeshiva University 1978). 5 years training in Transactional Analysis, certified in Advanced Ericksonian Psychotherapy and Hypnosis with the New York Society (NYSEPH), Advanced training and advanced supervision seminar in solution-focused brief therapy with the co-developers of the approach, Insoo Kim Berg and Steve de Shazer

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