AboutHank Expertise I`ve had jobs that spanned the borders of 11 states including Hawaii. I`ve had the best, the inbetween and the lowest jobs known to mankind. Thus, I`ve associated with all walks of life. I`ve heard their hardships, their problems, their frustrations ... you name it! They were my master companions. I`d take a shot at answering almost any question that has to do with survival etc.
Experience Some 31 years 'on the road' associating with all types of people. I also had quite a few sociology classes in college. You might want to check my Homepage that will take you to my two Websites. Try http://homepages.about.com/hokamp/. I'm also answering questions in five categories for AskMe.com.
Publications Champaign New-Gazette, Champaign, IL (Feature Writer & City Reporter); Galveston News-Tribune, Galveston, TX (Feature Writer). I hope to find a publisher for my non-fiction book manuscript that I completed a short time ago. It's about subjective thinking and surviving in the 21st century. Some 220 pages!
Education/Credentials University of Illinois, Westminster College, University of Arkansas (Class of 1955), Southern Career Institute. Also a Certified YMCA Physical Director.
Awards and Honors Some 46 Athletic awards, mostly in golf and baseball.
I m a married woman of age 25 and i got married before 3 years.I tried for job for one year and finally settled with one which was not satisfying.This happened after marriage.Now i m in abroad with my hubby.My problem is i m the gold medalist in my college and some of my friends who studied with me are in good job now yet theyre are not married.Although few of my friends who are married are not working.
Now when i hear or meet someone whos working i feel somewhat depressed and i get tensed and i will be mood out for 1 week.
This is personally affecting my family.I have no kids and now where i m with my husband i have plenty of free time and so i m thinking something and confusing myself.
I m afraid whether the gold medal,my studies are of waste in my life.
As we are trying for a kid,i m not working for the past 2 years.
So please help me to outcome freom this
Answer
Well, Ram, it's like this. You're no longer in college. It's 2006 and your future is ahead of you. God gave you free-will (choice) to do what you wish. With this free-will comes will-power. You need self-confidence NOW! Tell yourself what you WANT to do (get a job) and go get it! Don't stop until you do! In re: Having a baby. You had better consider planned parenthood for obvious reasons, namely money, the status of your marriage, your habits etc. I'd get a job and work for at least a year. Then take inventory of your status in life. That's when you might determine you can afford a baby. "A stitch in time saves nine." You don't want to end up on Welfare. On balance: You said you have alot of time on your hands. Make good use of it by looking for a job, maintaining your home and acquiring friends. Take on an entry-level position at some fast-food place for the sole purpose of gaining experience in the workplace. It's up to you, Ram, and none other!
