Expert: Robin Sexton - 1/11/2010

Question
I used to be friends with someone, and found it not to be in my best interest to remain friends with her, unfortunately this is where the problems begin, she has attempted to contact family members along with ex boyfriends in an attempt to sabotage me, she has lied to these people telling them that i have an addiction to drugs and that my ex husband, who is a convicted felon should have custody of our daughter. She has left a threatening voice message and quite honestly all i want to do is to be left alone. can i get an order of protection as i fear what this woman is capable of doing either physically or otherwise. i live in nj

Answer
Theresa,

Sorry about the problem you are having.  Of the items you mentioned in your questions the only one that may arise to a criminal level is the threats over the phone.  The rest may fall under the civil definition of liable or slander but these are very hard cases to prove.  The threats over telephone if documented and reported to the police may be sufficient for you to obtain a protection order.  Contact your local police and make a report of the threatening or harassing phone calls.  Also inquire as to what is needed in your jurisdiction for a protection order.  each state is quiet different

good luck

robin