Critics of Jehovah`s Witnesses/Distorted view of JWs

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The organisers here have stopped me from being represented on this board even though one can still see many of my past answers.  That is becasue I was not a critic of JWs but a critic of the critics.

I was here to counter the disstorted view of JWs that you present here.  Some of the things you say are true and a lot of the information on the social pressure is unture.  

I have not visited this section of Jehovahs Witnesses for some time and have been reading through some of your replies.  You tell a good story but unfortunately a lot of what you say is very distorted.

You may have spent time in bethal and visiting many different congregations but from what you say in your answers I see you realy did not understand the social life or you have forgoret.  I would say it was a mixture of both.

Your understanding on the so called totalitarian authority is exremely distorted.  

JWs DO NOT allow the Watchtowe Society (the Governing Body in particular) to rule and control thier lives as you say.  We allow Jehovah to rule and controll our lives and come under his direction. The Bible is our guide not the WTS or the GB.

The WT never lied about dates.  They missunderstood dates and cnhronology but they never lied about it.

I wish I could be back here to set the readers straight.  

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Dear Brenton,

You are invested in the Witness organization. Your investment makes it difficult for you to see the legitimate errors of the organization. I am very familiar with this mental gymnastic. It goes something like this:

"I have spent 20 years following the prescribed methods that I learned from the Watchtower Society and conforming my life to those methods. Everything I know, my entire world, is tied up in those methods. I give this allegiance because I believe the organization represents God who is infallible. If there are any important fundamental errors within the organization, this is inconsistent with representing an infallible God, and therefore cannot be real. Further, all the years I have spent could have been wasted, and if one important thing is wrong, then my entire world could be wrong. That is too unthinkable to consider, so I won't consider it."

You seem to be employing this mental gymnastic which is common among Witnesses. Otherwise, it would be as clear to you as it is to outsiders that there are important fundamental errors in Watchtower policy.

> I was here to counter the disstorted view of JWs that you present
> here. Some of the things you say are true and a lot of the
> information on the social pressure is unture.
> I have not visited this section of Jehovahs Witnesses for some time
> and have been reading through some of your replies.  You tell a good
> story but unfortunately a lot of what you say is very distorted...
> Your understanding on the so called totalitarian authority is
> exremely distorted.  

Nothing I have said is distorted or untrue. Truth is my highest value. Clarity is my only weapon. I need these things in order to cope with the immensely distorted mind games and false statements made by Witnesses.

If it seems distorted to you it is because you are wearing glasses with thick lenses, and you have been wearing them so long you have forgotten you have them on. Your thick glasses make simple reality appear false, and an extensive network of manipulation and deception appear true.

Is it wise to accept correction of "distortions" from persons to whom distortion is a way of life?

> You may have spent time in bethal and visiting many different
> congregations but from what you say in your answers I see you realy
> did not understand the social life or you have forgoret.  

Or perhaps I understood it deeply. It has always been my habit to look deeply into an issue I am concerned with to understand it well. Rather than jump to conclusions after a glance, I hold back in silence for much longer periods while studying to truly understand. God himself gave me this gift. Your organization's obfuscation was unable to take it away.

> JWs DO NOT allow the Watchtowe Society (the Governing Body in
> particular) to rule and control thier lives as you say.  We allow
> Jehovah to rule and controll our lives and come under his direction.
> The Bible is our guide not the WTS or the GB.

This is a most telling comment. You admit that you accept control over your life, yet you know full well God has not spoken to you or any member of your organization in any special way. You know full well that everything you hold true about "the Bible" came to you through the Watchtower Society, and specifically the Governing Body.

God has not told you what you hold true. The Governing Body has. So the control over your life which you accept comes from the Governing Body. Here is a litmus test of this simple logic: If you take the Bible to be God's literal word, and you read something in the Bible but interpret it differently than the Governing Body, can you believe it and follow it because the Bible tells you so? Or must you disregard what the Bible says to you because the Governing Body tells you it means something else? In fact people are expelled from your organization for believing and doing what the Bible tells them to do, because your Governing Body's interpretation of the Bible is more important than the Bible itself.

The Governing Body is your controlling authority, not God. Yes, I know, you claim they are God's representatives on earth, so you would see this difference as splitting hairs. Yet it is a vital difference, for the Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses does not receive any special guidance from God (and doesn't even claim to), and without such special guidance, how can it legitimately claim to represent him?

At least other cult leaders have the good sense to claim they are prophets, meaning they do receive special guidance from God. Your leaders do not make that claim, yet still expect you to believe they represent God, which is a logical non-sequitur, in the simplest of terms.

> The WT never lied about dates.  They missunderstood dates and
> cnhronology but they never lied about it.

They did not lie in advance when predicting. You're right, they misunderstood and made mistakes. Again and again and again. Should someone who misunderstands and makes innocent mistakes so often be trusted as an authority? Should not the Watchtower Society have realized after the first dozen failed prophecies that they were unqualified to continue prophesying?

But they did lie after the predictions failed, by disowing responsibility for the failure and blaming the rank and file for having misunderstood EXACTLY WHAT THEY WERE IN FACT TAUGHT, just as you are blaming me for "misunderstanding". No, we understand quite clearly what we have seen and heard. It was you and your organization who predicted things that repeatedly failed to materialize. Do not blame us for believing exactly what we were told. Do not blame us for seeing the simple reality you have tried to turn us away from with your distorted thick glasses.

For those who are interested in dozens of specific examples where Watchtower literature engaged in false prophecy, please see the following link:

http://www.freeminds.org/history/list.htm

Best wishes,
AndrewXJW
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A follow-up added on 2.5.2008:

As supporting documentation for my statement that the Witness leadership shifted responsibility for their failed predictions to their members, I offer the following additional links. In other words, the Watchtower leadership covered up their mistakes by blaming the rank and file for having "misunderstood" when in reality the Watchtower leadership had changed their tune, but in order to retain their credibility and authoritarian control, they did not own up to it.

This link...
http://www.jwfiles.com/1914Generation.htm
...shows how in Oct/Nov, 1995, the Watchtower Society subtly changed their tune about a central theme of their teaching for many years previously.

This link...
http://www.jwfiles.com/outline.htm
...offers a wealth of data excerpted from Watchtower literature (1892 to 1989), including claims about a predictable date for Armageddon.

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I don't object to Witness theology, but rather their use of social pressure & deceptive manipulations to undermine family ties and control minds. (This may seem contradictory to Witnesses, who draw no distinction between spiritual belief and organizational policy.) I do not engage in theological debate. I support persons impacted by an experience with the Witnesses and advocate early education for everyone so that they can protect themselves from cults by understanding what to watch out for. (It's not what most people think.)

(Ex-)Witnesses: I know how upsetting it is to experience doubts (or anger) about your experience. Time does not heal this wound until you first remove the splinter, which takes more time and effort than you may realize. So, unless you have already put in that time and effort, don't be surprised if you are deeply affected long after the experience. But there is good news! You're NOT an enemy of God for doubting or for failing to meet the requirements of a human organization. An organization that lies cannot be the exclusive spokesman for the God of Truth. Tell me where you're at. I'll understand. I can show you how to begin or continue your recovery and make a life for yourself worth living.

Non-Witnesses: Describe your experience with your friend/relative who is (becoming) a Witness. I can help you understand the Witness indoctrination and social dynamics that are affecting him or her. I can help you put your options into perspective. Keep in mind that people do make their own choices (even though they may sometimes do so under outside influence) and you may not be able to affect this person's choices, even though they impact on you. After all, you do not have the arsenal of tactics that a cult does (and wouldn't want to). A few people manage to save their friend/relative, but don't count on it. What you can count on is navigating the maze more successfully by becoming more informed about your own options.

Experience

I was a Witness for 30 years, and a volunteer at their headquarters in Brooklyn, New York, for a year. I have attended meetings with many Witness congregations across the United States, a thorough cross-section, carefully observing patterns of behavior. Although being a Witness was difficult, and I gradually had more and more doubts about Witness teachings--I was a true believer, so I kept trying to make it work somehow. I stopped attending meetings in 1997 only after receiving an answer to a prayer about doing so, and have since been actively involved in recovery. This includes both my own and supporting others in theirs. Recovery can include reading books, communicating with others in recovery, and participating in support groups and/or therapy. It always involves reclaiming one's own mind and discovering the other sides of the issues that you have been blinded to in the past.

My gradual awakening was socially, psychologically, and spiritually tumultuous. I lost everything from my former life. My suffering was substantial.

But I have gained everything, so it was worth it. Only after beginning my recovery did I gain social, psychological, and spiritual healing and growth, peace of mind, and self-respect. Only then did I discover who I am; and--for the first time--the meaning of real brotherly love.

For more resources on this topic, try these web sites:
http://freeminds.org/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/freedomofmind/



Education/Credentials
Like most Cult Recovery Counselors, I am a cult survivor. I have life experience, not professional training. Also I feel no need to apologize for that. People with professional training cannot understand what it is like to survive a cult unless they have been through it themselves, which few professional therapists have. Understanding what really happened and what works in this unusual social context is as important as psychological training. Most professional therapists are not specifically trained to support cult survivors. Those who are represent a rare and precious resource.

I sometimes refer people to professional therapists regarding deep personal issues. But surviving a cult is a broad experience with other dimensions. Professional therapy can be very helpful as part of your recovery process, assuming that you choose the right therapist. When choosing a therapist, remember that you are the client and they are a service provider. You are the one who holds authority about the relationship. You get to interview the therapist and decide which one to employ.

Be sure to ask what specific training and experience they have around recovery from cult mind control. Most therapists do not have relevant training. Some carry serious misunderstandings about what cult mind control is; and therefore will misunderstand your struggle. So it pays to be selective as a consumer of professional therapy services.

Past/Present Clients
The Witness organization is not like other churches. Most non-Witnesses really cannot imagine what it is like to be a Witness. The organization has unimaginably extensive rules and monitoring that affect every aspect of life, so there is no privacy and no sense of personal independence. "Independent thought" is considered their greatest "sin".

The organization insists on absolute conformity, and claims to directly represent God; so dissent is not tolerated, and authority is totalitarian. Being a Witness is more like living in China or the former Soviet Union than being a member of a religion as you know it. It was the research of Robert J. Lifton, who was studying--not religions--but totalitarian governments, who first began to illuminate the problem of religious cults around the world, which employ exactly the same tactics as totalitarian governments. His work remains a cornerstone for Cult Recovery Counselors still today. (This may be why many governments are tolerant of cults, to avoid exposing their own control tactics.)

Witnesses often experience unusually dysfunctional lives and an extensive array of personal problems stemming from broken family ties, stunted social development, inner unrest resulting from repressed doubts, inability to defend boundaries, and an extreme, persistent feeling of irrational shame. I can help people impacted by an experience with the Witnesses by revealing in detail the policies and social dynamics in the Witness organization that cause these problems.

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