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About Leslie Meredith
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Navigate the dating scene with expert help and encouragement. Dating etiquette that works. How to make the most of online dating from the right photos to an irresistible profile. Who is right for you? When to respond and what to say. How to go from online to in-person. How to guarantee a second date ... if that's what you want! A spare and a pair: successfully dating more than one person at a time. Getting the exclusive when it's right for you. Write me with your questions: it's like having a best friend who only wants the best for you.

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A dating coach, specializing in "second time around" dating for men and women re-entering the dating scene after divorce. Also an online dating profile writer for e-cyrano.com for two years working with men and women across the country and around the world with excellent results. "The profile Leslie wrote for me was wonderful, and I really enjoyed speaking with her on the phone. I'm looking forward now to lots more fun in the future with all the dates I get!" -- Robyn, Sydney, Australia.

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BA Psychology, UCLA

 
   

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Topic: Dating at Midlife



Expert: Leslie Meredith
Date: 6/12/2008
Subject: cheating

Question
I notice that some really ugly, fat, hideous women with horrible personalities end up getting all the men. They get every man they want, even stealing other really beautiful women's boyfriends and husbands.

These women are very cunning and know exactly what men want, they are out hunting for prey much like sharks and crocodiles do.

However they look like the back end of a rhino and have the body of a pig.

*oink oink*

How do these women do it?

Case in point, the beautiful singer Shania Twain's husband, record producer Mutt Lange (who indeed looks like a shaggy mutt by the way - he was lucky to get a woman at all - let alone a pretty one) cheated on Shania with the hideously ugly secretary Marie Ann Thiebaud. I guess when she was out on tour, who knows...leaving his beautiful wife and son for that hideous crocodile.

Ok let's ignore celebrities..

but how do the "regular" crocodiles and sharks steal the men

please dont think im mean...

...poeple just assume the hot, pretty lady will steal the man...like the siren angelina jolie stole brad from jen...the gorgeous penelope stole tom cruise from nicole...etc

your thoughts?
thank u

Answer
Simi,

It's not all about appearance, but I would anticipate most overweight and unattractive women do not have the success with men you described. Yours are the exception to the rule. And, women cannot steal men. Those men are willing to go. Now there's one of my pet peeves: Why do women frequently blame the "other woman" rather than her boyfriend or husband?  Don't let the man off the hook. Let's place the blame where it belongs.

Best,

Leslie Meredith

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