About Leslie Meredith Expertise Navigate the dating scene with expert help and encouragement. Dating etiquette that works. How to make the most of online dating from the right photos to an irresistible profile. Who is right for you? When to respond and what to say. How to go from online to in-person. How to guarantee a second date ... if that's what you want! A spare and a pair: successfully dating more than one person at a time. Getting the exclusive when it's right for you. Write me with your questions: it's like having a best friend who only wants the best for you.
Experience A dating coach, specializing in "second time around" dating for men and women re-entering the dating scene after divorce. Also an online dating profile writer for e-cyrano.com for two years working with men and women across the country and around the world with excellent results. "The profile Leslie wrote for me was wonderful, and I really enjoyed speaking with her on the phone. I'm looking forward now to lots more fun in the future with all the dates I get!" -- Robyn, Sydney, Australia.
I am 26 years old woman. I live with two roomates, they are both 24. I'm a very beautiful woman and they are fat and ugly. But I have always been very nice, polite, and kind to both of them.
They have been treating me rudely ever since I first moved in with them, but I have always been considerate. I wonder if it is jealousy over my looks? I have not given them any reason to treat me rudely since I have always been kind.
Whenever we get dressed up to go out, they are always teasing me about my chest size. I am only an A cup being a very thin girl, and they are very obese, so they are like double D cup. But they are always making cruel comments. Saying "flat boobs flat boobs" and laughing constantly...it's August now and this has been going on since January.
I am really tired of the breast size comments and the teasing about it. Their breasts are ugly and sagging down to the floor, but I have never said anything about them being fat and ugly. I have never been mean to them even once. So they have NO RIGHT to tease me about my chest size.
How should I deal with this situation? What do I say when they keep on teasing me about my small chest size? It's an area I am very sensitive about.
thanks
Ana
Answer Ana,
Speak up for yourself. Their comments are unacceptable. Then take a look at W or Vogue for a little boost of self esteem in this area. I understand your sensitivity. When I considered surgery, my trainer asked me, "Do you really want guys to look at you because of your breasts?" Um, no. Being slender is a wonderful thing. And, how about finding new roommates?
