Expert: Susan Price, M.A. - 4/9/2004

Question
Hello Susan
             Is there anything wrong with having sex with a women in her early 50's if I am only 25?  She is 53  single Divorced sweet and pretty.

I was still a virgin till last month at 25 and no girl friends what so ever.  I  a loner and skinny and still gets pimples  which makes my skin  on face look red a lot.

We meet a work last fall and dated a lot and even had our test to see if we are ok .

WE Had sex last month for the first time. I loved the
feeling of all the body contact her hair all over me and Breast too and soft skin.  Plus feeling her press me inside her.

My only question is  is it normal for a women to use a women's vibrator on me .  She had me bend my knees up and used it on me that morning.  It hurt some what and seems not right for a women to do to a man.     I have never heard of a women wanting to do that to a man.  Plus she wants to dO oral sex I THINK THATS DIRTY  I could never do that

Should I LEAVE HER
                        Michael

Answer
Dear Michael,

There is nothing wrong with having sex with an older woman, if that is what you want to do.

There is no such thing as a "women's vibrator". All vibrators are meant for use by both sexes. Anything you both agree to do is just fine!

Good luck, Michael!

Sincerely,

Susan Price, MA