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| NO-STRINGS SEX & AGE DIFFERENCE | 8/21/2009 |
Q: Azure. I am a 48 year old divorced woman and have not had a sexual relationship in almost six years, ...
A: "appropriate" depends on who's judging--unless you care alot about what others may think (assuming u ...
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| Relationship question | 7/19/2009 |
Q: I am 50 and have been in a relationship with a man, 56, for 1 1/2 years. We are together almost all ...
A: depends what your "requirements" are for continuing; if you need/want/require more, you need to ...
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| Separted and Dating in a Crappy Economy | 7/5/2009 |
Q: Ok. I have been dating a man (55yrs old) for almost 2 years who has been separated from his wife. ...
A: it's not about external guidelines or right/wrong..it's about figuring out what you REQUIRE in order ...
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| Getting over Ex | 6/28/2009 |
Q: We knew each other about 6 years before we got together we worked for the same company and became ...
A: everyone in this, except for the daughter, has some important adjustments to make; first, him; he ...
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| 3-year relationship | 6/2/2009 |
Q: Azure - You recently answered my question about getting my boyfriend to propose. Unfortunately, ...
A: i'm assuming it's HIS place, otherwise there'd be no reason YOU'D have to leave; okay, the deal is ...
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| marriage | 5/27/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend Michael and I are 60 and both divorced. We have been together for 3 years. I moved in ...
A: not sure how the 2d "ceremony" would work once already married, but i'll assume you have that piece ...
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| boyfriend's memorabilia from ex | 5/22/2009 |
Q: I moved in with my boyfriend, Jim, after knowing each other for 2 and a half years and going through ...
A: you just answered your question in the last paragraph--if you brought this up, it would be YOU on ...
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| My girl thinks I am a coward | 3/9/2009 |
Q: I have lived with my girlfriend for more than two years now. I recently returned from Iraq and while ...
A: unless she somehow got the erroneous impression that you were somehow SIDING with him, she is ...
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| wake up call | 2/18/2009 |
Q: Is it possible that after a year and a half of knowing each other-you've become best friends, You ...
A: he's essentially giving you alot of jive; "thinks" about dating??...he's already doing that, just ...
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| can this be corrected? | 12/9/2008 |
Q: I'm 49 & have known this guy( same age) about 8 months.We're both divorced. We live in a small town. ...
A: two different issues--first, stop blaming yourself and stop feeling guilty--it's no great flaw to on ...
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| mid-life dating/condoms/std | 10/17/2008 |
Q: I am 44 (divorced) and started dating a 51 (never married) man about 3 months ago. About 1 month ...
A: you're missing a considerate boyfriend; no one cares what other women, his peers, and therapist ...
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| dating a widower | 4/29/2008 |
Q: i met a wonderful man through the personals. he is everything i have ever wanted. he told me he had ...
A: not sure what your question is, so i'll just make some general comments; the daughter, the kid, the ...
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| major boyfriend crisis | 3/7/2008 |
Q: For the past ten months, I have been going through the most difficult ordeal of my life. Ten months ...
A: to wait a YEAR would be tough---10 years plus would be insanity; love is not a good criteria for ...
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| Complete lack of self-confidence | 1/1/2008 |
Q: I'm a woman, 44, with a daughter, 13. I'm just getting divorced after 14 years (and being separated ...
A: i'd love to just say "be confident" and your problems would be solved, but i realize it may not be ...
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| boyfriend in prison | 12/10/2007 |
Q: i am 24 yrs old and in love with my boyfriend. we was planning on getting married but he got locked ...
A: i wouldn't wait 5 years for ANYONE, let alone a guy in prison...it's not your fault he's in prison; ...
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| After the break-up | 12/3/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend and I broke up two weeks ago, after seeing each other for a bit over two months. I made ...
A: time to look at this with a different perspective; after only 2 months, thinking in terms of ...
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| Friendship | 10/31/2007 |
Q: I'm a female with a middle aged guy fried. When I first met him, he had trouble with his marriage ...
A: we're all responsible for our own feelings... she, or he, can't MAKE you feel anything; right or ...
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| divorce and dating | 8/16/2007 |
Q: You seem like you are knowledgeable and objective. I am in a complicated situation. My boyfriends ...
A: "wrong" implies a moral judgment, where opinions can differ; i personally don't consider the age ...
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| Fidelity | 6/14/2007 |
Q: I am in a serious relationship of almost a year. We have one major problem that continues to come ...
A: if anything, he should apologize to YOU for putting you on this needless guilt trip due to his ...
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| Is he blowing me off? | 4/28/2007 |
Q: I am 43, so is this man. We were neighbors last year in the same apt building, but he had a steady ...
A: don't expect alot--you offered no strings, casual sex, he accepted; to get too hung up analyzing his ...
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| does he want me back? | 3/22/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend of 4 months was very loving, kind, gentle, and respectful, and very passionate. We were ...
A: actually the REAL question is, why is your self-esteem so low and neediness so high, that you're ...
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| relationship | 1/21/2007 |
Q: I've been speaking to this guy bye phone for about three months now and still have not met him face ...
A: no need to wait at all; it's more of a fantasy if smooth talk and promises of coming attractions are ...
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| What could he be really feeling? | 1/1/2007 |
Q: So I've been reading some previous answers about why men go for the younger gals...well in my case ...
A: don't kid yourself--you've given him a convenient, non-exclusive, no obligation, no commitment free ...
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| this drives me crazy... | 12/31/2006 |
Q: I'm 50, slim, above average looks, intelligent, and a great sense of humor. I met an attractive and ...
A: i agree--if they're TRULY interested, they'll ask you out; as to the lack of follow-thru, could be ...
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| dating game not working | 6/30/2006 |
Q: my name is Johnny. I emailed you a few times earlier this year (4-06-06) when I had met a lady and ...
A: unfortunately, being disabled eliminates 98percent of the female population who wouldn't be ...
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| met someone, need advice | 4/6/2006 |
Q: my name is Johnny. I am 45, single, never married, no kids. I met a really neat gal back in feb. of ...
A: your neediness has created overly high expectations, and may be causing her to step back; to her, ...
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| There's a man i'm interested... | 9/13/2005 |
Q: There's a man i'm interested in. actualy a lot of women are intested in him. But I'm tons cooler ...
A: i don't recommend girls doing more than just being themselves--no chasing!...depletes your ...
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| Hi,
I'm interested in a... | 7/15/2005 |
Q: I'm interested in a man, but he just got out of a 2 year relationship. I go to school where he works ...
A: how bout just being yourself?..you shouldn't have to artificially manipulate his attentions; plus, i ...
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| What was your degree supposed... | 6/13/2005 |
Q: What was your degree supposed to be in? And why'd you drop out (if you didn't finish)? ...
A: it would have been an MSW; i didn't like the school, didn't like living in nyc, didn't like the ...
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| HARD TO TRUST AGAIN | 1/24/2005 |
Q: I AM A 51 YEAR OLD MALE, NO CHILDERN AND NEVER BEEN MARRIED. I HAVE BEEN DRUG FREE FOR FIVE YEARS ...
A: what are you scared of? if you had brain cancer, you'd have a legitimate fear.....factor in the ...
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