| Subject | Date Asked |
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| dating in the workplace | 8/11/2009 |
Q: So I just started a new job as a host at an upscale restaurant, I am not planning on staying in this ...
A: Just go about doing your job and getting to know him better. Time will tell if he is interested and ...
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| boyfrined doesn't want more kids. | 11/5/2008 |
Q: I have been dating someone for about a year and a half. We are both 37 and divorced. He has two ...
A: There are two viable options: 1.) Tell your boyfriend that this is a deal breaker and that you want ...
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| dating in 2008 | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I have noticed lately that when I meet a man, I have to do all the work. Such as asking him for his ...
A: My impression is that you are a very strong women who tends to take charge. Some men like that and ...
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| dating | 5/25/2008 |
Q: Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the world? This ...
A: It sounds to me like he has not made any moves towards you which makes you think that he doesn't ...
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| ex | 3/20/2008 |
Q: this may not be directly in this category, but you looked like the most qualified my girlfriend ...
A: It does seem that having your family's approval was very important to her and that she may have ...
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| I'm in love with a selfish man! | 3/1/2008 |
Q: I'm 43, married twice (last one was ten years ago), no kids. He is 41, never married, no kids. We ...
A: I think that the title of your question gives you your answer. I'm certain that you know you cannot ...
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| Sincere interest in a successful relationship w a divorced woman I really love & care about. | 1/8/2008 |
Q: Terri. Quick background: I'm a good, kind, caring man (professional, mid-40s) who has had a very ...
A: My sense is that she is in pain and still mourning the loss of her marriage. The holidays magnify ...
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| younger men | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I'm a 25 year old woman and I live in Chicago, Illinois. I think in Illinois you have to be 18 to ...
A: ILLINOIS A. Statutory Rape—Criminal Offenses A person is deemed incapable of consent if he or she is ...
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| stood up | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I met a very nice gentleman I was interested in and he asked for my number and gave me his. He was ...
A: What I tell women is "not to take first meetings so seriously". It is, what it is, and the reasons ...
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| call back | 9/29/2007 |
Q: Let's say a guy gives you his phone number and you give him his, and he says he'll call you. Let's ...
A: I tried to answer this question when it first arrived, but there was an internal error on the ...
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| dating at 50 | 8/26/2007 |
Q: I'm a reasonably attractive, highly intelligent woman w/ a good sense of humor and sense of fun, ...
A: That is the million dollar question!!! If I had the definitive answer, I would tell you...but I ...
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| divorced with kids? | 8/14/2007 |
Q: My boyfriend has met my children (17,22,24,26) and really likes them and they like him. We have ...
A: Generally, this indicates a lower level of commitment to, or uncertainty about the longevity of, the ...
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| divorce or not | 8/9/2007 |
Q: I was young when i married my first husband, 21 and we were high school sweet hearts, we were ...
A: You are not a failure. Protecting your family and yourself from a violent man is called survival. ...
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| did I do the wrong thing? | 7/25/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy Chris and everything seemed to be going great. We had so much in common, we ...
A: You are right! Now he knows. If it made you feel better to let him know that you were not fooled, ...
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| why does he even bother | 7/17/2007 |
Q: I was in love with a man whom I suppose didn't love me back, although I thought he did. He was very ...
A: He is not committed to either of you, so why not have his cake and eat it too? He is not wasting ...
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| messy situation | 7/5/2007 |
Q: I have a confusing situation I was hoping you could help me out with. It is a long letter and ...
A: I'm glad to hear that you are trying to remove yourself from this situation because the group sounds ...
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| i'm so sad | 7/4/2007 |
Q: I was very much in love with a man who cheated on me the years we were together and left me for the ...
A: Perhaps they had a fight, maybe she dumped him, who knows? Regardless of what has happened to the ...
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| break up | 6/16/2007 |
Q: How can i get my fiance back athough each of us live in different cities and can't travel at the ...
A: You cannot make someone love you, nor return to a relationship, if he doesn't want to be part of a ...
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| Fidelity | 6/14/2007 |
Q: I am in a serious relationship of almost a year. We have one major problem that continues to come ...
A: Neither of you is right or wrong. You are two people coming from two different perspectives on the ...
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| Accept being alone | 6/5/2007 |
Q: I’m a 45 year old man. I was married for 17 years and have been alone now for five. I’ve dated and ...
A: Yes, it can become very easy to hide out in your home and be alone. It takes effort on your part to ...
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| why does he contact me now | 6/3/2007 |
Q: In graduate school I dated a man for about two months, fell very much in love with him but never ...
A: Anna, I hate hurting feelings, but if this man REALLY wanted to be with you, there would be no ...
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| current relationship | 5/2/2007 |
Q: I have been in a relationship for about 9 months and he is goin through his 2nd divorce and dosent ...
A: He "doesn't trust his judgments choosing women" He didn't resist your decision to leave after living ...
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| ? | 3/30/2007 |
Q: I was dating this guy for a while, we were really happy together, we would talk for hours about ...
A: I cant really answer this because I don't know what "a while" means and your ages, etc.; but what I ...
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| Confused and worried.. | 2/4/2007 |
Q: I'm really not sure if you're able to help since you've mostly gotten questions from people a bit ...
A: I'm sorry, Matt. I just learned that my previous answer to you did not go through! Unfortunately, ...
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| Friends forever/or exclusive | 1/1/2007 |
Q: So I've been reading some previous answers about why men go for the younger gals...well in my case ...
A: I would ask you - does he take you out on dates to his regular haunts? Does he introduce you to his ...
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| Why am I not getting asked out on dates? | 12/24/2006 |
Q: I'm 53, slim, toned, attractive, intelligent, worldly, nice personality, have a good sense of humor, ...
A: First, let me say that you are in good company! I know many women, who fit your description, ...
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| sweet talker | 12/10/2006 |
Q: I have a Latin boyfriend that is always calling other women by pet names such as sweetie, honey, ...
A: Your friend's tactic is to shift the blame. He sticks to his line that you are "overreacting". It ...
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| URL for dating tips - correct? | 10/31/2006 |
Q: Terri, So nice to hear from you. I've been trying to access the webpage you told me about below ...
A: Okay, I just copied and pasted this to my response, so I know it is correct! ...
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| Advice for First Date | 9/27/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question -Followup To Question -Hi Terri, I hope you can help, though I'm a guy. My ...
A: Well, hello again, Nelson! When you first wrote to me, you were anticipating the future before even ...
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| Why do men in mid life go for girls have thier age? | 9/21/2006 |
Q: I am 46 years old and thought that I had a great relationship with a very nice guy the same age as ...
A: I know the feeling. The exact same thing happened to me, and he married her quickly, and they had a ...
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| Advice for First Date | 9/14/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question -Followup To Question - Hi Terri, I hope you can help, though I'm a guy. ...
A: Nelson, I wouldn't waste my time. If she speaks negatively about you it will only beat you down ...
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| How to date a guy of 42? | 9/11/2006 |
Q: I am 26 yo. I am dating a guy of 42. It has been around one month yet we feel that we have been ...
A: At 42, he has a career and responsibilities that take up alot of time for him. Unfortunately, they ...
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| Advice for First Date | 9/3/2006 |
Q: Followup To Question -Hi Terri, I hope you can help, though I'm a guy. My first date in many ...
A: Okay, Nelson! You have opened a door in a non-threatening way and she has taken the next step. ...
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| He doesn't want anymore children... | 8/23/2006 |
Q: Well, I am going through a rough time right now and definitely need an outside perspective... I am ...
A: If you stay with him and marry, one of two things will happen. He will decide to have one child and ...
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| Advice for First Date | 8/15/2006 |
Q: I hope you can help, though I'm a guy. My first date in many years. It feels so good to love again. ...
A: I called a male friend of mine to see what he would advise. He gave me the following: - Have an ...
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| how do i get my mom to date? | 4/22/2006 |
Q: ok...my mom got divorced when i was 8. she has been single for 6 years and she needs to start dating ...
A: You are obviously a very mature 14 year old. My daughter is your same age, and I often ask her for ...
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| follow up | 4/12/2006 |
Q: Thancs for the response. Yeah I'm not sure what my mom's deal is either. I thinc it is a mixture of ...
A: Sorry it took me so long to respond. I didn't realize that you had asked a follow up question until ...
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| This isn't a relationship... | 4/8/2006 |
Q: This isn't a relationship question but it's about my profession. I'm 24 years old and applying for ...
A: I'm sorry that I was not able to answer your question earlier. I was in Ireland on vacation! I ...
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| Relationships | 4/7/2006 |
Q: I am 49 and would like your opinion and advise on the following:"I was in a dating relationship with ...
A: I personally always think that it is a good thing to apolgize when we have done wrong, and to learn ...
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