| Subject | Date Asked |
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| teasing | 7/17/2008 |
Q: I am 26 years old woman. I live with two roomates, they are both 24. I'm a very beautiful woman and ...
A: Ana, Speak up for yourself. Their comments are unacceptable. Then take a look at W or Vogue for a ...
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| lots of recent loss and now suddenly single at 35 and my 'rebound' doesn't know if he wants kids! | 7/12/2008 |
Q: i have been dating the same guy for the past 2 years. we were friends for a few years before and got ...
A: You have had to deal with so much in a very short amount of time. Be patient with yourself. It's ...
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| dating | 6/26/2008 |
Q: 1. Why is it that really beautiful women with nice personalities and successful careers ... seem to ...
A: Mike, In a word: jealous. No one is supposed to be smart, beautiful, slender and ... NICE. To many, ...
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| cheating | 6/12/2008 |
Q: I notice that some really ugly, fat, hideous women with horrible personalities end up getting all ...
A: Simi, It's not all about appearance, but I would anticipate most overweight and unattractive women ...
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| mroe than friends | 6/8/2008 |
Q: i used to be realy good friends with this guy joel. him and i started being friends back in january ...
A: Alana, You're just going to have to tell him you appreciate his friendship but that's it. I'd also ...
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| roommates | 6/6/2008 |
Q: I'm 27 years old and I have 2 roommates, one is 22 and the other 24. Back in February they both ...
A: Laurie, Eleven weeks under those circumstances sound like an eternity to me, at least the end is in ...
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| dating in 2008 | 6/1/2008 |
Q: I have noticed lately that when I meet a man, I have to do all the work. Such as asking him for his ...
A: Carrie, Sounds like you prefer a guy who knows what he wants and how to get it. And you're right, ...
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| dating | 5/25/2008 |
Q: Why is it that when a man puts his arms around a woman, it is the BEST feeling in the world? This ...
A: Jaci, Yes, being held by a man, particularly by one you like and trust, is comforting. An instant ...
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| Dating | 5/20/2008 |
Q: I have been on Eharmony since early Dec and have not had much luck until recently. I have ...
A: Bob, Looks like you said too much and too soon. There is no need to reveal personal information ...
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| Dating | 5/3/2008 |
Q: I have been on Eharmony since early Dec and have not had much luck until recently. I have ...
A: Robert, She is interested. She said yes to a second date. I like the fact you went to the zoo ... ...
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| profile | 4/29/2008 |
Q: Hey. There's this real gorgeous guy I know, every woman wants him. His Facebook and MySpace ...
A: Steph, I think he's promoting his girlfriend as a way to keep women from thinking he's available ...
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| disinterested or shy? | 4/29/2008 |
Q: There is an exceedingly handsome gentleman that I am interested in. He has a very nice personality ...
A: Ana, You want a confident man who can ask a girl out. The downcast eyes and mumbling are certainly ...
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| sex | 4/28/2008 |
Q: Sex is a primary, basic human instinct. Both men and women were designed with sexual desire at the ...
A: Ana, These restrictions have been around far longer than our modern society, and are tied to ...
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| profile | 4/28/2008 |
Q: Hey. There's this real gorgeous guy I know, every woman wants him. His Facebook and MySpace ...
A: Steph, I'm wondering how much of a girlfriend this woman actually is to him. Okay, either you are a ...
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| disinterested or shy? | 4/28/2008 |
Q: There is an exceedingly handsome gentleman that I am interested in. He has a very nice personality ...
A: Ana, Yes, I'd agree he's sending mixed signals. However, I say forget it. A normal guy will ask you ...
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| Hot Men with Ugly Women | 4/22/2008 |
Q: I've noticed something. I've seen that very very sexy men, such as those guys that are typically ...
A: Ana, Why would a smart,hot,fun girl commit herself to this type of guy? There will always be ...
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| virginity | 4/16/2008 |
Q: Do you think it is best to wait until marriage to have sex? I am already 32 years old with a high ...
A: Jessica, The most important consideration is your own beliefs about premarital sex. Hopefully, you ...
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| laughing | 4/16/2008 |
Q: I'm a relatively shy, quiet girl who is very reserved and keeps to myself. So yesterday all these ...
A: Anna, Lesson learned is keep your porn out of sight. Your sexual tastes are private. Hope you ...
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| passionate | 4/10/2008 |
Q: I'm interested in this man. But he has had like a million girls because he used to be a pro athlete ...
A: The bad news: he just wants to have sex with you. The good news: Most guys thinks of sex first, so ...
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| birthday very early in relationship | 4/1/2008 |
Q: my name is Charles and I recently had a first date with a girl, and I'm interested in continuing to ...
A: Charles, Have you or will you see one another in the two intervening weeks? If so, bring flowers on ...
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| ex | 3/12/2008 |
Q: its alan again. sorry to keep bothering you. i have one more question. in last month of the ...
A: Alan, I want you to focus on what you wanted and use that knowledge to find a better relationship ...
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| ex | 3/10/2008 |
Q: its alan again. sorry to keep bothering you. i have one more question. in last month of the ...
A: Sorry, Alan. If she was really into you, she would wait forever to hear I love you. In my ...
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| ex | 3/10/2008 |
Q: its alan again. sorry to keep bothering you. i have one more question. in last month of the ...
A: Alan, You are not bothering me. This makes it sound much more contradictory. I understand how ...
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| ex | 3/9/2008 |
Q: Im not quite in my mid-life yet, but you looked like the most qualified expert, so I decided to send ...
A: Alan, Six weeks is a long time. Regardless, many women won't end a relationship until they have the ...
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| ex | 3/9/2008 |
Q: Im not quite in my mid-life yet, but you looked like the most qualified expert, so I decided to send ...
A: It's not the clock. It's not the shirts. The flowers were lovely and very appropriate. You were ...
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| ex | 3/9/2008 |
Q: Im not quite in my mid-life yet, but you looked like the most qualified expert, so I decided to send ...
A: Alan, You went ahead with your plans to visit your family. You did not indicate that you invited her ...
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| ex | 3/8/2008 |
Q: Im not quite in my mid-life yet, but you looked like the most qualified expert, so I decided to send ...
A: You did enough. As a matter of fact, you did too much. I am sure you are amazing, but you have to ...
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| Need input please | 2/4/2008 |
Q: I probably already know what kind of answer I am going to get but I thought I would ask anyway. ...
A: Linda, I am sorry this happened to you. As you anticipated, I am going to advise you to end this ...
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| stop the situation from escalating? | 1/21/2008 |
Q: There is this guy at my grad school named Mo that I've met once or twice and just thought he was a ...
A: Ann, Follow your instincts ... this is a potentially dangerous situation. Call the police, make a ...
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| marriage | 11/28/2007 |
Q: I am a 29 year old woman currently in my last year of medical school, will be getting my M.D. this ...
A: Robyn, Congratulations on your progress. We can't schedule love but I'd give it the green light. ...
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| Midlife Relationship | 11/26/2007 |
Q: I am a 49 year old woman married and divorced twice. I have met a 55 year old man divorced who is ...
A: Cathy, Eccentric art teacher? Absolutely. Strait-laced salesman ... usually they're pretty outgoing! ...
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| younger men | 11/13/2007 |
Q: I'm a 25 year old woman and I live in Chicago, Illinois. I think in Illinois you have to be 18 to ...
A: Ana, Seventeen is the legal age of consent in Illinois according to a variety of sources. Bottom ...
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| single at 46 | 11/7/2007 |
Q: my name is John. I am 46, single, never married, no kids. The last time I had a steady girlfriend I ...
A: John, Today you are lonely and bitter, but you can be optimistic tomorrow, and in a positive ...
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| question | 11/3/2007 |
Q: My parents are immigrants in the US but I grew up in america so I'm pretty much americanized. I know ...
A: Yvonne, It is always difficult to understand the reason for someone's behavior that seems out of ...
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| relaoitnships with men | 10/30/2007 |
Q: What are some things women can do to make a man happy? (Assuming this is a man that genuinely loves ...
A: Leanne, Let's work backwards ... Yes, there is someone for everyone. As a matter of fact, there is ...
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| Proper introductions | 10/19/2007 |
Q: How to introduce your "Girlfriend" when you are both over 50?
A: Mike, There are no socially acceptable alternatives. In the past, only friend, fiance and wife were ...
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| Did I expect too much? | 10/8/2007 |
Q: I'm a 44 yr old female and a few months ago reconnected with 36 male that I was friends with around ...
A: S, Let's focus on the result, not the method. 'Is there something I do that makes them disappear ...
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| stood up | 10/7/2007 |
Q: I met a very nice gentleman I was interested in and he asked for my number and gave me his. He was ...
A: Elaina, I wish I was clairvoyant, but I'll give you the most likely scenario: You met, and were ...
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| Did I expect too much? | 10/6/2007 |
Q: I'm a 44 yr old female and a few months ago reconnected with 36 male that I was friends with around ...
A: S, Stop ... immediately! You do NOT owe him an apology, nor should you go out of your way to return ...
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| Did I expect too much? | 10/6/2007 |
Q: I'm a 44 yr old female and a few months ago reconnected with 36 male that I was friends with around ...
A: S, Let's start at the end of your questions. No, it was not "okay" for him to fall off the face of ...
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| friendship | 10/4/2007 |
Q: I am in love with a women who is a friend( for 2 years ), but she has a bf she is going to ...
A: Jim, RE: Friendship Between a Man and a Woman Doesn't exist. When a man and a woman are "friends," ...
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| dating | 10/4/2007 |
Q: How do I find my soulmate ?
A: Jim, It's a numbers game. Typically, you will have to date a lot to find that special someone that ...
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| friend or more | 10/1/2007 |
Q: I went to the grocery store and ended up meeting this amazing guy in the sugar/pancake aisle. Tall, ...
A: Ana, Move on ... sorry. Next time you meet an attractive guy—and I know there will be a next ...
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| call back | 9/29/2007 |
Q: Let's say a guy gives you his phone number and you give him his, and he says he'll call you. Let's ...
A: Natasha, Sometimes, 'I'll call you' means just that, and sometimes it's just a semi-polite way to ...
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| friend or more | 9/29/2007 |
Q: I went to the grocery store and ended up meeting this amazing guy in the sugar/pancake aisle. Tall, ...
A: If he hasn't called by now, I would be surprised! He is interested ... he asked for your number. He ...
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| dating at 50 | 8/26/2007 |
Q: I'm a reasonably attractive, highly intelligent woman w/ a good sense of humor and sense of fun, ...
A: Congratulations on closing the door on your destructive ex-husband. Let's keep that door locked and ...
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| sad story | 8/26/2007 |
Q: I was dating a man I was very much in love with. Him and I had a lot in common, same music, movies, ...
A: Ana, Yes. I don't know how old he is today, but I promise you he will regret losing the opportunity ...
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| sad story | 8/25/2007 |
Q: I was dating a man I was very much in love with. Him and I had a lot in common, same music, movies, ...
A: Ana, Yes, pining over him is pointless because you are a genuine, caring woman and he is a jerk. ...
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| On line corresponding | 8/15/2007 |
Q: A man that I would be interested in getting to know better asked to exchange phone numbers after we ...
A: Helene, Thank you for your question. Sounds like you're doing everything right! It is reasonable ...
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| How do I become more desireable to the right people? | 8/13/2007 |
Q: Leslie, I am a 23yr old gay male located in southern California. Since I was 18 and have come out ...
A: Jeffrey, It's not crazy and it's not confusing, but it's definitely frustrating and disappointing. ...
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