Dave Matthews Band/Say Goodbye

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Joseph,

Can you enlighten me on the basis of the song "Say Goodbye?" Why is DM writing/singing about having an affair? Did DM have an affair? Did he have personal issues that prompted this song?

FYI - I'm a "new" listener to DM, but I like other bands that have meaning/cause/passion (i.e. Midnight Oil, Live, U2).

I'm anxious for your response.
Tim

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The song is about 2 friends.  One of which wants to hook up with the other.  He asks her and then tries to convince her that just for one night we can be lovers.  I dont think that he ever had an affair, the song is probably from an earlier experience or fictional.

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Joseph Nasca

Expertise

I can answer pretty much all questions pertaning to the band members` biographies, song interpretation, almost anything you want to know I can find if I don`t already know.

Experience

I have been a DMB fan for about 6 years. I have gone to 18 shows so far, with 5 more this upcoming summer. I have every album, including about 30 bootlegs from various shows and interviews.

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I have been a member of the Warehouse for about 5 years. I also submit reviews to the nancies.org web site.

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I have had one printing of a DMB concert review in the Generation Newspaper at the University at Buffalo.

Education/Credentials
I have just completed college and I am heading to law school next year at the University at Buffalo

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