About Jenny Expertise I can answer questions about how to deal with a cheating boyfriend/husband. Questions about the anxiety of always wanting to know what your man is doing. I can give expert advice as to why is your bf/gf acting the way they're acting. Basically I can answer anything that has to deal with Jealousy and Control issues.
Experience I've had many real-life experiences in which I can relate to the writer. I took a few Psychology classes back in 2007 and I'm dealing with the subject.
Organizations Grand Beacon Center; Coaching young adults with life experiences.
Education/Credentials High School Diploma
Currently enrolled in the Medical field in college.
Question I've been in a relationship of 4 plus years with someone I feel really connected to, however, my concern comes with how she sometimes acts towards others. She grew up a bit of a tom boy so she feels comfortable around guys, however there's one that she talks to quite frequently where she shares some of our intimate stuff with and at closing in phone conversations or sometimes in messages they'll say "I love you". She states it's just love as a friend. I was previously in a relationship 6 plus yrs ago, where I was cheated on and I wanted to ask if I should be concerned or if I'm looking too much into it. Hopefully I provided enough information, I guess the question I have is, how do you take your bf/gf telling others "I love you"?
Answer Love is a very expanded word in the english vocabulary.
It can definitely mean a whole lot of different kinds of love.
"I love my mother", "I love my dog", "I love that color!"
if very different from:
"I love my girlfriend"
I think you're looking too much into it. Let it be. Just because you got cheated on doesn't mean that everyone's the same. I do believe in love between friends, no matter if is a boy and a girl.
As to your question, you should be grateful that she tells you that she loves him as a friend. Others would just hide it. Believe me, this advice is coming from a woman that has 2 best guy friends and Im married. So don't worry.
